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writes:ok, im 14 and ive been with my boyfriend for 13 months. i wil call him A. i love him alot, hes 21 btw. i know him well, b4 u ask. i know his bestfrend, and the people who live in his flat. anyways, im kinda cheating on him with this boy who is 19. i will call him B.B is veryyyyy different from A. B is more like me, hes more 'ghetto'.. A dont really speak good english, but you can understand him, he has got style and stuff but yeh hes just differnt from me. anyways ive cheated on A about 3 boys includin B. i have always said to A that i dont want to be with him anymore, but i just keep going back 2 him, and he always calls me to get me back.. i dont know what to do. ive been going out with B for about 2 and a half months. they are both older than me. but im not doing anything with B. i do more stuff with A. i dont know what to do. i love both, but A more coz i known him for longer.please help. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2008): i say u breakup with both and st8n ur life out.cheating has big consiquences and stuff ikno I've cheated and I've regreted it and other things happend with me when iwas cheatin and it may seem okay at the time that u cheat but ull Sufer from consiquences so just str8n out ur stuff
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2008): You are FLIPIN crazy!!! I would never do that! dump both of them and sort-out your life and grow up!!!
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reader, loops  +, writes (2 January 2008):
It doesnt matter if your not having sex with them, your still seeing two people at the same time.
You asked for advice we were honest.
By the sounds of things you need to grow up a fair bit before involving yourself in anyone elses lives, especially those of quite a few years older than you. Your going to end up in a very bad situation that you are way to young to be dealing with.
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reader, AnnoymousGurl +, writes (2 January 2008):
AnnoymousGurl is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIM NOT HAVING SEX WITH THEM!!! GEEEZZZ
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2007): No wonder you wanted to remain anon. two post below are excellent.You are far too young to be dealing with this stuff you love no-one not even yourself your just rying to act grown up while these to slimballs are abusing you.Do not go near any of them again go with friends your own age or maybe 1/2 yrs older what is the worlds comming to?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2007): first of your 14 the to guys are 19 and 21 you could get them and trouble and put in jail.just let them go ad throw out anything they have gotten you because you have a long live ahead of you just live it to the fullest and find the one that is love at first sight and if one of them where love at first sight pick that one.and its not about who gave you more.its about who spends time with you who knows ur whole name ur birthday ur mommas name.all i can say is pick the right one and dont regret it
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reader, LouLee +, writes (29 December 2007):
 Ditto to loops! I'm sorry but i'm gonna have to be blunt, thats crazy, you're so so young and you shouldnt be with guys that age aswell as cheating....get rid of both and find someone your own age, lifes not about sleeping around with older men hunny
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2007): Sorry, but i can't imagine why a man of 21 would be seeing a girl of 14. That is not right and it is illegal as you are having a sexual relationship. But for you to be seeing others too is even worse. You are too young for a relationship of this nature and you are proving that by your actions. You are still a child and should be acting like one, not out there putting it about. You not only risk the chance of pregnancy but also the chance of catching a nasty STD. Drop these men,and concentrate on you, make sure you visit a clinic as having sex at an early age is risky and could cause problems later in life. Go back to being a teen and have fun with people your own age.
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reader, loops +, writes (29 December 2007):
This sounds like a mess.At 14, you shouldnt be going round having sex, never mind sex with 3 or 4 different people at once. Minus the obvious risks of sexually transmitted dieseases and pregnancy, theres a very big one of messing with your own and other peoples heads.I seriously suggest you have some will power and get rid of them all. If you cant be monogomous you shouldnt be in a relationship to start with, as its between 2 people not 3 or 4 or 5. I may have a different point of view if you had done this one off with someone, or accidentally ended up in a bad situation, but unfortunatley you dont seem to show any care or remorse, and as for love, you dont love someone more cos youve known them longer, thats madness, I dont think you love any of them, you maybe just like the attention. Either way its no good for anyone.Sorry to be blunt but I seriously do think you should get rid of them all and really think about what your doing before you mess with one of their heads, or your own.
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