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Archived questions from: 30 December, 2006 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I like him so should I ask him-if he likes me or just wait it out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6540 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - So.. A few weeks ago I told my best guy friend that I liked him, because it was killing me inside just holding it all in. He didn't show a positive response when I told him, so I told him I don't want things to change between us (when I really d...

We work together and have sex together too-not sure how to act around him at work? Any advice

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6541 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - Hello there.. im in love with someone at work, we've exchanged flirty emails and we slept together at a works do then we both must have been embarrassed because we never spoke about it or mentioned it again until now on another works do i saw him ...

I have a bf but lately, I've been crushing after other guys. Why am I doing this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6539 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for about 1.5 years, friends for two years beforehand. Lately I've found myself having stupid little schoolgirl crushes on other guys, and it's scaring me. I'd never cheat on my boyfriend and I would NEVER give him u...

I met up with one of my exes again and can't remember anything about him. Why is this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6539 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - i have a weird thing goin on. i was in a serious r'ship with a guy goin back 6 yrs ago which lasted 2yrs. we didnt communicate well back then, and we were young. and things fizzled out due to stuff we both had done, he broke my heart, but i probably...

He got dumped by his gf and I like him! Should I ask him out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6542 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - theres a boy i really fancy hes only just been dropped by his girlfriend. do you think i should get in there and ask him or not? please help?...

He's married with 3 kids and I just had his 4th! We argue all the time..is this ever going to work?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6541 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - my boyfriend is married with 3 chldren and ive just had his forth (a baby girl) i love him but we argue all the time. do you think its ever going to work?...

Torn between two guys I like a lot..what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6542 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - i dont no what to do . . .i'm going out with this lad i like him and he likes me, our relationship is steady. . .but i think i also fanci this other lad who i've liked for ages and he is giving some signals of liking me 2 now i'm confused about my ...

I like my son's 17 year old gf! How do I deal with this situation?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6539 days ago

30 December 2006 (M) - My names *Andrew I have a son, hes 19 years old. Im 36, yes I was young when he was born. Hes been dating this girl, *Ashley for six months now. Shes 17 but will be 18 in a few months. They like each other alot but im sure theyre not in love. ...

I'm in a new relationship but my heart aches for my ex bf! Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6542 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - About 4 years ago I was dating this guy that I was head over heels for. Unfortunatly we ended up breaking up. We are now both in new relationships but I miss him. I still have strong feelings for him and still love him. I love my boyfriend now ...

My ex gf wants back in my life after she had cheated and lied to me! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6541 days ago

30 December 2006 (M) - well, long story short me an my girlfriend broke up like 2 or 3 weeks ago. we had been dating for like 2 weeks away from a year. she borke up with me, and then a few days later i found she had lied, gone to a dance and slowdanced a few times with a ...

He keeps giving me the brush off and I'm upset! Am I over-reacting to all this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6540 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - I met a man on the internet after a month of talking to him etc,anyway when we did meet i was totally smitten with him from the start and it looked like he was keen as well.Well we have arranged to meet again in the new year,now my problem is ...

Marriage is what he wants but I'm wary as I was stood up at the alter, in my past. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6542 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - i'm in love with my bf and we've been seeing each other for 6 months even though we have been friends for about 5 years. The problem is that he wants us to get married and i'm not sure if i really consider marriage for me as i was stood up at ...

I saw him with his new gf today and I can't stop crying! How do I get him back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6541 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - Dear Cupids I'm in distress!! I thought I was over my ex-bf but today I saw him with another girl and I haven't been able to stop crying ever since. He seems so happy and was holding her like he never held me. I want him so badly, how do I make him...

My partner had an affair and a drinking problem! He's back but nothing has changed. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6542 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - Partner had an affair with a friend also has a small drink problem too him back after 4 weeks but nothing has changed very unhappy what should i do i think its over ...

Did he leave me because he thought life would be better without him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6542 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - Is there anything I can do? My boyfriend of 6 years broke up with me 8 months ago and as you can probably guess I've had a tough, very depressed time trying to get on with my life. I thought he was the man I would spend the rest of my life with but ...

Once a guy calls me for a date-I get scared and push them away? Why do I do this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6542 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - i have a problem getting close to guys. every time im interested in a guy, and want them to like me, everything is fine until they confirm that they ACTUALLY do like me. once that happens....and they call, and want to know me better, i get scared ...

I'm 16.I love my bf but .I have fears about my relationship. Advice please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6542 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - Me(16) and my boyfriend (20) of 1.5 years has had sex for 3 times already, we are in a very loving relationship,but I fear that if we start having sex alot the relationship will be more based on that than on love.And I fear losing him. Am I just ...

I now want him to be my boyfriend..What should I do to change the situation and win him back into my life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6542 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - Hi, I’m 24 and I started a new job this year, which I love to bits, and in the process, got to know one of my collegues, (he’s 20), who was giving me lots of attention and flirty compliments. At the time, we were both single and he asked me out for ...

The mystery woman on his message machine was his ex gf! She wants him back--so what should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6542 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - I have been with my current bf since the first of July 06. We live together and things were going so good, that is until these phone calls started coming in. There is a caller ID and also an answering machine for messages. Well, this female v...

We broke up but now he's messing with me--what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6542 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - okay my name is iesha i had a boyfriend for like a month we had sex then a couple of weeks we broke up so he be messing with me, toughing me on my butt? what should i do im in love wit this boy!...

I want a relationship and I don't want to be a virgin! What's wrong with me..why can"t I find someone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6542 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - Hey! I'm a 22 year old female virgin :/...i'm don't believe i'm ugly, I have gotten guys before but always tend to not call them back or back away from them because of insecurities. I'm a little over weight, I weight 145 and am 5'5...but I don't ...

His actions and words don't match up! Was he really my soul mate...or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6542 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - I have been with the man of my dreams for a year. I love him dearly, and he is my soul mate...and he said im his. However, over this year we've had a few ups and downs...he said we cant marry when he said we could, also said we should look for a ...

When you are drunk.. can you really not control what you are doing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6542 days ago

30 December 2006 (M) - dear cupid, when you are drunk can you really not control what you are doing or do you show you true feelings? an example is that my friend says he wouldn't kiss a girl but when he was drunk he did kiss her and also they were really close to each ...

Had sex and found out after...the condom split! What do we do now?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6183 days ago

30 December 2006 (?) - Well yesterday me and my boyfriend had sex and it was all going well until we finished and noticed the condom had split. We are always safe and have never done anything unprotected but this suddenly happened and i dont know what to do about it were ...

He wants me with him all the time. How do I let him know...time apart is okay?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6542 days ago

30 December 2006 (M) - Hi, I need some advice on how to deal with my partner, he basically expects me to stay in every night, and every day with him, and every time i enjoy any time apart from him, say drinks with work colleagues, a huge row ensues. I have tried reaso...

He ended their relationship! . Is he just running scared or is he really over her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6542 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - my friend and her boyfriend broke up. she still loves him. she called him and when he said he was over her he didnt sound convincing. i know he loved her by the way he talked about her when they went out. he said they were just going too fast so he ...

I know he likes me--why isnt he making the first move as guys always do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6541 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - Hiya - well ive been in love with the same man for 3 yrs now. even tho i am only 17 i feel as if i am more mature than other girls of my age e.g. i will only have sex with the man i am in love with and i am also very careful to analyse my feelings ...

He says I am a pain in the a**! How do I make this relationship work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6542 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - dear cupid, ive been through a lot of rough relationship,and i'm with a great guy right now, but everytime he wants to get close to me figuratively i just back away i have this fear and scared to loose him but he said that i am difficult too and ...

All I’ve only wanted to do is get to know her and have a romance. Have I been naive and foolish? Any advice is apprciated.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6523 days ago

30 December 2006 (M) - I am a bachelor in my late forties, who has tended to avoid relationships – basically you can get hurt! Over the past 7 years, my attitude has altered somewhat – I’m getting older; contemplararies are either been long-married/in relationships and ...

She told me she has a history of cheating...should I leave this girl alone and wait for her to call me or pursue her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6542 days ago

30 December 2006 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been seeing each other for 5 months now. We met at school and now that were on our semester break, she went back to her home in Boston and I live here in San Francisco, 3,000 miles away. I can't help but think about ...

I am 13 and got drunk at a party..did this older boy take advantage of me? Any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6541 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - By the way, I'm a girl, and I'm 13. Yesterday I went to a friend's brother's birthday party, and had a little too much to drink. I can remember that a guy who was 15/16 kissed me, before pulling away and saying that he thought the host would kill ...

He's a really great guy--so how do I know if he likes me back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6542 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - hi im 21 and the guy that im crushing on is 31. He is a manager at my work in a diff department tho. He doesnt have a gf/wife him and i get along great! I usually give him a hand movement whenever i leave but the other day he gave me a ...

Help! I'm in love with two men...which one do I choose?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6542 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - im in love with two guys, one i dated for 2 years through highschool and then broke up with during uni because it was to far. i met a guy in uni right after and things moved way to quickly, we started dating pretty much right after i broke up with ...

My daughter is dating a man I disapprove of and it driving a wedge between us! Help?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 6515 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - Hi, please help. My daughter is 18 almost 19 years old and dating a really old guy, he's 27 and I disapprove very much. My daughter lives on her own and pays her own bills so she assumes this means that i have no control over her. she's been seein...

I don't want to appear pushy..so should I e-mail him again or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6541 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - I met a guy in October, we've been Emailing each other pretty much every day, met up 3 times. He lives in another city, so the last time we met up, he said he would be leaving after the New Year so we should meet up again. We exchanged X'mas ...

I want to forgive her but the scene keeps playing in my mind! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6542 days ago

30 December 2006 (M) - Right well, here it goes! I've been with my girlfriend since March '05. We get on so great, we are made for each other, I just know we are. I love her with all my heart and soul and I know she feels the same. We very rarely fought, and if we ever ...

Love at first site with my bf but I also love and dream about my friend every night!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6542 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - I have been dating a guy for about a month now and it was love at first sight. But, I have a very close friend and I love him, too. Now that I'm dating I have been having dreams literaly every night about him. In my dreams I am dating him and my ...

I desperately like him but it's obvious he doesn't want to be with me. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6542 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - my life is so hard a lad i really love who ive never felt this way about anybody before says he likes me when he might be getting something off me and doesn't act like it afterwards and doesn't want to do those things . I try to hard i hate my life ...

Get back with the ex or try my college mate!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6542 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid...im new here and need some help Should i get back with my ex or try with my college mate. Me and my ex (let call him N) broke up about 2months ago, he now wants to meet up and talk about giving it another go. But im unsure, i still ...

He 's balck..I'm white and my family are against interracial relationships! What should I do?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5807 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - I would like some feedback on what to do about this situation. I have met a great guy recently who I really like and who likes me. He is black and I am white. He has only dateed white women and his family has no problem with it. I've never dated a ...

How can "us" girls know if a guy is sincere and genuine?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6541 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - How can us girls tell if a guy is sincere and genuine in what he says? I read many problems where the guy is fantastic to start with and then becomes cold and distant and changes beyond all recognition to someone the girl hardly recognises. I am ...