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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:I fancy my citizenship teacher. He is very fit, and is mainly a PE teacher at my school. He is around 23- 24yrs old and very tanned. Every girl in the school fancies him, except a few of my friends. We are the only girls he teachers in school (separate PE classes). To start with, I acted as if I didnt like him with my other friends opinions, but inside I love him a lot. I know he has a girlfriend, I found his facebook and twitter and that he has been with her for a couple of years. But I really like him. Like I melt whenever he says my name and I get really nervous, but of course I try to act cool in front of my friends that hate him. I just dont know what to do. Whenever I see him around school, I look away from him. My parents have met him at consultation evening and thought he was really nice. He is a summer lifeguard at our beach this year and a surfer. What to I do, I dont wanna stop liking him, just want to calm down more when he is near me. I go all clammy. I know he would never fancy someone my age in a million years, but still. I really dont want my crush to go. I tremble inside when I'm near him... so I end up being cheeky around him to cover it up.
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reader, sweet_lover101 +, writes (31 May 2012):
 Hey there,
*sigh* I've been there before, and it was a really odd wonderful yet frustrating experience. It is very normal of course, it's okay to have a very strong crush but you should know where your boundaries are. If you really like him, you'd let him be happy with his girlfriend ( as you said who has been with him for many years) and just continue your innocent friendship. Just adore him from the distance, it's better that way.
It's better than being humiliated, being the main subject in the staffroom (the staff room is just like the school's playground but as the adult version)
Just please be strong!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (31 May 2012):
 You have a crush on him, it is quite normal for your age to experience this sort of crush, but it's not love, so just remember that. It will get better in time. As long as you accept that nothing can ever happen between you both as he is your teacher and you are a minor. He is probably used to lots of teenage girls having crushes on him so try not to worry to much about it.
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