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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Yesterday I was on the phone with my boyfriend and suddenly out of the blue, he mumbled "Do you miss me?". His tone sounded different, like in a flirty muffled manly way, not the tone I am used to hearing and we have been together for 4 years. In the past 4 years, he never asked if I miss him, aside from the first few months we dated and didn't see each other/talk as often. I replied asking him why he would ask me that out of the blue and he said "Oh just because. I ask you that all the time don't I?" I said, "Of course not, you never ask me that." and we went back and forth with him saying he is sure he asks me that often and me saying I'm positive he hasn't asked me in at least 3 years and what is the need to ask? All this sounds so fishy and gives me a negative vibe.. I think he is flirting/talking to some other girl and asks her that and he let it slip while talking to me. What should I do?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (9 February 2017):
 Are you in a long distance relationship? If you have been together four years then how could you miss him? Did he go away a lot in the last three years? It is obvious you have major trust issues if something so small makes you paranoid then I don't think you both should be together.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2017): This is not enough evidence.
What else has he done to make you suspicious?
Is there MORE than this?
Have you had trust issues with other boyfriends?
Let us know and we can advise better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2017): This just makes me sad. Seriously? He asks you if you miss him and you immediately get suspicious? Maybe he's just trying to be sweet.
If 4 years go by and he never says such a thing, one might deem him a "jerk" for not being affectionate enough. But then when he says something affectionate, he's cheating. The man is a villain either way.
Best to just leave him. He's a terrible human, right? Move on to the next guy, until that one says something sweet but suspicious too.
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