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writes:This guy i like, he hasn't replied to my email of meeting up.He checks his email every day, as its connected to his phone so he has ignored me.does this mean hes rejecting me? Reply to this Question
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reader, Denise32  +, writes (30 May 2012):
 I looked at your original post and I would say the fact that he doesn't want you to tell anyone you went to his office to talk, notwithstanding that you were upset, is a red flag. I'm NOT saying he wants to start dating you or anything like that. What I am saying is that you need to back off.
A university lecturer and a student? Not appropriate.
Besides, there is a 23 year age difference between you. He quite probably is married - and anyway, even if he told you he's single, how would you know whether he was telling the truth?
And: you are both different religions. I doubt whether your parents would be happy to learn you have a crush on him and "getting flirty."
No, you need to back off, and leave the man alone. surely there are plenty of other young men much more suitable around!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSee i know my email hasn't gone to junk or bulk as he normally responds within a hour and its been a long time now still no reply.
The gentlemen in question is my lecturer..
There's more info on:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/does-my-uni-lecturer-feel-the-same-way.html
so now i am confused. and i'm not looking forward to bumping into him at all!!
the thing on my mind is, that email was professional, yet still why ignore it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2012): Yes he is. Or waiting for the right tine to get back to know so he can see how long your willing to wait for him which will give him the upper hand in any type of relationship you would have going forward. Don't give him the opportunity to hurt you. Walk away now.
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reader, Aunt Liz  +, writes (30 May 2012):
There are a lot of reasons a person might not respond to an e-mail. Your message might have gone to bulk, it happens. Of course he might have seen it and not replied. Do you see this guy on a regular basis? You could just ask. Or you could act like nothing is different and go on the way it was before. It's hard to put yourself out there. Sometimes it works out, a lot of times it doesn't. It's a gamble. Only you can decide what you want to do.
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (30 May 2012):
He reads you email - or at least must see it since he checks it every day.
Now: what would you conclude about his behavior/attitude?
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