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writes:Hey im between a rock and a hard place and two feet of steel if you catch my drift. so any way i like 3 girls and am torn between them also im not with any of them currently so thats the basics.Girl #1 has been my friend for a long time since 3rd grade and we are really alike in interests. i have asked her if she thinks we could ever be togeather twice and the first time she didn't give me a straight answer but she was a little negative sounding when she said it and the second time she said that her answer was the same and that confused the hell outta me but a month later we where sitting under a tree at our school alone and we where talking about stuff and at one point i look into her eyes and thought "if only we were togeather and that i would want nothing more to kiss her right then and there" and in that moment that lasted for an eternaty i for only a second but still i saw the look and thoughts in her soul that was the same as mine then her ride came and that moment left but it didn't leave my mind.Girl #2 is the friend of Girl #3 one reason might be they have the same name so that leads to confusion alot. Girl 2 hates Girl 1 so i kind of don't want toscrew up my friendship with Girl 1. So anyway Girl 2 has the same out look on life as me which is kind of intellectual but has some pesimistic sprickleingswich makes me think that if i got to know her better. (we some of the same classes and occaisionaly talk affter school but our social groups are different except that i definitly think it could work because one of my friends is dating one of her's) So i realized our philosophy on life was the same when we were ironicly (you will see why) talking about people at our school, Girl #1 and a boy who is a narcissistic, lies alot about what he has done, and flirts with everyone even if he has a girlfriend generally he is a bastard but he is pretty skinny and sort of muscular not because he works out (like he says) but because he was born that way and that drew girls to him because abs count for way too much today because seriously people who look that way are #1 born that way or #2 get an operation (sorry for that rant i actually have an average build so skinny people can't say that im fat and that that is the only reason i would complain) Later his girlfriends break up with him so it evens out . At the time i liked Girl #1 and still like Girl #1 but at the time Girl #2 liked the jerk i told you about but Girl #2 and i were bad mouthing each other's crush but we didn't know that we were at the time. Words were said that neither of us meant and a couple weeks later i was with a girl who was a friend of a friend and the friends introduced us but not as a way of getting us togeather, Girl #2 had told the one jerk that she liked him and he was thinking about it. i was on that new relationship high and began to think about how i got here and by this time i had realized how i had hurt Girl #2 so during break i walked up to Girl #2 and said what i had realized and i apologized to her also you should note that Girl #3 was with Girl #2 and Girl #3 heard every thing so i opologized and went to be with that girl i was going out with at the time. Later Girl #3 thanked me for saying that to Girl #2 i asumed that Girl #2 sent her to thank me and then though nothing of it. A month later i had broken up with the girl my friends introduced to me and Gril #2 had gotten togeather then broken up with the jerk. i began realized how alike Girl #2 and i were and how it could work between us and thus began my problem.Now i get to Girl #3, her mom and dad work at the same place my uncle works and her family always throws the cristmas party and my uncle invited us to go with him and i had a great time with Girl #3 at the party. Her mom and dad like my parents so we go to all the parties from now on. i also know Girl #3 from being in a chorus with her during middle school. She is kind of weird and spacey and at times a intense sometimes but i think it couples great with how kind she is because you know how i told you about my apology to Girl #2 well it turns out that Girl #2 didn't even ask Girl #3 to thank me and that Girl #3 did it for some reason was she just being kind? or was it something more? i say this because i when i talk to her it's really acward for both of us.So i don't know what to do so any tips or ideas would be helpful finally i want to thank you for reading this sorry about the lenghth but i wanted to write with my heart and soul about my problem.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2008): hey it's me the guy who posted the question. I just want to thank LouLee and Sighned-With-EyeLiner for helping me sort out my problem. I have decided to tell Girl #3 that i like her i'm a little nervous but on Jan 7 if i find out that she likes me i'll ask her out it's funny, ironicly thats my birthday #
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reader, Signed-With-EyeLiner  +, writes (31 December 2007):
 I agree with below. girl 3 sounds the best. shes nice and ur mum and dad seem to like her. she really seems to be genuine and think about others. i think girl 1 isnt sure of you and thinks by going out with you it will ruin ur friendship. put ur friendship b4 girl 2 as girl 2 does seem a bit bitchy and seems too hung up on this guy. (i agree he does sound like a git)
so i tink u shud go with girl 3 but try and maintain ur relationship with girls 1 and 2. Much Luck x
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reader, LouLee +, writes (30 December 2007):
 Right well, from what ive read girl #3 sounds like the best, it sounds like a romance could easily be blossomed from the awkward moments and parties...I chose girl #3 because:---
girl #1 didnt give you a straight answer, although you had that moment under the tree you have to remember that her feelings may not have been mutual.
girl #2 makes me think shes out of the picture already because of this jerk, on/off on/off...she doesnt seem to know what she wants.
Even reading this you may still ignore everything i've said and go with which girl you feel is the one for you.
Good luck hun x
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