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Archived questions from: January, 2017 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

I'm having doubts about his ability to stay faithful

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2841 days ago

28 January 2017 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for about 8/9 months now. He is 29 and I'm 31. He is into sex a lot and has a really high sex drive. He needs to have sex everyday plus masturbate once a day on top of that. I am not always up for sex everyday, ...

Affair with my best friend but I have a partner of 18 years and a one year old that we had after years of trying. What do I do now?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2838 days ago

28 January 2017 (F) - I've been with my partner for 18 years I do love him and we have a one year old which we tried for years to have. But for the last 3 year I have been having an affair with my best friend who's showed me so much love , a lot more love than I seem to ...

I kissed Max on the cheek and Mark thinks I cheated!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2842 days ago

28 January 2017 (F) - Hi, me and this boy have known each other for around 3 years now. Lets say his name is mark, me and mark have been quite good mates. The other day he asked me to be his girlfriend and I said yes. I told him not to tell anyone we were together ...

Could my bf's avoidance of my compliments suggest he is cheating?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2833 days ago

28 January 2017 (F) - I have been suspecting my bf has been unfaithful recently. Just sense a change. When having a text conversation this evening, I went on about how lucky I am to have him. What a good guy he is and how I am glad he is not like other men. I sai...

Could her actions in bathroom indicate that she cheated?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2842 days ago

27 January 2017 (M) - My wife got really drunk last night and started a fight then went and douched her vag and left the bottle on the counter on accident. Now swears up and down she didn't cheat and says I'm in the wrong for accusing here. Any thoughts?...

Do cheating married men usually have more than one mistress?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2842 days ago

27 January 2017 (F) - Do married men who cheat, cheat with more than one mistress at a time? Or do some men stay with just one? I am interested in everybody weighing in with their opinions. ...

I feel I have lost my future ....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2843 days ago

27 January 2017 (F) - Last week i split with my boyfriend of 2 years . Yesterday my friend shocked me with some news , she joined a dating site for single parents as she is one, i helped her set up her account and started looking at profiles and thats when i saw my now ...

I hid a recorder and heard breathing, is he cheating or watching porn?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2842 days ago

27 January 2017 (?) - Hello Everyone, I have a unique issue. I don't trust my husband. For varies reasons. Alot of people thought I should hire a Detective. I really don't have the money for that. A friend of mine suggested I get a voice recorder and set it in the m...

I like him and enjoy his flirting. But what should I do? Because I think he has a Gf already

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2842 days ago

26 January 2017 (F) - There's this guy I'm talking too. The problem is, I think he has a girlfriend.. We've been speaking a while and a few months ago, he told me that he can't take things forward with me because he has someone. I respected that and we remained to j...

Is this an emotional affair? ?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2847 days ago

25 January 2017 (F) - Is this an emotional affair? ? ? Last March- my husband of 27 years (M) was working at a customer's house (he's a contractor), and one day a woman (T) who lived across the street came over to bum a cigarette from one of M's workers. She a...

Just found out that my LDR is happily married. Do I confront him?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2847 days ago

23 January 2017 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for 6 months.. We are in a LDR, but he's very caring, sweet and romantic...keeps in touch. But one thing that continually bothers me is that he never calls me at night! Two days back, I was viewing his profile on s...

My wife left me for her ex, who found her on Facebook and now wants to come back. Should I give her a second chance ?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 2848 days ago

22 January 2017 (M) - My wife was contacted by an ex on Facebook who first said he only wanted to be friends, then indicated he wanted more. She showed me his messages and told me they dated in high school and college and she broke up with him twice. The first time...

My husband's brother is behaving towards me in ways that make me feel uncomfortable. Is my brother in law trying to tell me something ? What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2849 days ago

22 January 2017 (F) - I need some advice regarding my husband's brother. We haven't always got on so well because I found him a bit intimidating. He's 12 years older than me and he used to behave a bit strange with me for example: He always accused me of flirting w...

Fed up with him. Don't think I can trust him any more. How should I handle this situation?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2853 days ago

20 January 2017 (F) - hi everyone ive been with my fiancé for 3 years now just lately I don't feel happy anymore and now ill explain why. We met through facebook and after that he told me he doesn't use facebook anymore. I had him on my friends list he just never bother...

I love my partner but we've been having sexual issues and I'm starting to develop feelings for a colleague

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2850 days ago

19 January 2017 (F) - Hi all, I am having a bit of a problem at the moment. I have been with my partner for just over 5 years and we have been extremely happy. We are best friends and have been since the start. Very recently I have started developing feelings for ...

How can I get my current Gf to trust me? I've not cheated on her. But I did cheat on my ex.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2854 days ago

18 January 2017 (M) - I cheated on my first love two years ago with my current girlfriend. I broke up with my first love to set her free from my cheating ways. I still love her and check her social media accounts to see how she's doing but I never told her I cheated wh...

How can I find out if I am fertile ... or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2856 days ago

17 January 2017 (M) - dear cupid im worried about my fertility im 35 years old mals i dated a lady 28 year for 3 years relationzhip.staying together.she got preg and i went for dna with her and found that im not the farther.it happened to me on past i get a girlfriend ...

If I am talking online to a guy, just talking as friends, with nothing sexual said, BUT is it cheating for me to do this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2856 days ago

16 January 2017 (F) - Sometimes I talk to someone on Skype (just text never camera or voice), I came across them on Tumblr and we became friends. He is a guy and we mostly talk about random things, never anything sexual. He knows I have a boyfriend and to be honest h...

Can two cheaters make a relationship work?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2849 days ago

16 January 2017 (F) - I was in a serious relationship with a guy (it was long distance where we had to fly an hour to see each other). Then one day, I find out he had been texting this other girl 10 hours a day, and they were seeing each other for 3 hours a day for ...

I'm panicking my boyfriend will cheat on a guy's trip to Cuba. How should I respond or act in this situation?

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 2847 days ago

16 January 2017 (F) - My boyfriend is in Cuba for one week on a guy's trip. I am beside myself with worry that he is going to cheat. I have read that prostitutes are around every corner there and they are dirt cheap. The anxiety is hard to take. I contact him a...

He ignores me. Feel like I'm walking on egg shells. Is there any hope for this troubled relationship? What should I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2857 days ago

15 January 2017 (F) - What should I do about this relationship?. I will just tell you what happened recently. I have been with my boyfriend just over a year. There have been a lot of times where we have argued. He has a very short fuse. I feel like I am walking on eg...

I feel like my boyfriend isn't really committed to me!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2856 days ago

15 January 2017 (F) - Hi, I'm just looking for some advice. I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and I'm really unhappy. I feel like he isn't really committed to me, I'll give you some examples. He's messaged other girls behind my back and admitted he l...

I feel ill for cheating on my boyfriend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2857 days ago

14 January 2017 (F) - I am currently feeling physically ill for cheating on my boyfriend and I would love some advice on what to do. Me and this other guy did not sleep together just hung out for the day and made out a bit.I am feeling incredibly bad for him as I didn't ...

I text my bf on an alias phone pretending to be an admirer. And he fell for it.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2857 days ago

14 January 2017 (F) - After forgiving my cheating bf who got me and another woman pregnant 5 yrs ago, i forgave him and we are now back together for the past year. i put up with him going to spend time with his son at the other woman's house of which sometime he sleeps ...

I'm so in love with him but I don't even think I know who he is!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2857 days ago

14 January 2017 (F) - So ive been with my boyfriend a year and 2 months now. I recently found out he was lying about having a Facebook, I never cared he had one in the first place because I trusted him. So I'm on my moms Facebook and I see he still had it when he told me ...

He says I mean everything to him so why don't his actions show that?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2858 days ago

14 January 2017 (F) - Hi all!! In need of advice and I turn to you. Ive been with my guy for a few years. And he messed up HARDCORE a cpl years ago lying, cheating and hiding things. He got busted by being sloppy. And all that he did seriously messed my up in the head, ...

My boyfriend says I can't leave him because he's planned the next 5 years around me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2857 days ago

13 January 2017 (F) - Have I fallen out of love with him or am i just depressed? Recently i can't bring myself to say i love you to my boyfriend. We have been friends for 3 years and have dated since last May. In October i felt the same way as i do now just feeling dow...

My boyfriend messaged another girl on OkCupid. Was this just a momentary lapse in judgment or should I be worried?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2859 days ago

13 January 2017 (F) - Ok so here goes.... I need advice you guys I'm at a lost with what to do. I (F/26) met my boyfriend (M/36) this past June. When we met I was dating my ex of five years. I broke up with him and two weeks later started dating this new guy I'll cal...

My husband wants me to date other men for sex!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2862 days ago

9 January 2017 (F) - I have been married for 17 years my husband for the past 5 year asks med to have sex with other men while we are having sex it gets him harder, should I? I have explained to him sex is more then sex to me, he says for me to go out and date then. I ...

He's asked for another separation because it's hard for him that I don't trust him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2863 days ago

9 January 2017 (F) - I been with my husband for 15 years. About 6 years ago we briefly seperated because he started talking and texting with this girl from work. He said that it was nothing but deep inside me always screamed that it was something. We got back together ...

I need advice on making my marriage better. Should I feel guilty about the flirtation I had on a weekend away?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2862 days ago

8 January 2017 (M) - I need some advice on making my relationship better. I'm married and have been for 13 years, the first thing I want to say is I love my wife. I am in my mid 40's whilst my wife is 7 years older than me, up until last year I was fairly overweight ...

How can I cope with my husband cheating on me two years ago, with a blood relative? He has cut contact with her, but I'm still trying to cope with his betrayal

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2862 days ago

8 January 2017 (F) - My husband was adopted as an infant. He later found his birth family. Since then he has had sex with his half sister. It is tearing me up inside. I'm still with him, he does not have contact with her now, but I wonder about his heart. T...

What do I do? How can she still want to be with someone who she is not sexually attracted to, nor IN love with?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2847 days ago

8 January 2017 (M) - Apologies if I ramble but I have some much to get off my chest ?? My Fiancée of nearly 14 years and the mother of my 2 beautiful daughters (11 and 6) had told me she loved me but is not IN love with me several years ago. We have also not had...

Why does my boyfriend appear uncomfortable around his subordinate?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2866 days ago

6 January 2017 (F) - Hi. So there's this woman my boyfriend works with. He is actually her boss. At a social gathering around Christmas, I noticed he looked uncomfortable around her. I asked him about this. He said he thinks she likes him (more than a professional ...

I don't feel good that my husband talks to his ex behind my back! What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2837 days ago

6 January 2017 (F) - I have been cheated on in the past and I just can't stop with snooping. I've talked to my husband about it but I just keep finding him communicating with his ex and he deletes them right away. I just saw that he told her I don't like them keeping in ...

I hope this can help you jump start a plan that can lead you to a better way of seeing things in a relationship.

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6 January 2017 (M) - Hi there, hope that everyone had a great holiday period and that much fun was had, lots of love thrown here and there, memorable moments were shared and great memories were made. With that being said here's a little about me and why I decided to ...

The phone messages he's been receiving from her do bother me. But how do I raise the issue with my husband?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2864 days ago

5 January 2017 (F) - Hello I am a woman in my late 20's who has been married for 2 years. I have a problem and don't know how to handle it. My husband back when we were first dating over 4 years ago had cheated on me with a woman he was friends with at a drunken par...

Heartbroken, but I want to forgive him. What are my options? Found out my Bf has been cheating.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2867 days ago

5 January 2017 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 3 years. Lately he has been acting weird and always on Snapchat and never responds to my text but responds to me on Snapchat. One day he left his Snapchat logged in on my iPad and I became curious. ...

Should I be more angry or just let it go? My wife confessed that she gave oral briefly to a male stripper at a party

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 2848 days ago

5 January 2017 (M) - Hi, my wife went to a girls party night recently where we both knew there would be male strippers. I was totally cool with it but she got carried away with the night and ended up giving a few seconds of oral to all but one of the stripper...

Should I tell her he cheated on both of us?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2868 days ago

4 January 2017 (F) - Hi, I had a difficult abusive relationship before hand. I met someone from out the country and he made me trust again and go out again. I was content with his friendship but he pursued it to something more. Time for him to leave. He wanted me to go ...

My married lover wants me to move to his country with our son

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2634 days ago

3 January 2017 (F) - Dear readers, I am in a really complex situation. 8 years ago, I met a man - we were both married at the time. I didn't have any children, because my then husband did not want any, despite my wanting a child desperately. The other person (OP) has ...

Should I tell my wife I've been visiting massage parlours?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2828 days ago

3 January 2017 (M) - I'm a married man in my early 50s with a big secret. I've developed a habit of visiting massage parlours and receiving massages that end with sexual stimulation and orgasm. This started a few months ago and I love the excitement of headin...

What I want to know is, if he is seeing my ex best friend then would he really want to stay friends and in touch with me when there is a good chance I would eventually find out

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2870 days ago

2 January 2017 (F) - My boyfriend of one year an I split up 8 weeks ago. We split because I thought he was seeing my best friend....I still do. He has ALWAYS sworn that he never had and never would have anything to do with her and that one day I will see that. He tells...

He is also my colleague at work and we just broke up. How can I face him when I go back to work?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2871 days ago

2 January 2017 (F) - Im from India working in a bank. I had a relationship with a colleague since last January.. he has one friend or girlfriend i don't know with whom he spent a lot of time..now even after our relationship they talk over phone. Once i caught him ...

Boyfriend kissed another guy while drunk as a 'joke'. Are my thoughts on this incident justifyable or am I being too uptight about this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2870 days ago

1 January 2017 (F) - Hello all, Yesterday my bf of 6 years told me he'd kissed a guy he knew, while drunk, full on the mouth during a concert a few months back. It happened in a joking context, he added. Because of this context, he does not see a problem with it....

My husband made 160 phone calls in one month to his female coworker! Advice?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2866 days ago

1 January 2017 (F) - Geez - where to begin? Suffice it to say that about a year ago I began a downward spiral into depression. (The triggering event was horrific, but unrelated to my marriage). Anyway, I am definitely not myself, anymore, nor do I adequately fulfill the ...