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writes:this is hard to explain, but im goin to try. im 18 years old and im in highschool and i feel that my 45 year old teacher has feelings for me but i dont really understand it bc hes always telling me how much hes in love with his 24 year old wife, but then he emails me and tells me he wishes i would come to his classroom and give him a hug from heavan and how i smell so nice when i give him a hug and hes always tellin me i look beautiful. he leaves to go across the country to spend time with his wife, but yet he emails me telling me how much he misses me and cant wait to see me again. he told me that i should get a passport so i could travel with him, and that im more then welcome to live with him when he moves back to the middle east, and one morning he asked me to smell his neck because he says he forgot to put colonge on. but i dont get it, why would he be like this with me if he says hes so in love with his wife and he misses her and he is so crazy for her, why does he flirt with me like he does, im just very confused because i like him also, but i just dont get it, maybe its because hes from a different country and maybe there just like that!
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reader, mama2three +, writes (28 December 2007):
 Yikes...run away, run far away...well, as far as possible considering he is your teacher. He sounds like a womanizer, I'd keep my distance. Why in the world is he emailing you. This is very inappropriate, he could lose his job over this.
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (27 December 2007):
 Nope! There are creepy old men in every country!
Put a great deal of distance between yourself and this womanizer, and please don't let yourself be in a situation where you are alone with him. He is a married man and your teacher. His behavior is highly inappropriate. If he is doing this with you, he has obviously done it before with someone else and will probably do it again. Most 45 year olds are NOT married to 24 year olds and still flirting with 18 year old students! You have to hypothesize that this man is pretty immature and uses young women to prop up his ego because of a mid-life crisis. You would be wise to tell him that his advances are unwanted and to back off. He's doing this because he's a creepy old man, and unfortunately, there is usually one in every school.
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