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Archived questions from: December, 2006 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

She ended it-now she's with an older guy who is married! How do I deal with all this heartache?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6219 days ago

31 December 2006 (M) - me and my girlfriend have been going out for 1 year and 3 months and she recently broke up with me she said it might not be permanent she said she needs time to think and she does not have the same feelings anymore i have been upset all week and she ...

I don't know if I'll ever trust her again..but I love her and want her back! Advice please!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6539 days ago

31 December 2006 (M) - Hi there. I'm really in a bind here. So it all started about 2 months ago when my girlfriend of 3 and a half years said she needed a break. We'd had a few problems in the past. We both live at our parents houses still because i have been saving...

My problem with shyness makes me freeze up when it comes to talking to boys! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6541 days ago

31 December 2006 (F) - i'm a sixteen year old girl who has problems with shyness. whenever i find a guy that i'm interested in i just completely freeze and find it really hard to talk to them in person. as a result i've never had a proper relationship. theres a guy that ...

There's a boy I like and a girl I hate..both are playing games with me. How do I get to the truth?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6541 days ago

31 December 2006 (F) - i don't know who to belive. Theres a boy i like and have previosly done things with and theres a girl i hate and i went on a secret messenger account and added her and tried 2 find out things but she didnt know it was me and she said that the lad i ...

He's 51 and I'm 20..I like him but I know we have no future together. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6496 days ago

31 December 2006 (F) - I'm 20 and having a sexual relationship with a 51 year old man. He is very attractive and fit for his age and treats me with respect. We've not told any one because of the age gap, i like him but i know we have no future. I've also stopped looking ...

I'm always last on his priority list..I feel unwanted! What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3677 days ago

31 December 2006 (F) - Hi everyone, thankyou for taking time to read this. I have been with my bf for 6 years, however i cant help but feel neglected. He never bothers with valentines, birthdays, anniversarys, he just never seems so spare a thought for me, its not like...

My ex bf treated his ex gf like a pricess, but not me! Why do guys not treat all their gf's the same...what was wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6540 days ago

31 December 2006 (F) - Do guys treat all of their girlfriends the same? See my ex didn’t treat me like the princess he claimed he treated his ex like. I keep thinking it must be something I was doing wrong and I guess I would get some reassurance if I knew he treated ...

He has a gf but wants to break up with her, to be with me...should I continue with him or give up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6537 days ago

31 December 2006 (F) - There is this guy whom I would like to be with but he has a live-in girlfreind. He says he is done with her and wants her out. Do you see us being together or should I just give up on him....

Do her glances at me..mean that she likes me too?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6523 days ago

31 December 2006 (M) - There is this girl that I fancy (she doesn't know this) and everytime I walk past her she looks at me. I look at her everytime I walk past her and she looks at me to. Could this mean she fancies me? Thanks for yiur help. ...

Both past ex bf's contatced me recently--Why do you think they are doing this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6538 days ago

31 December 2006 (F) - Been out with two guys over the last two years one relationship lasted 6 months which was a year ago and the other lasted 3 months which was 5 months ago both ending because the guys only wanted something casual which isnt for me. This Chri...

Do you think absence will make her heart grow fonder... could we possibly have another chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6541 days ago

31 December 2006 (F) - Ok I was a gay relationship for 2 years. We were so close and did everything today but she broke up with me a couple of days ago. Im heart broken she said she wants to go into 2007 single, she wont ever get back with me because Ive hurt her too much ...

She accused me of cheating and broke it all off! But I didn't do anything like that-what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6540 days ago

31 December 2006 (M) - im with this girl (been with for about 2 n a half months) who i love a lot and we were getting on fine, but just lately over xmas and new year she has suddenly seemed to 'go off' me, and yesterday she was accusing me of cheating on her and saying ...

He says that relationships never work out... how do I convince him otherwise!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6502 days ago

31 December 2006 (F) - So I like this guy and he is the same age as me and he likes me too. But the problem is he doesn't want to go out because he believes that relationships never work out and that we will probably end up hating each other. I want to convince him that ...

New bf doesn't respect my boundries..should I cut him loose?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6540 days ago

31 December 2006 (F) - Am I over reacting or is this a warning sign? My new boyfriend spanked my bum last night. At first it was just along to the rhythm of the music in the pub and it made me a little uncomfortable but I didn’t want to say anything while we were in...

Together 7 years and we live together but we have big problems. Should I move out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6540 days ago

31 December 2006 (F) - Q: Should I move out? Here's why... about two months ago, my boyfriend of 7 years became very protective over his cell phone. When I questioned him, he told me it was just texts from his male friends. I should have known better at that point, but ...

She hangs with her ex bf and I don't like it! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6540 days ago

31 December 2006 (M) - i have been seeing my current girlfriend now for two months. she hangs out with her ex when i am not around and she invites him over to her house even when i am there. i have told her that i don't think it's right but she says they are just friends ...

I loved him and we broke up! Why won't he tell me why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6541 days ago

31 December 2006 (F) - I was in a relationship for about a year. It was obvious to me and to everyone around me that he was deeply in love with me. I don't know what happenned, but one day he broke up with me using stupid excuses. He's abroad now and we're still in touch ...

Why would he try to have sex with me when I was sleeping?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6331 days ago

31 December 2006 (F) - Hi, this is my first ever question. my bf and i have been together for nearly two years. I came home late very tired, he stayed over at my place. we went to bed and i awoke to him trying to have sex with me. I just dont know what to think, we have a ...

I like him so should I ask him-if he likes me or just wait it out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6540 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - So.. A few weeks ago I told my best guy friend that I liked him, because it was killing me inside just holding it all in. He didn't show a positive response when I told him, so I told him I don't want things to change between us (when I really d...

We work together and have sex together too-not sure how to act around him at work? Any advice

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6541 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - Hello there.. im in love with someone at work, we've exchanged flirty emails and we slept together at a works do then we both must have been embarrassed because we never spoke about it or mentioned it again until now on another works do i saw him ...

I have a bf but lately, I've been crushing after other guys. Why am I doing this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6539 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for about 1.5 years, friends for two years beforehand. Lately I've found myself having stupid little schoolgirl crushes on other guys, and it's scaring me. I'd never cheat on my boyfriend and I would NEVER give him u...

I met up with one of my exes again and can't remember anything about him. Why is this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6539 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - i have a weird thing goin on. i was in a serious r'ship with a guy goin back 6 yrs ago which lasted 2yrs. we didnt communicate well back then, and we were young. and things fizzled out due to stuff we both had done, he broke my heart, but i probably...

He got dumped by his gf and I like him! Should I ask him out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6542 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - theres a boy i really fancy hes only just been dropped by his girlfriend. do you think i should get in there and ask him or not? please help?...

He's married with 3 kids and I just had his 4th! We argue all the time..is this ever going to work?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6541 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - my boyfriend is married with 3 chldren and ive just had his forth (a baby girl) i love him but we argue all the time. do you think its ever going to work?...

Torn between two guys I like a lot..what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6542 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - i dont no what to do . . .i'm going out with this lad i like him and he likes me, our relationship is steady. . .but i think i also fanci this other lad who i've liked for ages and he is giving some signals of liking me 2 now i'm confused about my ...

I like my son's 17 year old gf! How do I deal with this situation?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6539 days ago

30 December 2006 (M) - My names *Andrew I have a son, hes 19 years old. Im 36, yes I was young when he was born. Hes been dating this girl, *Ashley for six months now. Shes 17 but will be 18 in a few months. They like each other alot but im sure theyre not in love. ...

I'm in a new relationship but my heart aches for my ex bf! Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6542 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - About 4 years ago I was dating this guy that I was head over heels for. Unfortunatly we ended up breaking up. We are now both in new relationships but I miss him. I still have strong feelings for him and still love him. I love my boyfriend now ...

My ex gf wants back in my life after she had cheated and lied to me! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6541 days ago

30 December 2006 (M) - well, long story short me an my girlfriend broke up like 2 or 3 weeks ago. we had been dating for like 2 weeks away from a year. she borke up with me, and then a few days later i found she had lied, gone to a dance and slowdanced a few times with a ...

He keeps giving me the brush off and I'm upset! Am I over-reacting to all this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6540 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - I met a man on the internet after a month of talking to him etc,anyway when we did meet i was totally smitten with him from the start and it looked like he was keen as well.Well we have arranged to meet again in the new year,now my problem is ...

Marriage is what he wants but I'm wary as I was stood up at the alter, in my past. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6542 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - i'm in love with my bf and we've been seeing each other for 6 months even though we have been friends for about 5 years. The problem is that he wants us to get married and i'm not sure if i really consider marriage for me as i was stood up at ...

I saw him with his new gf today and I can't stop crying! How do I get him back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6541 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - Dear Cupids I'm in distress!! I thought I was over my ex-bf but today I saw him with another girl and I haven't been able to stop crying ever since. He seems so happy and was holding her like he never held me. I want him so badly, how do I make him...

My partner had an affair and a drinking problem! He's back but nothing has changed. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6542 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - Partner had an affair with a friend also has a small drink problem too him back after 4 weeks but nothing has changed very unhappy what should i do i think its over ...

Did he leave me because he thought life would be better without him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6542 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - Is there anything I can do? My boyfriend of 6 years broke up with me 8 months ago and as you can probably guess I've had a tough, very depressed time trying to get on with my life. I thought he was the man I would spend the rest of my life with but ...

Once a guy calls me for a date-I get scared and push them away? Why do I do this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6542 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - i have a problem getting close to guys. every time im interested in a guy, and want them to like me, everything is fine until they confirm that they ACTUALLY do like me. once that happens....and they call, and want to know me better, i get scared ...

I'm 16.I love my bf but .I have fears about my relationship. Advice please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6542 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - Me(16) and my boyfriend (20) of 1.5 years has had sex for 3 times already, we are in a very loving relationship,but I fear that if we start having sex alot the relationship will be more based on that than on love.And I fear losing him. Am I just ...

I now want him to be my boyfriend..What should I do to change the situation and win him back into my life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6542 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - Hi, I’m 24 and I started a new job this year, which I love to bits, and in the process, got to know one of my collegues, (he’s 20), who was giving me lots of attention and flirty compliments. At the time, we were both single and he asked me out for ...

The mystery woman on his message machine was his ex gf! She wants him back--so what should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6542 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - I have been with my current bf since the first of July 06. We live together and things were going so good, that is until these phone calls started coming in. There is a caller ID and also an answering machine for messages. Well, this female v...

We broke up but now he's messing with me--what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6542 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - okay my name is iesha i had a boyfriend for like a month we had sex then a couple of weeks we broke up so he be messing with me, toughing me on my butt? what should i do im in love wit this boy!...

I want a relationship and I don't want to be a virgin! What's wrong with me..why can"t I find someone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6542 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - Hey! I'm a 22 year old female virgin :/...i'm don't believe i'm ugly, I have gotten guys before but always tend to not call them back or back away from them because of insecurities. I'm a little over weight, I weight 145 and am 5'5...but I don't ...

His actions and words don't match up! Was he really my soul mate...or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6542 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - I have been with the man of my dreams for a year. I love him dearly, and he is my soul mate...and he said im his. However, over this year we've had a few ups and downs...he said we cant marry when he said we could, also said we should look for a ...

When you are drunk.. can you really not control what you are doing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6542 days ago

30 December 2006 (M) - dear cupid, when you are drunk can you really not control what you are doing or do you show you true feelings? an example is that my friend says he wouldn't kiss a girl but when he was drunk he did kiss her and also they were really close to each ...

Had sex and found out after...the condom split! What do we do now?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6183 days ago

30 December 2006 (?) - Well yesterday me and my boyfriend had sex and it was all going well until we finished and noticed the condom had split. We are always safe and have never done anything unprotected but this suddenly happened and i dont know what to do about it were ...

He wants me with him all the time. How do I let him know...time apart is okay?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6542 days ago

30 December 2006 (M) - Hi, I need some advice on how to deal with my partner, he basically expects me to stay in every night, and every day with him, and every time i enjoy any time apart from him, say drinks with work colleagues, a huge row ensues. I have tried reaso...

He ended their relationship! . Is he just running scared or is he really over her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6542 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - my friend and her boyfriend broke up. she still loves him. she called him and when he said he was over her he didnt sound convincing. i know he loved her by the way he talked about her when they went out. he said they were just going too fast so he ...

I know he likes me--why isnt he making the first move as guys always do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6541 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - Hiya - well ive been in love with the same man for 3 yrs now. even tho i am only 17 i feel as if i am more mature than other girls of my age e.g. i will only have sex with the man i am in love with and i am also very careful to analyse my feelings ...

He says I am a pain in the a**! How do I make this relationship work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6542 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - dear cupid, ive been through a lot of rough relationship,and i'm with a great guy right now, but everytime he wants to get close to me figuratively i just back away i have this fear and scared to loose him but he said that i am difficult too and ...

All I’ve only wanted to do is get to know her and have a romance. Have I been naive and foolish? Any advice is apprciated.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6523 days ago

30 December 2006 (M) - I am a bachelor in my late forties, who has tended to avoid relationships – basically you can get hurt! Over the past 7 years, my attitude has altered somewhat – I’m getting older; contemplararies are either been long-married/in relationships and ...

She told me she has a history of cheating...should I leave this girl alone and wait for her to call me or pursue her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6542 days ago

30 December 2006 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been seeing each other for 5 months now. We met at school and now that were on our semester break, she went back to her home in Boston and I live here in San Francisco, 3,000 miles away. I can't help but think about ...

I am 13 and got drunk at a party..did this older boy take advantage of me? Any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6541 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - By the way, I'm a girl, and I'm 13. Yesterday I went to a friend's brother's birthday party, and had a little too much to drink. I can remember that a guy who was 15/16 kissed me, before pulling away and saying that he thought the host would kill ...

He's a really great guy--so how do I know if he likes me back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6542 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - hi im 21 and the guy that im crushing on is 31. He is a manager at my work in a diff department tho. He doesnt have a gf/wife him and i get along great! I usually give him a hand movement whenever i leave but the other day he gave me a ...