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Archived questions from: May, 2012 (see latest in Crushes category)

Crushes: Help and advice

My ex told me I could either tell the guy myself or he would send the picture.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

31 May 2012 (F) - So I made a horrible decision to have intercourse with my ex...for the last time like 3 days ago..after I met a new guy. My ex was stupid and took pictures of me. He then later found out that I was talking to this new guy. So now he said he's going ...

Hurting because he blew me off!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

31 May 2012 (F) - He has lost interest in me I know it. He has not called,text emailed me or anything! I am so heart broken thought things were ok between us. We were together almost 7mths. I text him last night because it had been a week and no communication. He ...

I'm from a conservative family and in love with my cousin

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

31 May 2012 (F) - I am 17 years old without a boyfriend. My family is conservative. I am in love with my cousin and i don't have any hint whether he has any feelings for me or not. First it started with a crush i spent 5 years like this n now i m head over heels in ...

Is this a missed opportunity? And should I start chasing him? or let it go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4551 days ago

31 May 2012 (?) - I have had crush on the most introverted guy I’ve ever known for the whole duration of my degree course. And I have a feeling that he likes me based on the long stares and he always seems to be there, but as soon as I talk to him or try and invo...

I want him to realize how bad his current relationship is, if nothing else!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4373 days ago

31 May 2012 (F) - Ok. So when I was about 13, I met a guy. I thought he was around my age...but as it turned out he was 22. So, I didn't think of him in that fashion. BUT he was still a cool guy, so I continued to hang out with him. He quickly became the best friend ...

Should I wait another day and try a simple, "hey!" text? Or just not do anything else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

31 May 2012 (M) - IM 20. Home for the summer from college. Met this girl back in August in a school club (we meet on mondays and have a few parties, thats about the only time i saw her), she was dating someone at the time and i wasnt really into her. She didnt seem ...

Do drunk people mean what they say?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

31 May 2012 (F) - Hey everyone, So, I need to talk to someone and I have absolutely no one to confide in. This might be long, so thank you in advance for reading, I appreciate it so much. Me and this guy have been a "thing" for over two years, he's asked me to...

I'm afraid I'm a sucky kisser...any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

31 May 2012 (M) - I hooked up with my neighbor the other day, I have been interested in her for a while now. We were making out when she started to bite/suck my lower lip, it was really kinky. I decided to do it back to her but I guess I was too rough because we had ...

Why does he say my name all the time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

30 May 2012 (F) - Hello :) I really like this boy and I started talking to him. We don't talk a lot, but sometimes we do. The first time we talked he said my name a lot. I asked him to sign my yearbook. He was like "sure (my name)" "will you sign mine (my name)" ...

I like my third cousin but am not sure how that news would affect her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4556 days ago

30 May 2012 (M) - I like my 3rd cousin but im afraid on what she would think if I told her because we have known each other for a long time since we were kids and it might get wierd between us and the rest of the family what should I do ? ...

How can I stop feeling nervous around my teacher which I fancy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

30 May 2012 (F) - I fancy my citizenship teacher. He is very fit, and is mainly a PE teacher at my school. He is around 23- 24yrs old and very tanned. Every girl in the school fancies him, except a few of my friends. We are the only girls he teachers in school ...

So much promise. And now nothing? How do I handle my online friend? was he ever genuine?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

30 May 2012 (F) - I have been chatting with a guy online and via web com and mobile almost everyday for a month. The guy got so much into me and he swore and made me believe him that we have future this and that. He wanted to come to see me to the UK as he lives in...

My Gay crush .Want to move on and forget. How can I understand why I'm so affected?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

30 May 2012 (M) - This has been a problem for too long now and I really need help with this issue concerning an ex friend. I’ve never really had many friends in my life but I’ve never let it bother me when I moved on from the few friends that I did have. But this...

Younger colleague who has a girlfriend asked me to a football game and wants me to meet his family! What is he doing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4557 days ago

30 May 2012 (F) - I am friends with a much younger man at work we have never dated i heard he has a girlfriend. he asked me to a football game 5 months from now and wants me to meet his family what does it mean? what is he doing? ...

If he doesn't reply does it mean he's ignoring me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4557 days ago

30 May 2012 (F) - This guy i like, he hasn't replied to my email of meeting up. He checks his email every day, as its connected to his phone so he has ignored me. does this mean hes rejecting me?...

I feel sick every time I think of him!

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29 May 2012 (F) - Love struck So there's this guy I like, and he knows I like him, in fact when I see him he touches me playfully but there's a problem: he has a girlfriend. I am completely aware that if he broke up with her to get with me then he could do the sam...

I'm trying to understand if my foreign student likes me or not.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4557 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - Hello everyone! I need advice, because I'm sort of confused at the moment. I'm a teacher, and I teach both English to non-English speakers and Russian to foreigners who come to visit our town. I have this student, a guy from Ireland who studies...

I don't know what to say the second time I see her! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

29 May 2012 (M) - whenever i find the girl i love i start well with introduction and talk ok,but problem is when i have to meet her again i dont have words 2say because i'm not sure what am i have to say,so i just blow up things in that way,what is it that i have to ...

Friends with benefits or something more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4558 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - About a month ago I went out with friends after work and ended up hitting it off with a coworker. We went back to his place and had a few too many and one thing led to another. We talked about it the next morning when we woke up and he said he ...

Crush on a guy at work....does he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4557 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - I have a crush (which never happens to me) on a guy at work. He looks right at me when he enters the room. Our eyes meet all the time during meetings. My friend mentioned she saw him smile after I was done presenting. I feel sparks when we make eye ...

Does my university lecturer see me as a daughter, or is there more to it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4557 days ago

28 May 2012 (F) - There's a uni lecturer at university, he treat's me different to all the other students. We are both asian so possible he see's me as a daughter but i'm not sure. i am about to finish university in 1month, he is 45. We do have a good work...

I Really like a guy who doesn't know I exist, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

28 May 2012 (F) - Really like a guy who doesn't know I exist, what do I do? There's this YouTube personality that I really like. Now before you think I'm crazy let me say I'll be attending college in his area. I'd already picked this school before I even started ...

Would you add a guy on Facebook knowing he 'might' have a girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4559 days ago

28 May 2012 (F) - Would you add a guy on Facebook knowing he 'might' have a girlfriend? Because this guy I met on a night out ages ago, we got along really well.. he's the one person I regret never giving my number to! He is the nicest, genuine guy i've met thi...

After 6 years of loving him I found his engagement pictures on facebook .. what to do now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4559 days ago

28 May 2012 (?) - Hi Am a 17 years old will be 18 soon and I've been in love with this guy for 6 years , ever since I was 11 he and his family are family friends and because of that I never had the guts to tell him my true feelings , am a shy and a coy person n...

I'm terrible at reading women.....do you think she likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4559 days ago

28 May 2012 (M) - Hello all you agony aunts, when I'm writing this I'm just trying to figure this all out, and any words of advice or assurance or warning are deeply appreciated. So obviously, there's someone... I've had one class with her all year and sometimes sa...

Is it a positive sign if he "likes" or comments on my facebook?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

28 May 2012 (F) - A guy I like quite often 'likes' what I write on Facebook and is really friendly when we see one another. However sometimes he goes days ignoring me on there. Today I posted a photo which was a head and shoulders shot and maybe a little (but not ...

How do I introduce myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

27 May 2012 (F) - This guy in my grade goes to my school and he has no idea who I am, but I have a crush on him regardless and I really wanna meet him but I don't know how to casually "bump" into him and introduce myself without seeming like a weirdo! Help!! :$...

This 18 year old girl really likes my cousin but he's married!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4560 days ago

27 May 2012 (M) - So in camping with a lot of people and this 18 year old girl really likes my cousin and has told her friend that she is gonna try something tonight with him. He just got married a few months ago and has a kid on the way. That girl knows he's ...

Complicated crush on a soldier

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

25 May 2012 (F) - I am 17 and I like my friend who is 21. He's in afghanistan right now and we've always kept contact sinc he's been in the service. I told him before he left that I was interested in him, but he said he wanted me to be 18 before we started to flirt ...

How can I overcome this silly crush and regain self esteem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4557 days ago

25 May 2012 (F) - Hi, I'm having a very childish problem, despite the fact that I'm a 23 year old woman. When I was in high school I was the ugly girl that no guys liked, and to this day, this has affected my self esteem somewhat. When I started college, though,...

I'm not a flirt so why am I feeling this way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4562 days ago

25 May 2012 (F) - Dear dear cupid, I dont understand how i feel for this guy. So here's my situation. Two weeks after i broke up with my bf, i noticed this guy at work. It's because he had the same perfume with my ex. Every time i see him i go near him so that ...

If he likes me why doesn't he come up to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

25 May 2012 (F) - There is a guy that i like. We saw each other at one party organied by our friend, i remember he was starring at me and smiling while talking with his friends, but i didnt smiled back. Than we met again yesterday at another party,when entering the ...

I like this guy but we are both shy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4563 days ago

24 May 2012 (F) - I like this guy, but he's really quiet and doesnt talk to anyone. I've heard that he hung out with this girl but shes not very pretty (or skinny, just saying) I also heard he asked my friend out on a date but shes not very pretty either. ...

Missed my chance with him, help me please!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4563 days ago

24 May 2012 (F) - So I have this one problem that bothers me for months. Somewhere around the October or November last year , the boy I really liked tried (I think) to flirt with me. He asked me to tell him my phone number and tried talking to me , but I was to shy ...

I'm rubbish with eye contact, I like him but how should I do it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

24 May 2012 (F) - I am horrible at flirting with guys,I'm shy and I feel extremely self concious.For instance,I think there is this guy that likes me. He stares at me a lot, comes stand by my side out of the blue, and we joke around a lot. But what specially makes me ...

Leaving school, should I tell my teacher I like him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4562 days ago

24 May 2012 (F) - ok so i need help. i'm 18 and i've had a huge crush on my teacher for the last 5 years. it started when i moved into his class in year 2 and now i'm finnished school, excepted i have to go in one last time to hand in some books and that but the ...

I've been corresponding with a well known porn star

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4562 days ago

24 May 2012 (M) - Hey all! I've been in touch with a rather well-known porn star as of late via email. She heard one of my latest mixes I posted on twitter, emailed my friend about how to get in touch with me, and she told me she really liked what I did so she off...

Is my colleague playing hard to get?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4563 days ago

24 May 2012 (M) - Why is she doing this to me? and is she playing hard to get or not? I am a guy aged 35 (currently married but on separation) who is interested in female working colleague. She is a 43 year old widow who has one a 17 year old son. We have been wor...

Torn between two boys

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4563 days ago

24 May 2012 (F) - Recently there are 2 guys playing in my head. I don't know which one do I really like. They are both my friend. The first guy I've known him for like 4 years now and he is one of my close friends. He liked me for 4 years and still do. I didn't lik...

Tell me what went wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4561 days ago

24 May 2012 (F) - I need you to please tell me what happened here: Last year, I became really good friends with a boy in my choir. We spent one whole night together for a feild trip and, suddenly, we became really close. He had such a fun, cute, personality and ...

I am in love with my next door neighbor!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4563 days ago

24 May 2012 (F) - I am in love with my next door neighbor. It was love at first sight from the first time I saw him. I have been going crazy because I haven't been able to see him for the past 2 weeks. He has someone and I have someone and I want to stop thinking ...

Is it bad that a boyfriend asks her girlfriend to cook?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4563 days ago

24 May 2012 (M) - I have a problem. I have a girlfriend of 2 years and 5 months and you see, she has a friend who has a boyfriend. Well I use to have a crush on her and now that I see her with him...it gets me jealous. I mean she let's me be 'Me' compared to my ...

I love a boy who doesn't know about my existence! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4565 days ago

22 May 2012 (F) - I decided to write here because I really need help. I totally don't know what should I do. I will try to present my situation as best as I can, but English isn't my native language so sorry if there will be some difficulties in understanding me. ...

I saw my crush holding hands with another girl!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4563 days ago

21 May 2012 (F) - Omg...I just saw my crush and another girl, they were holding hands, I can't control my anger or whatever I'm feeling. But I have a boyfriend I don't Like him as much as I like my crush. But He's ok though. help I don't know what to do, I though...

A boy I barely know just told me he loves me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4565 days ago

21 May 2012 (F) - This boy at school told me in the library that he loves me. He has never even talked to me before. How can boy just blurt that out? I just froze. Didn't know what to day. I probably looked shocked. I felt shocked. Then i think i messed up because ...

Have I been placed in the 'friend zone'?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4566 days ago

21 May 2012 (M) - Theres a girl who I've recently gotten to know. . .Ive caught her looking at me many times when we are at meetings for some extra curricular events, but i dont noe whether that is because she is trying to see if im looking at her. We've spoken every ...

I'm crushing over my teacher. She's amazing. Should I tell her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4563 days ago

21 May 2012 (F) - I am 16 years old and i think i'm in love with a woman teacher. i dont think that i am lesbian or bisexual but i think i really love her. she teaches choir and she is so amazing and she is very attractive. i want to tell her how i feel about her ...

Second thoughts about my troubled relationship help me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4563 days ago

21 May 2012 (M) - Hi my name is james and im 29 years old. Lately i've been going to this diner, and there is this waitress im attracted to. But the thing is im in a relationship. At first it was just nothing i just thought of her as an attractive girl never spoke to ...

My prom date just updated her status to 'in a relationship' and now I'm wondering if I should talk to her about it or just go with it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4566 days ago

20 May 2012 (M) - Dear Cupid, basically i'm really confused at the moment. I am taking this girl who I've liked for a long time to my end of year prom and was really looking forward to it. However I have always been wary whether the feelings were mutual and just ...

Should I kiss her next time we're together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4562 days ago

20 May 2012 (F) - I am a 16 year old bi female. My ex and I have been friends on and off for the past 3 months. She recently left again a week in a half ago, but on Friday she texted me saying, "I miss you like crazy. I miss hanging out and coming over, but I'm not ...