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Archived questions from: August, 2011 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

Paranoid about girlfriend talking on the phone

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 August 2011 (M) - am i being paranoid or is it justified for me to be worried when my gf might be talking on her phone and the moment i walk into the room she will not even say bye to the person she will just hang up, when i ask who she is talking to she will just ...

How do I stop other women trying to steal my good looking boyfriends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

31 August 2011 (F) - I work with my ex and I have a member of staff that flirts round him and it is making him attracted to her. She is the type of girl that knows how to play it i.e leave them wanting more -as in, she asked him-I know you from somewhere, and it has ...

G/f gave permission to cheat since she wants to wait till after marriage to have sex

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 August 2011 (M) - I pretty much just met the woman of my dreams... except for one thing. She doesn't want to have sex until marriage. She tells me that she is a virgin and wants to stay that way until she is married. The strange thing is, she has told me that I could ...

I found out b/f has been cheating all along. He's going to be deployed. Do I break up with him or wait?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 August 2011 (?) - I few days ago i found out my boyfriend has been seeing another girl. A few nights ago he was in the bathroom and his phone went off. I looked at it and it was a text from a girl i'd never heard of saying "Hey, looking forward to seeing you too x". ...

He doesn't want to break up but keeps on cheating on me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 August 2011 (F) - My boyfriend of 4 years has cheated on me, is over friendly with all his gal pals, always hugging them, getting drunk with them, calling them sweet names, always wanting to be with them, sharing everything with them. He has cheated on me with some ...

Are all woman like this? Or are some more faithful and genuine than my ex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 August 2011 (M) - I'm just wondering if I'm too trusting or maybe too innocent. I've only been involved in a relationships, on two separate occasions, each time with the same person. In each case she cheated on me with an ex boyfriend. In fact it turns out that s...

How do I break it off with this married man?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4857 days ago

31 August 2011 (F) - How in the world do I break it off with the married guy im sleeping with? im tired of him texting only for sex. He doesn't have a real conversation with me anymore. The sex is so wonderful with him but I can't take not being respected anymore. He ...

I don't want to end my 11 year marriage but my wife is not sure. She cheated

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

30 August 2011 (M) - i have been married for 11 years to the same women, i have never cheated on her. two months ago our fighting got really bad and i was ask to move out the house. then one night she ask to talk to me, i went over to the house where she told me she ...

My wife fell pregnant by another man, should I forgive her?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

30 August 2011 (M) - Hai people, my wife had a child by another man, i kicked her out but she returned begging to be forgiven she was always sad so i feared she would have a miscarriage so i took her back in despite the pain i was going through. The father of the child ...

Married woman feeling very guilty over feelings for a married man, how do I get rid of these feelings?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4836 days ago

30 August 2011 (F) - i have a male friend who is married and we have been friends for over 4years. I am married also, happily, and that is why i am very confused as to why i'm having such feelings for this man. We have never done or said anything inappropriate or menti...

How can I just forget about the chemistry I have with my boyfriend's friend? Why is he telling me he wants me one minute and then saying its a joke the next minute?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

30 August 2011 (F) - hello again, another dilema in my life. Basically, my boyfriends friend and I have gotten rather close, started with banter saying how we are secretly together and just telling each other how sexy and hot we are all for a joke. Weeks went by, and ...

Should I tell him his fiance is cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

30 August 2011 (F) - I've recently started a job that placed me in a friend of a friends home as a housekeeper/caregiver, full time. my employer (let's call her S) is just a little older than me and engaged with 2 children. her fiancé, J, is away working often for weeks ...

Will a man cheat because his "man crush" thinks it's okay to cheat on your wife?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4859 days ago

29 August 2011 (?) - I am concerned about my husband. He has an at home business but recently he met a new friend on xbox life. This is a male friend. I have no issues with him having friends, that's not the issue. The issue is that for the past three weeks he has sta...

He wants me to be normal with her so her husband doesn't find out about their relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

29 August 2011 (F) - me and my partner just had newborn baby (4 weeks) his cousin wife come down to help me i just had a gut feeling that some thing was going on i walked in the living room and they were kissing hes apoligized but doesnt know why he did it and now he ...

Why does cheating thrill me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

29 August 2011 (F) - Why does the thought and act of cheating thrill me? I have cheated on my gf twice now both times on purpose. I still love her but I like to cheat I don't want to hurt her....

He says I was cheating while we were broken up

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

29 August 2011 (F) - I have been in a relationship with a guy for 4 years. We fought often but also had alot of fun together. We had broken up once, but we got back cos it was difficult to live without each other. In this time that we had broken up, I had a rebound with ...

I feel like I'm losing my mind because of my cheating boyfriend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4842 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - I met this guy 8 months ago, things went really fast and I fell so in love with him and unfortunately still am despite the hurt he gave me. After a month of being with him I discovered he lied about a few things and I made it clear that I wan...

The woman I like has a boyfriend but said she likes me. What should I expect?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

28 August 2011 (M) - I need a little help deciphering what happened when I went out last night. So here is the quick run down... My friends and I went out to a local bar/club and I met this beautiful woman. Everything seemed to be going great. We danced a couple ...

I know its wrong but this man has a power over me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - I have always been the kind of person who has thought infidelity is the worst thing you can ever do to a person,in a word - the ultimate be-trail that is why I'm so confused at the moment, I feel sick inside. I have been with my partner 10 years, ...

How do I tell her I am truly really faithful ? And avoid her getting mad at me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

28 August 2011 (M) - I need help I know a guy at my age still had hormones and can't help but to notice a pretty girl. I have a girlfriend of 2 years and she can't stand it if I so much as look in a direction of another girl. She says her friends have boyfrien...

He's been talking to other girls. should I let go of him or stay because of familiarity?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - My fiance and I have been together for more than a year and a half. I love him dearly and would move mountains for him, and for a while, I believed he felt the same. He was my first, and I was hoping my last. But now our relationship is on the rocks ...

Do I believe my boyfriend or my friends who claim he cheats, and they hate him for it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - What should i do with my boyfriend who my friends hate?! I have a boyfriend who my 8 best friends don't really like. They have heard numerous rumors about him cheating on me and texting girls weird things in the past 7 months that we have been dati...

I enjoy having sex with my male cousin. Should I be so scared about others finding out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4849 days ago

28 August 2011 (M) - Hi everybody, this is me confessing something I would never tell anyone. While I wish I can write more in details about it, I'm making it short. This is also a gay thing, so if you are not comfortable about it don't read further. I am not very ...

First my BF lies about kissing the girl in the bikini, then he says he put the picture up for "revenge" from me, and he doesn't even like her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

27 August 2011 (F) - I have had a boyfriend for a bit over a year. We were not official for a while but always exclusive. We became best friends, even through our ups and downs and were alywas there for eachother. We had a really bad phase a few months ago, but recently ...

My Gf keeps telling me how her one night stand guy was better than me. How do I handle this and not get so upset?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

27 August 2011 (M) - Months ago my girlfriend and I had broken up. Soon after we did she had drunken sex with a man she didn't know. well and we had gotten back together and she had told me the details and I was crushed that she had did things with him that we were pla...

My husband still works with his ex mistress

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

27 August 2011 (F) - I caught my husband of 16 years cheating on me last september with a woman who works in his office. He broke it off when I found out but he still works with her. I think about it everyday while he's at work. It torments me and I've told him that. ...

He's in jail for life, and he's telling me to cut contact. How can I deal with my strong feelings for him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - I'm in love with a man who is incarcerated. I met him through a pen pal service which asks for people on the outside, like myself to write to prisoners. To be on the safe side, I picked a man who was doing life without the possibility of p...

The married man who I am seeing, accuses me of cheating on him!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - I am absolutly livid and hope somebody can either 1) Persuade me I'm wrong or, 2) Prove me right! I have been seeing a man who is married for a while now and I have stayed faithfull since day one. He also tells me he doesn't sleep with his w...

I cant get myself to break up with my nightmare of a BF!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - What should I do with my life? I feel I have a boyfriend who doesn't deserve me. He has cheated on me with many women but I still gave him a chance, but he continues to treat me very badly and I just cannot pucker up the courage to break up. What...

Is this a reason to breakup again? Is a rebound relationship after breaking up really cheating once the former relationship resumes after a break?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - I lately found out that my boyfriend of 4 years has been cheating on me for a whole year with many other girls. When the truth came out, he asked me not to leave him and pleaded for 3 months to take him back and bought me many gifts to win my love ...

Have I made a huge mistake - allowed my BF to have sex with my BF???

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

26 August 2011 (F) - my boyfriend of 4yrs on and off again just cheated on me with my best friend last week. we have 2 kids and i think i want to try and work past this, but here is the issue, my friend has wanted a child for a long time now, so 3 weeks a go we mad a ...

He has A Girlfriend. Why doesn't he see what happened was wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

25 August 2011 (?) - I used to be in a sort of "friends with benefits" with a guy i know who lives miles away from me. We knew each other from school and got back in touch over Facebook. It lasted a while then we didn't see each other for a few months and during that ...

Should I try for one more date with this guy? even though hé's been ignoring me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4867 days ago

25 August 2011 (F) - Ok so A guy who I was texting and meeting up with stopped texting me last week after he stood me up. now last night as I was with a few friends watching a film he texts me... I texted him back immaturey like "well " and " fine " he then texted me ...

Does he love me? Need to know. Will he leave his wife?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

25 August 2011 (F) - I am sleeping with a married man who I have history with. He has other women in other towns as well. He says his wife doesn't sleep with him and treats him bad. He says he wants to leave her but he says she is crazy and probably would do something ...

We are very close. Yet on FB he claims to love another. Am I just his temp fix?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

25 August 2011 (F) - I'm 18 and I find myself in the worse position ever. I've been with one guy since I was 14 we break up but still see eachother regularly, speak everyday and sleep over each others houses every week. Where I've known him since I was so young I feel...

My pregnant Gf no longer wants to see me. How do I get her back? I was texting prostitutes

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

25 August 2011 (M) - My current girlfriend (whom I do want to marry) is 2 months pregnant and she looked through my phone only to discover text messages I had with other girls as well as prostitutes to set up dates. I have never cheated on her or gave her reason to thin...

Could this mean anything other than the fact that my GF and this other guy slept together?? What else could "I got up after you left" mean?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

25 August 2011 (M) - A question, tho I think I know the answer. Girl I have been seeing for a few months told me on Monday night she was going to visit an old friend (a guy). I was very suspicious. It was eating at me. We have not been dating so long and I dont know the...

How can I find out if my BF really is cheating me with this other girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

25 August 2011 (F) - Not really not sure how to start, I have my boyfriend of 8 months, well, recently I started suspicious that he might be having an online relationship. Hos did this happenn? well, a few months ago, he mentioned in front of everybody that this ...

I love her, she went back to her ex, now she wants to try again. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

24 August 2011 (M) - So I'll try and make this as short as possible. After a 19 year relationship, my wife and I split up last year. I was't looking for anyone after this happened. A friend oif mine wanted me to meet this girl. I was hesitant at first and finally ...

Is it possible to have a lasting marriage?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

24 August 2011 (F) - I read so many questions here about married people who have fallen out of love, married people who cheat, married people who are tempted to cheat, etc. etc. Does marriage even mean anything these days, other than being tied together by law?...

Is it true that most people never confess to cheating and don't get found out?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

24 August 2011 (M) - Hi my question is pretty brief and it goes like this... Do most people that cheat end up telling their partners or keep quiet? I have been trying to research this on the internet and have so far come up with that most keep quiet. What do y'all ...

Married man wants to keep me as his side dish. How do I walk away?

This question has 34 answers - newest was posted 4849 days ago

24 August 2011 (F) - Hi Cupids. This is my first time here. I could really use your advice. You can be honest and harsh, whatever you feel is necessary. I know what I have done is not right. I am a married mom and I have been having an emotional affair (no physi...

I feel trapped. What should I do? I've had a threesome and my husband does not know.

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 2914 days ago

24 August 2011 (F) - Hi i'm 32 year old wife and a mom with a kid of 3 years old . I'm feeling confused and trapped with a dilemma all because of my mistakes. Almost 3 months before I met a nice and good looking girls who's 23 years at the gym. We had the same gym ins...

Why can't he stop seeing this woman? He still lives with me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

24 August 2011 (F) - my husband told me he is having an affair and that he had to tell me. we are still living in the same house we are still making love from time to he says he dont want to have to choose he tell me thing that hurt me so much he say i can stay here...

I cheated with a married man now I am scared he will tell his wife, is this likely?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4858 days ago

24 August 2011 (?) - Hello. My predicament is a little sensitive so please be gentle on me. Me and my bf were going through a lot and I had a one night stand, with a married man. To be fair we did not have intercourse but I accept that I was unfaithful. I have spoken to ...

He acts like he's interested in me but he hasn't finished with his girlfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

23 August 2011 (F) - The other night i went a party and we were ment to be sleeping be there also, I knew people that were going but not that much and as soon as i got there a boy started flirting with me, he's lovely and gorgeous but the only thing is he has a ...

Can I believe him even though these sites tell a different story?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

23 August 2011 (F) - Really upset, i thought id found the man of my dreams now ive discovered him on fu##book and various other dating sites which were logged onto 2 weeks ago, the thing is we have been here before and he told me they were old sites which he couldn't ...

Old flame and I can't keep hands off of each other but he's married!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

23 August 2011 (F) - I dated my first real love in high school for 2 years and we were madly in love. Had names for our future kids and talked to our parents about marriage. We broke up cuz his parents didn't approve of me. He latergot another girl pregnant and ...

My b/f cheated and now I'm torn between him and another guy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

23 August 2011 (F) - help! ive been going out with my boyfriend for 13 months, and about 3 month ago he slept with another girl when we were on a break, which i think is just as bad as cheating as we were on the break to make things better, not for him to sleep ar...

Is it too late? I went back to my ex but I cant get the other man out of my head....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

22 August 2011 (F) - I am a mid 20 year old woman and have been a relationship with a man for 12 years. The last eyar was rough as far as he was being verbally abusive, fighting all the time and never around, there was a man who wanted me a mid 30 year old and I fell ...