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Archived questions from: December, 2007 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

Is he worth being with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6199 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - Hi, well earlier on today I had sent a message about how the father of my baby had proposed to me but I didn't know what to do or say whether YES or NO because of what he has done to me in the past. Well anyways in the morning I was cleaning...

I have a long problem. Please help me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6192 days ago

31 December 2007 (?) - I no longer know what to do. I feel as though my BF and I are getting inside this never ending suffering... Ok, I'm 19. He's 22. I have asked for help with this before, but even though he says it hasn't I feel this has gotten worse. He has is...

He slept with THREE different women while on a road trip. His excuse was "He had needs". I'm very hurt. What should I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - this past summer my boyfriend went on a month long road trip with his buddies. i stayed home to work for tuition money, so i couldnt go along. he called me everyday and we talked for a while. i never suspected anything bad was going on. but just a ...

I feel guilty after a drunken night! Help me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6086 days ago

31 December 2007 (M) - okay so here goes the story....i met my partner 7 years ago and we were fantastic, we love eachother so much! but from i have been with him, he has always texted "this friend" he met on the internet ( who happens to live ten minutes away) they met ...

Stuck in a very confusing love triangle...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6200 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - Me and my ex boyfriend have been getting quite close agin.. ..i have been hoping we could get back together but am afraid of ruining our friendship if he doesnt feel the same way. However there is another problem my other ex boyfriend know that i ...

I found hair in our bed that is NOT mine, my boyfriend won't explain, help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6197 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - I've been having some problems with my boyfriend lately. we've been together for quite a while now. He's been trying to make up what he did to me, and we've been seeing each other and trying to get our relationship back to normal. Just yesterday we ...

My heart tells me it will be fine and there is no need to upset our 11 year old by kicking his daddy out, despite of his affair and his soon-to-arrive child. Any insight, please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6200 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - A few months ago I found out that my husband was having an affair. I was devastated, as is natural. He decided however that he was going to break it off with her and make it work with me and our son. About a month ago (2 or 3 months after they ...

I fancy my husband's nephew, and he reciprocates, nothings happened, what should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2874 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - My husband and I move in with his relatives and his nephew already caught my eye, like an instant casting spell. True this is not a good sign...but the plot thickens or the sexual tension or chemistry is there. Sure the nephew comes around more oft...

His ex gf is making me feel uneasy! Am I just jealous?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6201 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - Been with 'my boyf 3 months. We're very happy. However, his ex he split up with him '2 yrs ago is makin me feel uneasy They have a dog 2geva who she see's regularly. So they call and txt regarding that. She vivited im xmas mornin. She sent him ...

His mistress is pregnant and is threatening-- that my husband cannot see his child if he remains with me!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5240 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - I found out about a year ago that my husband was having an affair. I was devestated. However we dealt with it and I forgave him. After he broke up with her, things were to my knowledge really good, and I felt like we were going to make it. However ...

Three girls...which one is the one I should go for?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6199 days ago

30 December 2007 (M) - Hey im between a rock and a hard place and two feet of steel if you catch my drift. so any way i like 3 girls and am torn between them also im not with any of them currently so thats the basics. Girl #1 has been my friend for a long time since ...

I was hurt - what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6201 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - I'm in love with my bestfriend.... He knows and show my love for him but suddenly he admitted that he had a gf but he wants me stay the same, the way i treated him... Our previous plan is that i'll get him in our country and i'll find him job here ...

Is this weird or is it just me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6201 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - Have been in an "emotional" relationship with a younger man for almost a year now (younger by 5 years. I am a married woman, he has had a girlfriend. We have been working up to finally leading to something sexual. So here's the confusing part...he ...

How do you get over an abusive relationship when you're being framed as the crazy person?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6199 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - Recently my boyfriend broke up with me. This relationship has lasted over a year. It was at first the greatest thing I had, but became abusive - I seemed to be blind and held onto it because I remembered his kind self at the beginning and hoped he ...

How could it happen that the next day after asking me for reconciliation, they declared their love for each other and became a couple?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6201 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) - I decided to end my relationship with my alcholic boyfriend 3 months ago - we were together over 5 years, living and working together 24/7. He spent a week in hospital early in 2007 where he underwent detox and suffered the most dreadful ...

I discovered my husband's infidelity, now he is very insecure, afraid I'd leave him. Why is he doing this? How can I help him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6201 days ago

29 December 2007 (?) - I caught my husband in an affair, I have forgiven him now he never wants to be alone, it is as if I had the affair. I feel as if he is afraid I am going to leave him, I told him I love him, but I will never love him the same or feel the same as ...

Do you think that he is taking time out to think now that Christmas is over or he has already made a choice? Is it maybe a mid-life crisis?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6201 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) - Hi, please help. My partner/fiance left our home 2 months ago after 5 years for a reason i did not know. I saw him last sunday and he told me that the reason he left was because he had met someone else. When i asked him he told me it was a 26 year ...

My wife and mother of my child admitted she has been cheating accusing the fact she's been feeling neglected. Now I doubt her fidelity during the 2 years she spent abroad. What can you advise?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6168 days ago

29 December 2007 (M) - Hello everyone, I just came across this site some few days ago as part of my grieving for what has dramatically happened in my marriage of four years now. Looking at the questions and the invaluable advice that has been given to other people in ...

I'm seeing a guy at my office and we are in love, only that we are now both cheating on our partners. I want out of this mess now, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6202 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have a boy friend, we have been together for the past two years. But 4 months earlier I mate this guy at my office and start go out together. he also has a 5 years relationship. Right now we are totally in love but the problem is we ar...

Should I stay or walk away?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6195 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) - i'm new to all this. i need an objective opinion. i'm in a complicated and unpopular position. i started to see a married man a year ago. he has kids but not to his wife. they arent happy, hardly ever see each other and havent slept together in over ...

I'm 14 and my boyfriend is 21. I have been cheating on him with another guy who is 19. I love both but they are very different and now I'm confused, what shall I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) - ok, im 14 and ive been with my boyfriend for 13 months. i wil call him A. i love him alot, hes 21 btw. i know him well, b4 u ask. i know his bestfrend, and the people who live in his flat. anyways, im kinda cheating on him with this boy who is 19. i ...

How do I refrain from reminding her all the time of her infidelities, as I do want to continue together for the children's sake but it's hard to bury the past?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6202 days ago

28 December 2007 (M) - i have been with my partner for 11 years, and she has cheated on me three times,the last one was the worst cos it was with my best mate,i love her to bits,but every time we argue i always bring it up i dont mean to but it happens,how can i get it ...

All I do is flirt and talk sexy for harmless fun, yet he sees it as cheating. Am I mad to be with such a man?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 6201 days ago

28 December 2007 (F) - I am horrified to find my fiance has been using aliases to make dates with me on chat sites. When he found my first profile i changed it. Somehow he found my other and strung me along. I am livid. How dare he! I feel invaded, he is pathetic. Sad ...

My bf stays until late at his best friend's house and he ignores me when she is around. I heard her saying she loves him. Ideas?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6200 days ago

28 December 2007 (F) - My boyfriend stays at his best friends house until like 3 a.m. and hes always ignoring me when hes around her. Its like when she around i dont exist. I cant stand him hanging around her 24-7. She one time said i love you baby to him and boy i filled ...

Is the letter my wife sent to her male friend real or fantasy? She said she was only playing.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6195 days ago

28 December 2007 (M) - I am a married male of 14 yrs - I recently caught an email that my wife sent to a male friend and collegue of hers - who is married as well. Below is the exact note: "If I could close my eyes and then open them only to find myself there in the roo...

Do I really owe him anything?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6203 days ago

28 December 2007 (F) - I have been involved with a married man for almost a year now. I have three kids and he has four - all of which are outside of his marriage of 18+ years. I know, this is awful. Well, I want to break it off now because of how guilty and degraded I ...

My husband is in love with fast food. How do I get him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6203 days ago

28 December 2007 (F) - Dear cupid, this problem is hard for me to solve and embarrassing too, but i really need your help. i'm 28 and my husband is 33. we've been married for 4 years and have a young son. over the past few months my husband's become obsessed with fa...

My boyfriend has been cheating and now possibly has 2 other children beside our son. I'm really tired and confused now, how do I work this out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5870 days ago

28 December 2007 (F) - Ok so my boyfriend and I have been on and off for alittle over 4 years. We've both cheated and forgave each other and I thought we moved on but a few months ago we moved out of town together and he cheated. Then I found out that he may have two ...

I cheated on my girlfriend and now she doesn't want much to do with me, should I keep trying to win her back or leave her alone and let her do what she wants?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6201 days ago

28 December 2007 (M) - I was dating a girl 11 months. I cheated on her with a girl it was my fault I went to her house but i left after a minute because I felt terrible. I told my girlfriend and its been over since. We hung out everyday we did everything together pretty m...

Am I in love or only feeling jealous of her moving on? Why are my mind and heart going in thousands of directions?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6201 days ago

27 December 2007 (M) - I would like to know if I am still in love or is it just being hurt. Please let me explain. My ex and I broke up 5 months ago, after 7 years, because I cheated on her with a friend of hers. I know I am a very bad person and I pray all the time...

I think she's ruined my life. What am I going to do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6119 days ago

27 December 2007 (?) - this girls screwed my life. i dated this girl 4 years ago,nothing serious we were kids,i was shy didnt let on i liked her,didnt know how to deal with it lol, at the time another girl was txt messaging me,i never even met up with this other ...

I only like his looks, because I don't know his personality well. I'm already in a relationship though and feel confused.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6204 days ago

27 December 2007 (F) - my boyfriend's friend loves me, and i think i love him more, but i only like his looks casue i don't know alot about his personality yet. what should i do?? stay with my boyfriend or go with his friend?...

I'm leaving my husband because he had a 2 yr affair with my sister, a long time ago. People don't know the true reason and incriminate me for the break up. Should I forgive him instead?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6204 days ago

27 December 2007 (F) - I've been married for 18 years, no kids. Ten years ago, I found out that my sister and husband had had sex, once. I forgave them.... and none of us talked about it again. It was very painful as I had no one to talk to about it at the time... ...

Why would he be like this with me if he's so in love with his wife?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6204 days ago

27 December 2007 (F) - this is hard to explain, but im goin to try. im 18 years old and im in highschool and i feel that my 45 year old teacher has feelings for me but i dont really understand it bc hes always telling me how much hes in love with his 24 year old wife, but ...

When coming home early from a hunting trip I found a used condom on our bedside table! Should I confront her? And what about the extraordinarily amount of semen, does that mean she has a much younger lover?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6205 days ago

26 December 2007 (M) - My wife and I are in our 50's in age. To my knowledge there has not been any extramarital encounters that I have been aware of and no reasons to think otherwise until recently. My wife works late night shifts and I arrived home early one morning...

I'm sleeping with my housemate behind my boyfriends back...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6203 days ago

26 December 2007 (F) - I am 25, nad have been with my bf for 5 years, known him for 7.hes gone away for 4 months abroad,and i've been living with a male housemate. the thing is that i am sleeping with him and havent told my bf. my housemate wants to marry me, and said he ...

I have good reason to think he cheated....how can I get over this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6205 days ago

24 December 2007 (F) - Hi, I have a dilema and need some advice. I have a strong suspicion that my hubby of 7 years cheated on me, I just don't know what type of cheating. 2 years ago I found a receipt for cell phone minutes. The problem is that he never had a cell pho...

He broke up for no apparent reason a couple of months ago and only recently explained he thought he loved another woman and her pregnancy (a false alarm) made him leave. Should I take him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6203 days ago

23 December 2007 (F) - Hi, i seem to be in a bit of a dilema at the moment. My partner/fiance of five years left me for no apparant reason around two months ago, we have kept in touch every day and yesterday he came to see me. It transpires that he actually left me for ...

Although I love her, I ended our affair (because she didn't respect my ultimatum to leave her long term bf.) Did I make the right decision? I think she was just considering me as first choice.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6207 days ago

23 December 2007 (M) - Hello guys, keep beating myself up about this so hope you can all help. I had an affair with a gorgeous girl who i fell for big time, we get on so well, sex is amazing probably because its forbidden fruit etc and we share a deep bond and amazing...

Broke up with my cheating bf..now other females are wondering about our relationship status...how do I handle this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6208 days ago

23 December 2007 (F) - I am grateful for any help I get here. I broke up with an very attractive and popular guy here on campus because I know that he was seeing other women when he was seeing me. He is continuing to see a few women at the same time and I am glad to be ...

My husband suffered a severe depression for four years and I have worked very hard to take care of us and the kids. Nothing has been better over these years and now I feel I want out and find happiness somewhere else, what shall I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6036 days ago

23 December 2007 (F) - I have been married for 7 years. We have a beautiful child, age 7, and another age 4. About 4 years ago, my husband was fired from his job and two of his siblings were killed in unrelated homicides. These events happened within 3 months of each ...

Any advice on getting past something like this - an infidelity? How to forgive?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6193 days ago

22 December 2007 (M) - I'm 37 years old and I've been with my wife for 16 years. I just found out that she's had an affair with a person at her job… We seem to both want to work things out but I’m not sure I can put that behind me, at least not anytime soon… Any advice on ...

I cheated and now I'm pregnant but I don't know who is the father of my baby. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

22 December 2007 (F) - My question is... I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years and have never gotten pregnant despite how many times he has came in me. He is a huge pot smoker as well. I cheated on him and the new guy came in me (who is as healthy as a horse and does ...

I cheated and everytime we are apart I think about how horrible I have been to him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6209 days ago

22 December 2007 (F) - I cheated on my boyfriend when we first started going out 9 months ago. I told him though and he's forgiven me. Everythings perfect and i couldnt ask for anything more. But i often get upset and wonder why he's still going out with me. He assures me ...

My (and her) biggest problem - lack of sex. She is already in a relationship but we plan to act upon the mutual sexual attraction. Should we do this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6209 days ago

22 December 2007 (M) - I need help. I know what I plan to do is wrong, but it doesn't make me wanna stop. I met a girl, across the net on a game, long story short, both her and her partner share the account, he has become a good friend to me too. Although a ...

I can't see why my parents won't accept my boyfriend only because he used to go out with my sister. She has gone away to have their child with another man anyway, so what's the problem?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6209 days ago

22 December 2007 (F) - I'm 15 and am currently dating an 18yr old boy. But my family wont accept him because he is going to be the father of my sisters baby. I started sleeping with him when she was with him but then she caught us and dumped him. She's also moved away to ...

My neighbour's husband suggested me to have sex with his wife. My wife may be suspicious. Do I tell her or stay away?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

22 December 2007 (M) - Hi over the past few month my neighbour has been giving me the come on with thing she dones. eg flashing and making sagestive conversation. last weekend i was helping her husband with a job in the garden. she was there and flashed her boobs severa...

My wife's sister is giving me wibes she wants me to initiate something, and since I'm in love with her and not my wife I would really like to, so why do I keep blowing my opportunities every time I get the chance??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6189 days ago

22 December 2007 (M) - i am an unhappily married man wanting very badly to have an affair with my wife's sister...but i keep blowing the opportunites that i am getting. i am feeling very regretful and angry. i know she wants me to initiate somthing, but every time i get ...

He says he loves me but just doesn't want to date me..now he's dating another girl! .what's the deal here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6203 days ago

21 December 2007 (F) - Well i went out with this boy in January and we split up a month later.. then about 5 months later in July he told me he still loved me but he didnt want a relationship at the moment.. then about a month later he started going out with this girl and ...

He's emailed many women saying he's bored with his current relationship. Is he being unfaithful or planning to? How do I confront him about this, as he will know I snooped?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6209 days ago

21 December 2007 (F) - I am worried that my boyfriend may have cheated or be planning on cheating on me. I have been with my fiance for nearly 5 years and we have just bought our first house together in october. I had noticed that he was sending totally innocent mes...