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writes: I have been with my gf, lets call her 'X' for a year and a half - we are both 19!! Shes recently went to uni, where within the first 3 weeks she kissed another guy, then waited two weeks until she came home for my birthday to tell me. I admit that we had been having our ups and downs before she left, but I would never be unfaithful, and have never given her reason to distrust me. So, we worked through everything, and now everything seems good. But i am driving myself mad with the thought of what she gets up to when she goes out - i know alot of boys like her, but she says i dont need to worry. I honestly dont no wot to do for the best, so pls pls help me in anyway you can!!I do love her, and shes says she loves me, but a big part of me thinks she just says this because she gets caught up in the moment!!!Pls pls help me Thank you!!
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reader, Prada +, writes (28 November 2006):
Well i think that you have a pretty big decision to make because if you do love her and you want to be with her than you just have to suck it up and try to get over it.But it is not fair for her or you to be in this relationship if you cant trust her,so you just need to decide how much do you really want to be with her.
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reader, SexKitten69  +, writes (27 November 2006):
 Hi, I can see you must be confused by this (Well i certainly am!).
I think i would let this one ride out, 'apart' relationships are hard and there needs to be 100% trust between each other, otherwise there is always an element of 'what if this is happening.....'.
Maybe like you said she gets caught up in the moment, maybe thats what happened with the kiss......
I would explain to her that it's still troubling you and try to come to some compramise. Or even better why not go out together at weekend? Take turns in visiting each other?
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