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anonymous
writes:My wife got really drunk last night and started a fight then went and douched her vag and left the bottle on the counter on accident. Now swears up and down she didn't cheat and says I'm in the wrong for accusing here. Any thoughts?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (31 January 2017):
 You need to tell us more, how is the relationship? Has she cheated in the past? Is her drinking causing fights in the relationship? I am not getting enough from your post to give you advice. Please tell us more.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2017): This is not enough evidence to support cheating.
Do you have any other evidence?
Let us know and we can advise further.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (27 January 2017):
 Somewhere, I think there should be some sort of public safety announcement about douching while heavily intoxicated. You should get right on that Honeypie!
(I'm joking!)
Uhh, in all seriousness, does that happen often?? Not the douching, but the drinking and fighting? How often do you do that, and do fights involve fists or throwing objects, or just verbal craziness??
Douching does not mean cheating. It just means that in her drunken state, she had that "not so fresh feeling". Now if you had seen another man's used condom on the counter, we should talk!
Why do you think she cheats? Did she say something in anger to you? Have there been other things happening?
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reader, Billy Bathgate +, writes (27 January 2017):
Was this douching out of the ordinary? If it was then you already have your answer.
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reader, Andie's Thoughts  +, writes (27 January 2017):
 Surely this isn't the only reason you think she cheated?
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (27 January 2017):
 What does her douching has to do with cheating?
And why should she HAVE to dice the douche bottle away in order to not be accused of cheating?
What REAL reason do you have to accuse her? Because she got drunk? Or douched? Seriously?
She can ( I hope) douche whenever she wants to.
Does that mean if you come home from work and take a shower or went out with the guy and shower when you get home - then it's a FREE FOR ALL to accuse YOU of cheating?
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