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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: I am in love with my next door neighbor. It was love at first sight from the first time I saw him. I have been going crazy because I haven't been able to see him for the past 2 weeks. He has someone and I have someone and I want to stop thinking about him but it's like I can't help myself. I need help on how to stop thinking about this man. Not even my crush in highschool was like this. I am suppose to be leaving my husband in 2 weeks and I don't want to be too far from him. What the hell is wrong with me? I'm not this kind of person. Please tell me what to do to get this man off my heart and mind.
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reader, curious1987 +, writes (25 May 2012):
This is just a crush. 1.u dont really know him well enough to be in love with him. and 2. Ur only attracted to his looks. not personality and other important relationship matters et. im sure once u move away ur crush will subside. Xx
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reader, Starlights +, writes (24 May 2012):
It sounds like you have a huge crush on your neighbour.
You cant really be with him because like you say your both with other people.
The best way to forget him is to not be near him, and focus your attention on other things like your husband and the things you like/adore about him instead of fixating on this other guy.
You have to get a grip and be strong and grounded so you dont fall apart.
Goodluck
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