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Archived questions from: November, 2006 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

I'm in love with someone else - but should I just settle for my less physical marriage or move on?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5070 days ago

30 November 2006 (M) - I'm a 25-year old christian guy that married his first girlfriend 2 years ago (after dating her for 3 years). Before I met her, I spent most of my time behind a computer, not meeting girls. Although I was not a christian when we started dating, I ...

She is still cheating on me, what am I suppose to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6594 days ago

30 November 2006 (?) - please advice me on what to do. I have a girl friend as my lover, and I really love her that I never won't to loss her no matter what will happen between us, though she promised never to leave me. but now with all the promises she have made with me, ...

He's off on a lad's holiday! I don't trust him and I'm upset he's going..what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6494 days ago

30 November 2006 (F) - Hi please help, my boyfriend of nearly two years has said he's off on a lads holiday with all his mates next summer. what bothers me is the fact they're all single! i tried to explain how i thought this was wrong to do while in a relationship, as ...

He's lied to me..he calls me names and now I'm wondering-if he has someone else? Any advice?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6587 days ago

30 November 2006 (F) - My bf of 3 years and 4 months is telling me he wants a break and he doesn't know if he wants to get back together. We fight A LOT and he said that that's why. Is he having someone else? He lives an hour and 15 mins from me. I 've never been to his ...

I cheated, he forgave me, then believed a rumour we were having an affair so he dumped me! I want him back!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6597 days ago

29 November 2006 (F) - I cheated on my boyfriend of 6 years 2 years ago and he found out, he got really angry but he said he would forgive me, stupidly i started talking to the guy i cheated with and we became friends, my boyfriend found out and we fought constantly about ...

I cheated on her when drunk... how can I get her back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6406 days ago

29 November 2006 (M) - Hi, i please need help i don't know what to do. i have been home one year now but i really wasn't content with my self, last week i got very drunk and cheated on my girlfriend, i know that this happened as a combo of my own state of mind and the ...

Not sure but hubby may be cheating. What are the signs to watch for?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6597 days ago

29 November 2006 (F) - I think my husband is cheating on me with my brothers wife. What do I do? I can I find out. We fight every night. We never spend anytime togther. If she comes over he will sit up and talk. But if its just us he goes to sleep on the couch. Everytime ...

We're drifting apart..is he seeing someone or just not bothering to call me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6107 days ago

29 November 2006 (F) - hello my boyfriend appears to be drifting apart from me sometimes. we have a good time together and he seems like he is happy to see me. but sometimes he is unpredictable. sometimes he will not call me i dont know if he is seeing someone else or ...

Cheating-harrasment-lies...I'm in the middle of a bad situation and I need advice!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6597 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - Please help me. My friend A told me she was seeing a friends husband B a couple of months ago but now its all finished. She is married and has four children and my husband and i were good friends with her husband and her. Problem started when a ...

I found he was looking for a "masseuse", but now he's pleading for my forgiveness!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6598 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years and until last night I thought we were very happy. I was going through his sent emails innocently searching for a work-related one when i found a message he'd sent asking for an online 'masseuse' to send him ...

Why did my bf go on dating site. if he loves me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6598 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - Just found my long term boyfriend on a dating site. He started texing a girl, i found the messages, i knew something wasn't right. He tells me he loves me and its the biggest mistake of his life. I am very confused. Why did he do it? ...

The lover I cheated with..owes me money and won't pay me back! Should I let this go or insist on it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6557 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - Hi there, I have recently broke off an affair, and the guy that I have been involved with has intially agreed to return the cash he owes me. Now that the time has come to pay me, he has changed his mind. I find this very annoying and mad...

I'm cheating on my bf with a married man who left his "then' pregnant wife for me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6557 days ago

27 November 2006 (F) - I don't know what to do, have been cheating on my bf for a year. I love my bf of 6 yrs to bits but he is so cold and unloving towards me. We moved in together a year and a half ago and were happy but he is away alot with work. The guy I am cheating ...

I've grown up around women who were cheated on...is this why I can't trust my bf?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6599 days ago

27 November 2006 (F) - Hi, I am a bit confused with myself as i keep thinking that my boyfriend is cheating on me in my head (but in my heart i dont believe he would)! I have grown up around women being cheated on and i dont know how to handle this as sometimes my mind ...

My ex and I started over, but she cheated on me! I don't know what to do. Please help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6521 days ago

27 November 2006 (M) - Hi, I've never posted to something like this, but I find myself at a loss. I have been in a relationship for the last 3 years with a woman I love very much. For the first 2 years, things were quite good. About 6 months ago, we broke up...it wa...

She cheated on me at uni and says not to worry about it happening again - but I'm still going mad!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6599 days ago

27 November 2006 (M) - I have been with my gf, lets call her 'X' for a year and a half - we are both 19!! Shes recently went to uni, where within the first 3 weeks she kissed another guy, then waited two weeks until she came home for my birthday to tell me. I admit that ...

A very close friend says she treasures me more than her bf! what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6599 days ago

27 November 2006 (M) - I have a friend whom I have become very close to.We are very close that we some times find ourselves kissing and fondling!The problem is that she has a boyfriend who thinks we are moving out. I really want them to be happy together but I sometimes ...

The lipstick on his collar looked suspicious...what do you all think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6599 days ago

27 November 2006 (F) - With my b/f for a year. One night we were lying together on the couch and the lower collar of his white t-shirt i see a straight line thats about half an inch. To me, it looked like lipstick that wasn't mine. (It wasn't bright red or anything so i...

Ooops! Sent my married friend, an email professing my love for him! I think I messed up badly-he has not responded!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6600 days ago

26 November 2006 (F) - Five months ago, I met a man who was also my doctor. I'm not his patient now but we are still in touch via email. A few days ago, he called me to call off a formal engagement. He sounded cool on the phone, probably because his wife was nearby. We ...

My long distance GF told me she was tempted to cheat on me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6589 days ago

26 November 2006 (M) - My long distance gf told me that she was tempted to cheat at a nightclub. She never actually cheated, but would have pretended it was me. We see each other once a month if we are lucky. She loves kisses and cuddles and always wants to feel me ...

I'm dating someone else-but I cuddled up to him on the bus!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6600 days ago

26 November 2006 (F) - It all started on the school trip. Me and this lad spent the whole day together. And on the way back on the bus coach, I cuddled up to him, we talked and he played with my hair and did all these things that made me smile! And i lay there realising i ...

I'm cheating on my husband and don't know how to stop!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

26 November 2006 (F) - i am cheating on my husband with one of our friends... it has been going on for the past three years. but we never had slept. we only kiss. but i dont know how to stop. it's like i am addicted to him...

My bf treats me badly, so I met a nice guy in a chat room...should I meet him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6600 days ago

26 November 2006 (F) - help me. I feel so terrible, I've done a terrible thing. My boyfriend and me have had our share of problems.. I feel like he ignores me and tries to control me. I have posted questions about our relationship on this website before. Las...

Caught my GF wanting to cheat on me by using a fake online profile! Now what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6600 days ago

26 November 2006 (M) - Caught my GF wanting to cheat on me by using a fake online profile! Now what? I have the same situation but I am a guy. She is in South America but we are thinking about getting married and stuff and I made a fake profile and I seduced her and ...

Attractive married boss flirts but I will never do anything with him! But I had a sexual dream about him..is this normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6563 days ago

26 November 2006 (F) - Good looking attractive married boss with children I've caught him looking at me in a flirty way and make me feel stange as I would never do anything to split a family or have a go but I keep remembering it and had a sexual dream the other day, ...

I thought he was fantastic until..I discovered he was trolling for women and sex on AdultFriendFinder! Now he wants to put this behind us.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6601 days ago

25 November 2006 (F) - I recently discovered that my boyfriend had advertised himself for sex on adult friend finder. I have found this out through a long and torturous voyage of discovery. There have been a number of times when he promised he had now told me the whole ...

The guy I date won't leave the place he lives because--he lives with his current gf and her Mother! and he'd be homeless!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6600 days ago

25 November 2006 (F) - i have this bf and i really like him as he like the male version of me we been together a month but the problem is he live with his other gf and her mum he says he wants to leave her for me but if he does he will be homeless also he good friends ...

He hanging out with me but he's got a gf on myspace! What's up with this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6600 days ago

25 November 2006 (F) - I hung out with this guy for a few weeks and the night after I hung out with him I looked at his myspace and noticed on his top 4 there was a girl so I went to hers and noticed that he left her a comment and basically there together. So why would he ...

My mistress of 5 years left me...and I am so heartbroken! Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6575 days ago

25 November 2006 (M) - hi, i am 45 years old, married man. I have been having an affair with a lady for 5 years. she is aware i am married and have children. ilove her very much but cannot leave my wife and children. this lady has now left me and will not talk to me or re...

I have a fiancee and a child but-there's this other guy. Do I stay or go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6601 days ago

25 November 2006 (F) - Well i have been with my fiancee for 2 years and we have a 1 yr old child together. When we first got together i realized i knew my fiancess best friend from a couple months before i had actually met my fiance! well we would talk once in a while and ...

Two women on the go! How do I tell the truth to my new gf and my old gf, who has a baby!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6156 days ago

25 November 2006 (M) - i was moving out with a girl and she now has my baby.When I went to University, I met an old friend and fell in love with her.We are currently too deep in love with each other that I am finding it hard to reveal the truth about my other Girlfriend ...

Can you ever take back someone who has cheated?

This question has 41 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

25 November 2006 (M) - What are your thoughts on cheating? It's a long story so I won't go into too much detail right now. If someone cheats and then realises they have made a terrible mistake...have taken steps to try and put things right...begging for you to take the...

My male friend has jokingly implied, .we have something going on. This concerns me because ..he's married!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6602 days ago

24 November 2006 (F) - This male friend of mine has on a couple of occassions implied something has been going on between us. A couple of examples once when i saw him about 3 times within 24 hours he commented on it and said people will talk another time when i was w...

I cheated with a guy at a party...I don't know what to do . Will My bf dump me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6602 days ago

24 November 2006 (F) - I need help im beside myself. i have done such silly things. at my friends fifteenth, i cheated with a guy. he has a gf and i have a bf and i dont no what to do i no i'm an idiot but my bf will dump me and my friend will hate me. it was a ...

Will this feeling of hatred toward his and his mistress's baby daughter.. ever go away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6600 days ago

24 November 2006 (F) - well my daughters father cheated on me had a baby with another woman. I despise this baby every time i look at her i cringe i want my daughter to know her lil sister but i know i will never accept her and i fear i will always treat her different ...

I've cheated on my partner with his friend! He's ending our relationship and I don't know what to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6557 days ago

24 November 2006 (F) - ive recently cheated on my partner with his friend our relationship has revolved around him and his friends for so long i just didn't know what i was doin i love him very much and we have a small daughter he took me back initially but now has told ...

Should I be worried about the mysterious texts from a woman, on his phone?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6307 days ago

24 November 2006 (F) - I found texts on my husband's phone from a woman I don't know arranging for them to meet up. I asked who she was and was told "She's no one". He has since deleted these texts. I am worried something is going on. Should I be?...

I'm worried my husband of 20 years has cheated on me! What should I do?

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24 November 2006 (F) - i am so worried i think my husband of 20 years has cheated on me and i can't prove it its eating me away he was on a business trip about one month ago even though he hugs and kisses me during the day when it comes to bed time he either goes before ...

I love him, despite the fact he loves another woman! What should I do--wait or leave?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6602 days ago

24 November 2006 (F) - Me and my husband of 6yrs have currenlty separated?We have a 5yr old son together and We kind of has some problems coming from jealousy he took this girl he worked with and her kids and our son fishing and to the park one day while i was at work and ...

How can I prove my love? Or should I let go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6537 days ago

24 November 2006 (F) - My husband of 6yrs who i have a 5yr son by has cheated on me with a woman he works with and i gave him plenty of oppurtunities for him to tell me and he didn't. Now he tell's me there will never be a chance for me and him cause he's in love with ...

He cheated on me twice then asked his friend to tell me, it was over! I still feel for him though and I want to know why he did this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6602 days ago

23 November 2006 (F) - About a month ago, I was 'dumped' by my 1 year boyfriend. He has told his friends he has cheated on me twice, and his friends told me. I am absolutely appauled. Even so, I still feel something for him. He has not spoken to me since the break-up...

We had problems, he used to do drugs, I cheated on him but he still wants me! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6600 days ago

23 November 2006 (F) - we have been on this relation for a 6yrs now.because of this we get delayed to get married.but he loves me very much.but 2 yrs back he has an affair that he told me,and have a kid also.beacuse of this our relation had gone apart for sometime.at this ...

He's a player...should I sleep with his mate to get back at him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6602 days ago

23 November 2006 (F) - should i sleep with his m8 to get back at him. ok i think the agony aunts right hes a player but how do i act round him what should i say, should i let him know what hes missing? or should i shy away into a corner and neva speek to him or his m8s ...

My gf seems to be eyeing up my brother...am I stupid or she trying to flirt with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6603 days ago

23 November 2006 (M) - My Girlfriend Look's At My Brother does it mean anything? what does it mean when a girl look's at a lad? i noticed in the past few day's my girl will be watching tv and than turn her eyes to look at my younger brother (he's hotter than me) and tha...

He kept an affair a secret for 2 years..I may never trust him again! Should I stay or go?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6603 days ago

23 November 2006 (F) - well my boyfriend and i have been on and off for 7 years now ive cheated and told him not long after it happened i felt guilty so i understood y it was hard to trust me but a couple of weeks ago i had heard from friends of mine that he doesnt know ...

I think my bf is cheating on me...how do I stop being so paranoid?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6604 days ago

22 November 2006 (F) - i have been going out with my b/f now for 4 yrs and i thought we loved each other very much but over the last year things have got bad. last year my b/f had a serious car accident abroad and nearly died. I stood by him and helped him with everyth...

Update: My husband who left me for a much younger woman...should I confront this woman?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

22 November 2006 (F) - i would just like to thank the people who took the time to answer my worries on my husband left me for a girl 15 years younger . and to say yes i do have kids but they dont know about this because im hoping to get back with him. i love and miss him ...

I dont think she's over her ex, should I leave until she does?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6604 days ago

22 November 2006 (M) - My girlfriend can't get over her ex. She broke up with him two years ago because he cheated. Recently, she e-mailed him saying she thinks about him at least once a day and how she still misses him. She also tells him how lucky his new girlfriend is ...

Can't get past her cheating! It's not the same anymore..what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6603 days ago

22 November 2006 (M) - ive been with this girl awhile she cheated relized what she lost and were trying to work it out, its not the same we dont get along until we cuddle at night. i get mad about her cheating and im having a hard time getting over it and making it work ...

Update on the guy who wanted life on the road....turns out he wants he was playing a big game between me and his ex! I am heartbroken!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6605 days ago

22 November 2006 (F) - The worst kind of liar in the world! That is my ex. I really need some feedback on this so I know how to proceed.... my heart is ripped to shreds. I posted earlier tonight. Here's the link to the whole story: http://www.dearcupid.org/questi...