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writes:Hello all you agony aunts, when I'm writing this I'm just trying to figure this all out, and any words of advice or assurance or warning are deeply appreciated.So obviously, there's someone... I've had one class with her all year and sometimes saw her during lunch or breaks and such, but we barely talked despite sitting next to each-other for over half a year. Then within the last few months, she's been more and more friendly, noticing my clothes, saying she wished I could have been at a practice for swimming when I had to miss it for a period before she ended up leaving, passing little joke notes that I would reciprocate, etc. My first thought wasn't that I liked her, but the more and more I thought about it and looked at her, the more I do... she has this energy that attracts me to her, full of humor and positive energy, but with an understated beauty I think... and now I know I'm starting to lose my mind because these last few days seem to drag on and on.So after all these months of "friendly-ness", we were studying for a test we both had at a coffee shop, as I had to leave I asked her if she wanted to see a movie that weekend, so we did and after got a little food and talked about random things, music, people, gossip, etc. Honestly it was one of the more enjoyable times I've had within the last few months since I broke-up with my ex. Since the movie, it's been more of the same, friendly-ness and I'd like to say/imagine we've been looking more at eachother lately. I guess if I were to ask anything, then I am asking for reassurance that she does seem to like me, because I'm terrible at trying to read situations, let alone women.
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reader, mooh  +, writes (28 May 2012):
Sounds like she does like you. Some small signs are if you have some physical contact (e.g. any excuse to be close to one another or you "accidentally" touch her hand/arm and she doesnt pull away or she even tries to do it to you too), lots of smiling, flirting/teasing.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (28 May 2012):
 Yes, she likes you. You and her went on a date. You need to keep up your advances and move in closer to seal the deal.
Worst case scenario is that she only wanted to be friends, and you get rejected. But the signs are telling you to go for it, unless you know she has a boyfriend, or you know she's interested in someone else. Just ask her, since you and her are friends. If she's taken, or interested in someone else, then stick to friends. If she's available then move in closer by more dates and intimate times together.
*if she smiles at you, tells you there IS someone she's interested in, looks you in the eyes and smirks, but is unwilling to tell you who it is, then it is YOU.
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