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writes: It all started on the school trip. Me and this lad spent the whole day together. And on the way back on the bus coach, I cuddled up to him, we talked and he played with my hair and did all these things that made me smile! And i lay there realising i had totaly fell for him! The problem is that my best friend well .. shes madly in love with him and i dont know what to do, i dont want to tell her because i dont want to loose a friend over him. Im also currently in a relationship and don't want to hurt him.. Please help me.. x
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2006): Dear, you are young and enjoying your youth. I would suggest you need to tell your bf, you are not ready for an exclusive relationship with him. because if you are cuddling up to the lad on the bus, you are checking out other opportunities and dating possibilities. This is the normality in the life of a teenager. You date, you break up, you date another, you break up. So don't despair, you are doing nothing wrong! I advise you to get out there and date, but do it, using your head and common sense. I think teenagers have a lot of living to do before they're truly ready to settle into 'exclusive' relationships. You need to find your own rhythms, date a variety of people, develop new friends and interests, learn how to live with and care for yourself. Youa re preparing for adulthood, so learn as much as you can from the experiences, you undertake. These are the ways young people learn who they are and what makes them unique.
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reader, Amethyst  +, writes (26 November 2006):
 Wow... you're stuck between a rock and a hard place aren't you? Well, ok, let's see. There are plenty of ways this can go, first off, does he even like your friend at all? I know that if he doesn't your friend shouldn't get mad at you, but that's not the way this world works, is it? Are you happy with your current boyfriend at all? Is this one of those cases where you like both and you can't choose? I need some foundation for a good response, sorry for all the questions.
From what I know as of right now, I know you should probably wait it out and see how things go. You might not really be as into him as you think, it could just be something that'll last a while then fade... it happens to the best of us.
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