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writes:hi I had just found out my girlfriend of 4 year and the mother of my 2 babys had cheat on me with a co-worker. i had already told her that if she wants to work it out she has to stop talking to him and stop seeing him. she agreed. but i want to confront him face to face. what should i do. i really love her with all my heart.
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reader, baby blue fairy  +, writes (12 February 2007):
maybe you should try and forget it. move on. it's your g.f you need to concentrate on. if you're still living in denial every day about what happened the other week it will effect your realtionship. forget him. your g.f obviously has, as she's back with you and it must be hard on her; you keep bringing it up wanting to see him. leave it. he's not worth it. and at the end of the day you got the result! your g.f! that's what you should be thinking of now and where to go from here as trust takes a long time to re heal. stop thinking of the other guy altogether. dragging up the past like that is no good for any one (long answer this has turned out to be soz !!) best of luck hope this helps
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reader, cseame  +, writes (12 February 2007):
 I'm sure you just want to see who this guy was which would be perfectly normal.
You can explain this to your girlfriend nicely and assure her you won't do anything to hurt him, then i'm sure she'll understand and let you meet him.
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