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Archived questions from: February, 2017 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

She says I'm psycho but I hink she is cheating.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2804 days ago

28 February 2017 (M) - Hi everyone Recently My girlfriend went out for a night-out and came back with a boy (who was her friend) and was in her bed watching a movie.Her flat mate (who has been her best friend since a young child) said she heard the bed moving, breathin...

Can anyone help me with the basics of starting afresh? I cheated on my fiancee. Then I confessed and he forgave me. My guilt is affecting my ability to go forward

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2850 days ago

28 February 2017 (F) - Aunts, I need your help. I had committed a major mistake of cheating on my fiancé with a married man. But I realised my mistake and owned up to it, confessed my fiancé and broke up with the married guy. He (my fiancé) has not been resentful, ...

I am a married woman who has sex with strangers when I travel for work!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2700 days ago

28 February 2017 (F) - I am a married female looking for some help. This is going to sound crazy but I have always had a high sex drive. I met my husband and everything was great. We had two kids, and he is such a good man. Provides well, if I had to honestly rate hi...

Should I stay with my fiance even though I love someone else?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2006 days ago

27 February 2017 (F) - Dear Aunties and Uncles, I will try to keep this short as possible. I've been in a long term relationship for 14 years and have a 14 year old daughter who my partner raised as his own since she was 2 weeks old. We had an amazing relati...

We/ve been back together for a year but it just isn't like it was.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2850 days ago

26 February 2017 (F) - Okay so I don't quite know how to start this, but my friends have been helpful and supportive, but I suppose I'm still lost. My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 years minus the 2 that we were broken up for. We broke up because he said he ...

Should I ? I'm tempted to contact the other people involved and ask them

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 2840 days ago

24 February 2017 (M) - Looking for some advice here.. About a year ago, I found out that my fiancée and two of her (our?) friends had been exchanging intimate photos - and had even been together a couple of times. I confronted her, she broke down, told me that the o...

She's still sharing a bed with her partner of 6 years! What do I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2851 days ago

23 February 2017 (M) - Hi I'm seeing a girl and have been for over 6 months but she's still living with her partner of 6 years ... I did know her before and was common knoledge they were not close ... she promised me she would leave once she got the finance to move out ...

Should I move on? She had a crush on this guy previously. They've had recent conversations with each other

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 2851 days ago

21 February 2017 (M) - I recently found out that my wife is having inappropriate conversations with someone who she had a crush on several years ago. I know for a fact that she asked this person a hypothetical question saying "Let me ask you something, what if I say he...

Is he confused? Playing me? Using me as a rebound?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2860 days ago

21 February 2017 (F) - I was seeing a guy for few months, he told me he loved me multiple times but all whilst drunk, i responded saying that i did like him but didn't love him. The last time he said it he made little to no effort to see me, when he would normally come ...

I cheated on my boyfriend with a co-worker and now my life has become a living hell

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2858 days ago

17 February 2017 (F) - This is a very difficult story for me to write but I desperately need help. I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 6 years now and I love him dearly. We bought our first house 2 years ago and to be honest things were very very difficult and we had ...

Is there any way I can remedy this situation? He's avoiding spending time alone with me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2861 days ago

17 February 2017 (F) - My boyfriend and I were together all last spring 2016 and part of the summer, but we had known each other much longer then that and I am very close to his oldest son since he goes to school with my daughter and is alway over my house. It was his son ...

Is he right to be annoyed? He was asleep, while I watched porn. He said that what I did was a form of cheating

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2862 days ago

17 February 2017 (F) - Okay so My boyfriend always takes the mick out of me that I want sex too much. I do like it every day but I don't think that's a problem.. Anyway, that's not the issue. Last night he fell asleep when he knew I was horny, which isn't reall...

My boyfriend keeps texting a female co-worker and it's getting inappropriate. Am I overreacting?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2859 days ago

16 February 2017 (F) - So my boyfriend has a female co-worker. He told me a couple weeks ago that it was pretty obvious to him and a few co-workers that a supervisor was trying to get with this female coworker, let's call her "B". My boyfriend told me that he told B "I ...

I don't want to snoop through his phone but I think my husband is cheating

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2860 days ago

14 February 2017 (F) - I'm worried my husband is cheating. We've been married 7 years and have had the happiest relationship. He started a new job 6 months ago and his behaviour has changed. He's started keeping his phone on silent, or constantly on his person, somethin...

Crazy obsessed women wants my man!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2865 days ago

14 February 2017 (F) - This lady had sex with my bf. They now share a kid together. She is obsessive over my bf. She is 10-11 years older than us. Recently she has stalked our Instagram a. But she blocked us but only unblocked my bf. I know she still wants my man. But I'm ...

Is there any future for this marriage? Since he cheated I have turned to cheating too.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2865 days ago

13 February 2017 (F) - My problem is I am not sexually attracted to my husband ,at all. The only way for me to be at ease is if I get really drunk to have sex with him .But he don't like that . I can't have sex sober with him.Since he cheated on me I lost all lost I had ...

Do I tell my friend who I've seen on the dating site?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2869 days ago

11 February 2017 (F) - I have just joined a dating site and all is going well . My best friend met a guy on a night out and started seeing each other , even tho there is no official 'label' between them (boy/girlfriend) He did say to her and she agreed they would see how ...

My husband cheated on me with his brother's wife and now she's saying her child is his. Do I stay or leave? We have children of our own.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2844 days ago

11 February 2017 (F) - i just found out my husband of 17 years slept with his brothers wife on his wedding night. This is the most disgusting thing I have ever heard or had to endure, the pain that i am going through is so unbearable. His brother met his wife 3 years...

I think the married co-worker I've been flirting with is just looking for a fling, but I can't avoid him because we work together. What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2867 days ago

11 February 2017 (F) - Hi. I have recently started a part time job which i love. Everyone is so lovely but I have found myself flirting with this guy. We text a lot and he says very flattering things but he is due to be married in a few weeks. He has two children with ...

He says he loves me so why is he going to escort sites?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2872 days ago

8 February 2017 (F) - One day I used my boyfriend's computer to look something up only to find a website called backpage and he had been looking at escorts. I confronted him about it and he said it was from before we were ever dating and I believed him. Well I was using ...

How can I get away from him this time, without getting attached to him again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2873 days ago

8 February 2017 (F) - I have been in a serious relationship with a guy for over a 1 1/2 on an off. There have been times where things were good. Then there were times where he did not want me and I wanted him and vice a versa. Long story short this guy i am dating ...

My boyfriend doesn't want me going out with male friends for drinks

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 2872 days ago

8 February 2017 (F) - Am I in the wrong ? After recently starting uni I made a small group of three male friends whom I worked on an assessment with and we automatically became friends. We are all older than the normal uni starting age so its nice to have someone on ...

Boyfriend looks up his ex on facebook and then looks at porn. I don't like this!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2869 days ago

8 February 2017 (F) - Rcently my boyfriend gave me his facebook password because he had been flirting with girls and ex girlfriends in the past and it drove a wedge between us. We got over that after I deactivated my facebook so I couldn't see what he was doing and so ...

Four years of dating and he's never asked if I missed him until now. Is he cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2872 days ago

8 February 2017 (F) - Yesterday I was on the phone with my boyfriend and suddenly out of the blue, he mumbled "Do you miss me?". His tone sounded different, like in a flirty muffled manly way, not the tone I am used to hearing and we have been together for 4 years. In ...

He says his On line friend is just fun and escapism. It sounds like emotional cheating to me. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2871 days ago

7 February 2017 (F) - Would love advice as to if " emotional cheating " on line is as bad as the physical cheating . I have dated my guy for two years and walked in on him skyping a woman who he knows through " business " when he was saying " love talking to you ,...

My married boyfriend is interacting less with me and he seems depressed. Do you think he wants to cut ties with me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2870 days ago

7 February 2017 (F) - My boyfriend is married and we've been dating for quite sometime. His wife got to know about me and tried to get me to confess, which I avoided somehow. He says that he would divorce her as they don't have any sort of bonding (they don't have any ...

If I was happy, I wouldn't have had cybersex with the guy online. Anyone got advice? Should I tell my bf about what I did?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2874 days ago

6 February 2017 (F) - I became friends with this guy online. The conversations started off as topics about forums (met on a forum so) memes, YouTube, just general Internet stuff really. However, it slowly got a little flirtatious, and last night, I was drinking and we ...

Does this married man fancy me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2872 days ago

6 February 2017 (F) - Does this matried man just like me or do you think he wants more? Reasons I think he does: Caught him staring at me and he smiled and shook his head a little. Saw him looking out of the corner of my eye and when I turned my head he averted his ...

Slept with my best friend, My boyfriend is hurt, help?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2874 days ago

6 February 2017 (F) - My best friend Michael and I always hang out on his bed and play video games, watch movies, listen to music, do work, or just talk. Last night we were just watching tv and taking about past senerios and we hit some that are sensitive to me and I ...

I saw a condom in his wallet and now it's gone!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 2857 days ago

5 February 2017 (F) - I am in a very deep pain. And I have no where to go and ask. Please help. I am married for 15 years. I have three kids. I saw a condom in my husband wallet when he went on a trip to New York with his friends. How i found out was Taking out money fo...

I found out that my boyfriend cheated and he doesn't know it yet. What should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2873 days ago

5 February 2017 (F) - Hello everyone. I've never posted a question online before but I really don't know what to do in this situation so I'd very much appreciate your honest opinion and input! Quick background story. I've been with my partner for 5 years this comin...

Is it still bad if someone cheats but has no feelings for that person?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2874 days ago

5 February 2017 (F) - What are some of the downsides to a man cheating on his GF with someone he doesn't have any emotional attachment to? If he doesn't care for the girl he's having sex with, like her as a person, or anything, then shouldn't it be okay to cheat ph...

Does this indicate there is possibly another woman? Red flag!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2874 days ago

5 February 2017 (F) - I'm really bothered with my boyfriend, cause I really don’t know if I can take his word or not anymore, he told me that I can stay over the weekend in his apartment in the city, in fact, he has said it many times, the times I have traveled to see ...

Help me sort out this tangle before it gets worse

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2874 days ago

5 February 2017 (F) - I'm in quite a difficult situation. My ex boyfriend was living on the streets recently. The battery on his phone had run out one night. He met this guy who was also living on the streets, and he borrowed the guy's mobile phone to speak to me. Me and ...

Isn't this cheating? I'm distraught and stunned that he visited at least three mens' homes to masturbate

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2874 days ago

5 February 2017 (F) - I just found out my husband of 23 years, who has not had relations with me by his own accord for 12 years, more than half of my marriage, has been registered on gay and swinger websites. I found out all this on my own and have filed for divorce....

Should I bring this up for discussion? It feels like he does not trust me anymore.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2874 days ago

4 February 2017 (F) - My husband and I separated nearly a year ago due to my infidelity. We recently reconciled and moved back in together. I missed him so much and have grown up a lot over the separation. Although I couldn't be happier that we are getting a second c...

Should I be concerned about his actions? Should I be questioning his commitment to me, based on his actions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2875 days ago

4 February 2017 (F) - I'm concerned my fiance is travelling every other weekend for a few days without me. I want to go and he tells me to pay my way. If i try to go ahead with that plan, he just takes off without me. I bought him something for over 700 bucks the o...

Coming out for both of us is out of the question. Should I try to make both relationships work concurrently?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2875 days ago

4 February 2017 (F) - I am married with two children but in love with my bestfriend who is a girl My husband is not aware that i am bisexual...but he suspects...and knows that my best friend is weird..but he is the most understanding and loving man..i love him and wan...

Am I responsible for the baby or did she cheat on me? We had sex on October 8 2015 and she gave birth on June 15 2016

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2875 days ago

4 February 2017 (M) - Morning dear friends. My case is like this: I was in a relationship with my girlfriend(24 years old) for a year. we rarely met; at least once in three months. She visited me on the 8th of October 2015. We played the indoor game; but with pr...

My friend's Bf wanted to have sex with me!! Should I be feeling so hurt about my friend cutting me off for doing nothing wrong!!!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2879 days ago

2 February 2017 (F) - My friend is mad at me because her boyfriend wanted to in her words " ^^^k ME" I have never met the guy nor has he seen what i look like. My friend does not have social media, I do. And shes mad at me. It was the strangest text i have ever received...