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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: Would you add a guy on Facebook knowing he 'might' have a girlfriend? Because this guy I met on a night out ages ago, we got along really well.. he's the one person I regret never giving my number to! He is the nicest, genuine guy i've met this year and he liked me! But yesterday I found him on Facebook, I was so happy after months that i somehow found him! I was about to friend request him, till I noticed on his wall that some girl had wrote a comment and in her photo is a picture of them two... Now it may be they're just good friends, but chances are it may be his girlfriend and i don't want to feel embarrassed him not accepting, or anything because he has a girlfriend (that or he doesn't remember me). Either way, I really liked him and we got along so well, the attraction was instant and we both liked each other straight off and told each other things nobody even our closest friends knew. We just felt so comfortable with each other, but i never gave him my number, even though i could tell he wanted it. So I want to add him and hopefully talk to him, but i'm now thinking it might not be a good idea if he does have a girlfriend... what do you guys think? There's also the case he may not even remember me
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2012): If you haven't communicated for a while via phone, then maybe things fizzled out and he's moved on. She could well be his girlfriend or maybe someone he's now interested in. Best bet would be to inbox him and ask if he remembers you, have a general conversation and I'm sure before long you will find out. So you don't feel like a fool if it turns out she's his woman, I would act cool and don't make out you're keen to find out or that you are still interested in him, just act like you want to be friends.
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