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writes: Five months ago, I met a man who was also my doctor. I'm not his patient now but we are still in touch via email. A few days ago, he called me to call off a formal engagement. He sounded cool on the phone, probably because his wife was nearby. We didn't have an afair or anything but we definitely shared a strong connection, not just professionally.Anyway, after his cold phone call, I was upset and had a few too many beers and I wrote him an email, professing my love for him and that I feel he has the same feelings for me. Now, I regret having done so. I feel that I let my hair down too much and that I embarrassed myself. He hasn't emailed me back and I'm afraid to ever look him in the eye again should I see him at the clinic....When we saw each other before we always hugged for a very long time and I'm certain of a connection/attraction but my email may have screwed up any possible future now, right? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2006): WHAT future?! You had absolutely no business sending the email you did, and surely you must know that.
Most likely he was shocked and taken aback, plus embarrassed. Perhaps you should find another clinic - or if you cannot do that, avoid him like the plague if you run into him there.
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reader, eddie  +, writes (26 November 2006):
 Have you considered staying out of his life since he's a married man? Really, you hugged for a long time. How nice. Is that something to build a relationship on?
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