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Dating: Help and advice

An update to my saga

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4 December 2006 (F) - There has been an update to my saga... so know i am more confused and not sure what it all means.. Friends say one thing and other friends say another.. the basic story is: My boyfriend and I have been together 7 months, and we fell in love ver...

There's no way hes walking all over me anymore!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6567 days ago

4 December 2006 (F) - Ok, where do i start?! Baically i(18) was seeing this guy(25) for about 9 weeks. At first it was soo great! We wernt together but kinda where if u know what i mean...like we didnt say we were bf and gf but we never went off with other people. After ...

I deserve to be treated better..I just don't know how to say goodbye and move on. What should I do?

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4 December 2006 (F) - i have been with boyfriend for over 5 years and i want to leave him. i still love him dearly, but i deserve to be treated better. i dont know how to let go. we have been through thick and thin together. and he helps me whenever i need it. i dont ...

Would the age difference be too weird?

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4 December 2006 (F) - I am 16 years old and in grade 11 in high school, and my problem is that I have a crush on a guy in grade 9, and I know that he likes me too. If we were to get together, would it work out, or would the age difference be too weird?...

I'm confident socially with friends but I am too nervous when asking a girl out!

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4 December 2006 (M) - I'm 19, and I'll admit I'm fairly confident when talking to new people, and I don't cower down if someone has a go at me. Yet I'm always too nervous to ask a girl out. Is this normal?...

He trusts me enough to go into a business venture with me after only 4 months! Should I be concerned?

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4 December 2006 (F) - well,,, my dad is a very wealthy man but we'v never had a close relationship ,,, anyway he said he'd buy me a salon as im a hairdrsser for a kik start in life! anyway he doesnt live around here hes always away with his company's so he sent his right ...

Bf has decided to call it quits! Should I keep trying to get him back or should I give up?

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4 December 2006 (F) - I was going with my bf for 1 1/2 yrs and he has now decided that we should split. He has told me that we are too different but I think we were good together. During the time we were together he always avoided me meeting his parents, although he had ...

He called off our engagement because he said "I forced him to propose?"

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4 December 2006 (F) - My fiance recently called off our engagement, because he said I forced him to propose. He said he never wanted to get married but since I would leave he asked. He was the one who pushed to have an engagement party, and he told all his childhood ...

She broke it off with her bf to be with me - but now I like her best friend!

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4 December 2006 (M) - Hi, I have recently started going out with this girl and im really close with all of her friends. the only thing is i really like her best friend, i would just tell her but she went through alot to be with me. she had a boyfriend and she broke it...

I'm 13 and this man from Turkey tells me he loves me...on MSN. What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6565 days ago

4 December 2006 (F) - Ok, im 13 right? This man from Turkey added me on MSN and we have been speaking for around a month or two, and he tells me he loves me, he is 18, and i know he is because he showed me his ID and he also speaks turkish and lives in Istanbul, Digorlu....

I'm 18, he's 28. What can I say to reassure my mum that it's okay?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6504 days ago

4 December 2006 (F) - Hey, I have a quite difficult situation at the moment. I split with my boyfriend of 3 years nearly a month ago and i have been seeing this guy over the past 10 days who i really like. The only thing is, im 18 and he is 28. He is such a genuine ...

After trying again at our relationship, I found he's on porno sites and emailing ladies!

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4 December 2006 (F) - My partner and I were together for 12 years then we split up for two years, I asked him if we could get back together and after a long while he said yes. Now I find that he is on a porno site and sending messages to ladies. I feel very unhappy about ...

He is so controlling that he even talked me out of going to uni! But will I regret leaving him?

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4 December 2006 (F) - i have been in a relationship for two years and it doesnt seem to be going anywhere, there is a history of him sort of controlling me and where my life is going. he told me that i couldnt go to uni because we would not work, so i didnt. i dont know ...

I'm insecure and trusting b/c of my last marriage. My new guy thinks I need more "alone" time. Any advice?

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4 December 2006 (F) - I am 45 yr old newly divorced woman who is working very hard to work through the dysfunction from my marriage. I was married 20 yrs to a mentally ill man and found myself in a co-dependent situation. For this reason I believe myself to be somewhat ...

He was flirting with me - eventually I asked him out. He said no! I feel depressed and embarassed - help!

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4 December 2006 (F) - hi, well ive been flirting with this boy i met and he flirts back every time i see him. we went out the other nite and had an amzing night, we were huggng and everything. so all his friends were telling me how much he faniced me and that i should a...

I'm in a new relationship - should I get back on the pill asap?

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4 December 2006 (F) - i havent been on the pill before an am just starting a new relationship, should i go on the pill straight away? or wait a while, jst incase we split... how long should i wait?...

He has women's numbers and texts saved under men's names in his phone!

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4 December 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 3.5 years. We have been having problems and I have found a number of text messages to 3 different women he has listed on his phone as men's names. He says that there is nothing wrong with this and that I am ...

He says he's bi but prefers women but likes men and has never had full sex with a man! Huh?

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4 December 2006 (F) - bf of 3 mths has just told me he is bi-sexual says he preferes women but likes men says he hasnt had full sex with a guy...

I am trying to impress this lad so what can I do--to turn him on!

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4 December 2006 (F) - what is a turn on for a lad? what things please help im trying to impress someome...

I split with my bf of 8 years, to be with someone else and now that has gone wrong. How do I cope?

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4 December 2006 (F) - I am 26 and for the last 8 years I have always been with someone in a relationship over the xmas period, when it is also my birthday. I have my family and friends but I split with my long-term boyfriend this year and it's going to seem very strange ...

Things kind of fizzled between us...what can I do to get his attentions again?

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4 December 2006 (F) - Some advice please. I was seeing a guy things kind of fizzled out due to loss of contact from both of us. I have realised I really like him and would like to see him again. He hasn't told me he does not wish to see me again, likewise I did n...

I recently caught my girlfriend going through my text messages. What does this mean?

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4 December 2006 (M) - I recently caught my girlfriend going through my text messages. What does this mean? We have had a decent relationship with no major issues..why would she be doing this? Does she not trust me or maybe has she been doing something wrong and trying ...

He downloads porn and I feel disgusted when I look at him! What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6564 days ago

4 December 2006 (F) - He looks or looked at porn, has downloaded porn from the net. we talked about it and i how i feel about it and well it doesnt look like he is going to stop because he doesnt think its a problem. i see him as a pig and pervert and im disgusted by ...

I'm in a relationship, but I have feelings of lust for a coworker and I even dream of her!

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4 December 2006 (F) - hi ive been in a new job now for 6 months and in a relationship for 4 years but recently ive been getting funny lust feelings from a collegue it makes me not think about anything else i love my partner but i dont know what to do about these feelings ...

I've lost my sex drive with my bf! Help!

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4 December 2006 (F) - i am 19 and have been with my boyfriend 4 years but ive lost my sex drive, help...

Because of my past, fear is overcoming my joy - I think I love him, but I'm afraid. Help!

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4 December 2006 (F) - i'm 32 and ive been through alot both in life and relationships.i have been physically and sexually abused in the past. For the past few years i have decided that it will be better to be alone, no heartaches or pain. I met someone who i think re...

Met him online 3 months ago...moved myself and my kids in with him! Now I find out he has big financial troubles!

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4 December 2006 (F) - I meet a guy three months ago over the internet and we live about 5 hours apart but for the first six weeks he came down to see me every weekend and and after that we moved in together I found out that he had a lot of financial problems and I only ...

I asked him about our status and he's gone 'cold' on me! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6568 days ago

4 December 2006 (F) - Hi I really liked a guy I was seeing I am 26 he is just 28. Since I brought up the situation of the status of our relationship he has gone cold with not much contact. What can I do to really get him to take notice and get him to be like he was ...

Worried that my weakness in bedroom will cause me to lose my gf...what can I do?

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4 December 2006 (?) - Please help me on what to do. my problem is that I never satify my girl friend with sex in the bedroom, I always get weak when you need sex from me mostly, please can you tell me what most be the cost of it and what is the ways out of it too? Coz I ...

I've unawarely fallen in love with a married guy...I don't know what to do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6568 days ago

4 December 2006 (F) - I am in love with a married and i don't know what to do, i really love the guy but i don't want to be a home wracker, but what do i do cause i really have strong feelings for the guy, i didn't know that he was married when i meet him and i have just ...

He wants to move and start over fresh if we were to marry - I think we should settle first, though! Am I wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6566 days ago

4 December 2006 (F) - Hi. my boyfriend feels it is time we settle down and get married. i love him with all my heart and him the same. The problem is that he wants us to travel someone new and start over because both of us arent really making it with regards to our ...

He wants kids and I don't think I can have them. I don't want to let him go, but I will if it's better for him. Help!

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4 December 2006 (F) - I am really messed up. I have been seeing a guy who is 12 years younger and I have the best connection with him that I have ever had with anyone. But I am 46 and was married for 10 years, but no kids. Its sweet tender supportive and smart with this ...

His text said he couldn't stop laughing about how she fell off the bed. Is he cheating??

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4 December 2006 (F) - My boyfriend was out with some of his work the other nite and some of them went back to one of the girls house. I looked on his phone and he'd a message in his sent items to her saying he couldnt stop laughing when he thought about her falling off ...

We just have sex, but now I want more. How do I tell him?

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4 December 2006 (F) - hi well iv known this guy for 10years now we have always had sex when we see each over but think im falling for him now and wanting more. how do i tell him when he can disserpear for months then just turn up?...

My long distance bf wants a break - I'm devastated and don't know what to do!

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4 December 2006 (F) - Im going through a very hard time, I would appreciate help from anyone who can offer me advice. My long distance boyfriend of two years, who i love dearly, told me a week ago on the phone that he's really unsure about our future together. he fee...

My partner is insecure and it's making me resentful - I feel I need some space but it would be taken the wrong way! Help!

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4 December 2006 (M) - Ive been with my partner now for around a year.Everything has been great but now its starting to niggle me a bit.I have always done my best to prove my love for them infact a lot more than what i have had back in return.But i dont need reassurance ...

I feel like our relationship isn't progressing - what should I do to keep it going?

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4 December 2006 (M) - I have been going out with my gf for 4 months now, its going well i love her to bits and i feel she loves me, But the thing is the relationship isnt going anywhere yeah we hug and kiss alot, but it seems the same every time i see her every 2 days, ...

I feel like her friend or even her psychologist instead of her boyfriend! I don't know what to do.

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4 December 2006 (M) - My girlfriend and I are both 20, attend the same college and have been together for 2 years. The first time I met her we were both immediately attracted to each other; we were both very outgoing, funloving, loved to go out and have a good time and ...

He keeps telling me its over, and then saying he loves me! I'm so confused. Help!

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4 December 2006 (M) - Relationship troubles..........ARGH! My boyfriend of almost 2 yrs just broke up with me yet again. 3 weeks ago we called it quits, we still kind of talked. I was angry and hurt and wanted to get him back. I was asked out by this guy 2wks ago and ...

He says we would have to move to get married, but I don't want to do that!

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4 December 2006 (F) - me and my boyfriend want to get married and whenever we start really talking about it he says that we would have to move to make it work and i really dont want to move but i do want to be with him. what should i do?...

I am not ready to be fingered yet - but I don't want to offend him! How do I tell him?

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4 December 2006 (F) - I've been dating this guy for a while, and I really like him, but he really really wants to finger me. I've never let anyone do that to me before, so I'm not ready, but I feel bad telling him because I'm afraid he'll be offended. How do i tell him ...

I'm very self conscious about dancing... help!

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4 December 2006 (M) - Hi- I have an important question that could really change where my life is going, but it is pretty embarassing and I don't think most people will understand. I am super self-conscious about dancing, and every time I go to a school dance (only a few ...

Do I stay with him in hopes he falls in love with me or do I end it?

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4 December 2006 (F) - I am very confused about my relationship with my boyfriend of 3 months. For example, if someone said to you after you had sex together for the first time that they weren’t sure if they were in love with you or not, what would u do given that is ...

He can be nice but then he treats me like crap! Where did this all go wrong?

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I like JJ and DM--which one do I choose?

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4 December 2006 (F) - hi!im confused i dont know which guy to choose if they would go with me. me best friend has this cousin,we'll call him jj, he is so cute and i really like him but it would be weird to go out wit my best friends cousin and we're friends to so it ...