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writes: should i sleep with his m8 to get back at him. ok i think the agony aunts right hes a player but how do i act round him what should i say, should i let him know what hes missing? or should i shy away into a corner and neva speek to him or his m8s again. which is what i often do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2006): If he is a "player" then stay away from him. Don't sleep around so you can hurt anyone and all you really hurt is yourself.
Love and respect yourself and you will find thatspecial someone who will do the same for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2006):
Wait- wont that reenforce the image of him and his friends that women are sluts and there is no point in being loyal to them?
Perhaps moving on and acting like an adult might be beter revenge although he might not realize it for another 5 years.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2006): if u think its going to bother him, hurt him, then do it.
but in return, hows that going to make u look? are u going to feel better when all is said and done. women have a hard time standing up for themselves because of the double standard. i cant believe ur even thinking about using ur body to get back at some one who obviously isnt worth it. it would be different if u wanted to date the guy. but ur the one who is going to get hurt in the end.
think more grown up thoughts
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2006): If you sleep with his mates to try and make him jealous they, and him, will see you as a slag. Are you a slag? Isn't your body worth more than just to be used as a means to make someone jealous?
You arn't going to get far in life by trying to hurt everyone that hurts you. Instead, see the situation for how it is, accept that someone hurt you and move on with your life. Don't let anyone upset you, just put them in your past and get on with your life. Learn from this and you'll be a stronger person because of it. All the best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2006): Although your feelings may be hurt and you would just like to run into the arms of someone else to make yourself feel wanted, this is a very stupid and dangerous game you are playing, you will only end up feeling more used and abused especially when the only reaction you will get out of your player bf is amusement and disrespect.
Show some maturity and act as if it does not bother you that the guy is not interested in you, he has the right to be with whom ever he chooses, and if it is not you, you can choose to be civil and friendly, you can choose to move on and date others, or you can choose to ignore him all together.
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