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writes: So i just found out that my bf talks w/ his ex sometimes or i don't know how much, i thought they were just friends the way they were talking onlineat first, so i was just going to let it go, but i asked him about it and he lied saying he doesn't talk to any girl online. And i asked who "name" was he said its his ex. So of course him lying about it makes me suspicious. Then i signed on to his account and she msged, first it was ok, then she started sending these kinda disturbing icons that were like kissing/showing body parts etc. it made me feel uncomfortable, then i finally asked about valentines day, then she asked if he had one, then i said yes, she was like who then i said my grlfriend..then she goes oh, how come you never told me when i asked you so many times. She said i just asked u recently and you said you didn't have one because you were too busy". So what am i suppose to think after seeing this? Why is he hiding the fact that he has me? does he want her to fall back on? The way she was talking was like him being the honey and she was the bee, i can't believe after i told her he has a gf and that he loves me she just sort of ignores it, and tries hard to get what she wants. I asked her if she thought it was the right thing of her to do, she said yea it is if he would take her back. I think that shes so full of bs, she says stuff like i don't want to make u 2 argue because of me, i don't want to come between u 2....then says so would u leave her for me? and she asks that a billion times. He told her that i gavehim everything and she got mad and asked if she didn't give him everything and/or not good enough (meaning the sex) I just don't know wut world i'm living in anymore.yea i know i'm just ranting here sorry this is long, i'm so shocked i can't really pinpoint my question in the right way..i hope this gets approved. While shes at this she has a bf too that she lives with...is this wut the trend is nowadays or is she just some desperate whore?...(excuse me) this is so unbelievable to me, i've never encountered something like this in my life ever. I mean do you really think this girl loves my bf, if she can act like this now with her current bf? or is she just a big slut who cant get enough or what you call a nymphomaniac?(i think)..and we're not young kids..but then again i don't know if that has anything to do with it. Its like shes seducing my bf to get back with her...i can't believe something like this is happening...Well anyways if i keep on going it will be about the same stuff and you pretty much could guess the rest of the crap...so if anybody has any opinions of this or whatever..please do and just feel free to comment..Thanks a bunch
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reader, TELLULAH  +, writes (12 February 2007):
 Hi,
Its possible he didnt tell her about you, as he is enjoying the flirting with his old ex.
Really you should not have gone into private things, but i can understand why you did. Although a persons privacy is very personal, its very hard not to look sometimes.
You have a problem here now though, as to question him you will have to admit you were being a snoop. This will most likely cause an argument, and all hell will break lose because he is guilty.
Personaly I would have to confront him with this, and take the risk that he would be really angry. After all, you are his girlfriend and you deserve the truth.
Best of luck
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