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Archived questions from: November, 2010 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

What went wrong? Why his change of heart? Can I get him back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - I have recently had a breakup with a guy I dated for 2 months. It was a short relationship, but everything seemed from the first date and so on. We went out every single week since we met each other. In each one of the dates we felt we had so many ...

I don't know what should I do with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5101 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - I dated this guy for a month and the very last night I saw him, we got together. I didn't think that I was jumpin in or rushing it in because, I saw him like twice a week every week for a month. Well the bottom line is that after that night(at th...

Why do you think he behaves this way?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - Hello - Why do you think he behaves this way ? We dated for several months but ended last september. We never lost contact but definitely was less frequent. Anyway he always crossed the friendship line with those "I would like to be with you" com...

He says he loves me but I have my doubts!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - We've been married 21 years minus 4 year of separation. It was a terrible break. He got the teenagers to side with him and threw me out! Then our first born and only daughter died and I was shattered. I was so unstable that I needed someone and I ...

My ex girlfriend has left me for another guy but I still love her, is there any chance of winning her back?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4361 days ago

30 November 2010 (M) - Hi there all. This is my first major break up, my girlfriend of 3 years recently went to university, i was seeing her every weekend, in till during the week she broke up with me and got with another guy. The way she did it was so awful, i d...

One day he said he would love me forever, the next day he hates me and has found a new partner!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - I Was in a relationship for 6 years on and off for a year because another person they went with we got back together 2 years now we became partners a month ago a week later they text me they dont love me and is with another person already! how can ...

Why am I hurting so much?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - Hey, I was in a relationship for about a year with a guy that i believed in my heart was the one. we got together and things were good for a few months then i started to feel like he was scolding me like a child, when he would hurt my feelings by ...

I cant deal with her anymore! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

30 November 2010 (M) - Hi there my girlfriend and I have been living together for three months, and in this period of time our relationship has fallen apart. I want to move out, but I feel that will wreak havoc on my schoolwork and that I will have to finish the lease and ...

He broke up with me because he thinks he was a bad boyfriend! What should I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - My boyfriend broke up with me because he said he was a bad boyfriend and he did everything wrong? erm a couple of months ago our relationship was a little rough because he cheated on me and was texting other girls, i got fed up of it and he got fe...

Is he using me or her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - my ex and i are split up for about 7 month now. He go a new girlfriend that stays with him. But call me in the night, wanting me to go to his place when she is not there, we still sleep together is he using me or her? I still love him what do i do? ...

Does she miss me? Does she just want to be friends? What is going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

30 November 2010 (M) - So, I was dating this girl during the summer. She's 2 years younger than I am, but we had a lot of fun together. I was serious about dating her, even though it was never "official." Anyways, we ended up having Her First Kiss. A few days later, she ...

While we were on a break she kissed another guy, and now she wants me to be friends with him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

30 November 2010 (M) - I Really, Really need help and advice here! So here is my problem: my girlfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years now and during that time we separated for a month. We had been having some problems and she decided we needed time to clear ...

I'm scared to break his heart, I'm the only person he trusts!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5105 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - i've been going out with my boyfriend for 6 months, he is madly in love with me but i just have never felt the spark in the relationship. its a secret from my parents and is just too hard trying to find ways around them and im sick of disappointing ...

I cant stand the idea of not being with him, but then again I know deep down it is the right thing to end it.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - I'm in a confused state. I've been with this guy for two years. Our relationship has been far from fairy tale, but we made each other happy. So we've been in a long distance relationship for the past 8 months. Its been really hard. He questio...

Why did my married lover walk away from me? There are so many questions left unanswered!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - Hi, I'm newbie here. Anyways, I just wanted to share my story, a story which I held it for a long time since I don't have no one to talk to..This is gonna be a long one, but i'll try to make it short as much as I can. I hope you guys will understand ...

We broke up then got back together, will things ever be the same again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been dating or about 5 months. We see each other and I stay over his apartment on the weekends but for the past couple of weeks, we haven't been going out to actually do things and get to know each other like we use to when ...

She doesn't want me because I was bi-curious a long time ago! Advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

30 November 2010 (M) - Ok so me and my gf were together for a year and a half and we had a baby together. We broke up for about six months because we didnt trust each other and just recently got back together. Well things were going great till i found out she was lying to ...

Romeo and Juliet was just a step on my ladder.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

29 November 2010 (M) - I have come looking for help and advice. I need it desperately. This is my story. When I was 15 I started going out with a girl who we will call lucy (not her real name). I had had a few girlfriends before her that lasted around 8-10 months (...

I don't know how to feel about him still talking to his ex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - So this boy I have been talking to for two months now, I just found out he is still talking to one of his ex's. When we first started talking, we were, "together" but he broke up with me when he found out I cheated on him. So we actually stopped ...

Please tell me... how to break up with him???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5105 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - Me and my partner have been together for 5 years. in the 2nd year of my relationship he told me about his other girlfriend. we called her and he said to her that it was over between them. in the eve she called me back and told that they had sex 3 ...

Did I do something, or was it her who changed?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

29 November 2010 (?) - I need some serious help! My gf of 3 years broke up about 4 months ago. The problem is that I just can't get over on how she treated me in our relationship. The first 2 years were fine, but the last year that we moved in together was com...

I'm so upset, I lost my virginity to him but now he thinks I've cheated and is back with his ex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - Hey, bit of a long story but need help! Well me and my boyfriend were going amazing, i loved him so much! We had split in the summer as work was too busy and he said he wouldn't have had time to see me. But we got back together in the septembe...

Is this a normal reaction from a guy? is what he is asking within reason?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - this is gonna sound mental but here goes... my bf of 6 months is a swinger now thats cool with me cause im a swinger too though he didnt know that at the time, i dont know why i didnt tell him straight i sought of hinted to him that i was bad girl...

How do I get him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - My boyfriend of 1 year and I have broken up. We have a make up to break up kind of relationship. We fight and argue a lot which always end up with a breakup and then we get back together in a day or less. We weren't like this all the time and I ...

Should I let ex know where I'm going?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

29 November 2010 (M) - Well my ex and I just recently broken up and I've decided that I need to go NC. She's already in a new relationship with somebody else and it's only been a week. Hearing this news has been very tough. But I realize that going NC is the best solution ...

Will my ex come back to me in the future?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

29 November 2010 (M) - Here's my situation, about three months ago, after my last visit to my girlfriend, we were having problems. She would say to me that she was "confused" and not sure if this was the direction that she wanted to take in life, which basically meant ...

How do you respond to an ex's message?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3571 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend of almost a year about 4 months ago. It didn't go very well. Since it was my first, I didn't take it very well and said some things I regretted. In the end I sent him an apology and left it at that. We haven't spoken ...

He wants an open relationship and I can't handle it! how do I let go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - Need help letting go...Been w boyfriend for 9 years. We see each other once a month for 5 days (LDR) he moved 8 months ago for job. I have put alot of effort into this relationship from the start. Did not move down w him because of my job and he w...

Its been 3 months and I'm still not over him

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28 November 2010 (F) - My boyfriend broke up with me and its been 3 months. We go to the same school and we do the same activity at school so i see him everyday. I went to dances and parties and talked to plently of guys and made new guy friends. But i dont know why but ...

She cares for me but wants to be in other relationships. I don't get it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5105 days ago

28 November 2010 (M) - Me and my girlfriend (both in our 20s)of 9 months have recently split up. We had an amazing relationship, we never argued we are very close and we always got along really well, you could see that we were best friends aswell as boyfriend and ...

Shouldn't I be getting over him by now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5106 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - I was going out with my ex for two and a half years and for the last year it was nothing but terrible arguments that we just couldnt resolve no matter what we tried, so we decided to break up. Its been two and a half months since the break up and ...

Do I have to cut him off completely and just accept it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - We didn't mean to fall in love, but it happened. He was my first love, too. The problem is, I'm 20, he's 36, and he was my teacher at my former prep school. We obviously cannot be together, and when we realized that the feelings had progressed way ...

She says she needs time to think. what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5107 days ago

28 November 2010 (M) - My girlfriend says she needs space/ time to think. What should I do. What does it mean? ...

He says he has bigger problems to deal with than me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5107 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - Me and my ex where together for about 3years During those 3years we lied to each other I was a very jealous person who did not let him do anything. We had breakups and eventually got back together. During that time we ended living together I was ...

We only got back together because he promised not to lie, but he is telling lies again already

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been in a relationship for about 5yrs, he was married for 19 yrs and I for 21 years. During the time we have been together he has cheated on me (he says only 1 time but I'm not sure) and have gotten busted lying to me ...

Please, I need advice. I am completely Torn.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - I apologize for how long this is, I just feel like the details are important, and I could really use the advice! Over the summer I met this guy while on a group vacation, he's related to some very close family friends; we have several connections,...

Should I keep fighting, even though he's with another?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5107 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - After almost a year of dating my ex broke up with me. His reasons were he did not love me anymore...keep in mind i want to marry this person so of course i was crushed. 3 weeks later he jumps in a realtionship with a little immature girl who is a...

I'm having sex with a different man each week but I don't want to be this person... help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

27 November 2010 (F) - Dear all, I'm not too sure where to start but I don't know what to do and I really need some advice. I split up with my boyfriend (we'd been together for over 7 years) in january and since then i have been doing things that really aren't me. ...

I smoke... and he broke up with me because of it.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5107 days ago

27 November 2010 (F) - My boyfriend is really really against smoking and even though I only smoked occasionally, I gave it up completely for him. A month or two ago we went through a pretty bad breakup after being together for 2 years and I was going crazy. I was ...

Breakup of marriage--why do I feel robbed?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5107 days ago

27 November 2010 (F) - Why is it socially acceptable that when the marriage has problems and one spouse wants out that the other spouse is left picking up the shattered pieces? They are left raising the children and reassuring them of future happiness. Dealing with ...

Giving her time to think about it, but she's not utilizing this time wisely!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5107 days ago

27 November 2010 (M) - So I'm going through a shit time at the moment. My ex girlfriend said she needs time to think about me and her getting back together. However, in that time of her thinking we have been talking and that, and she is in two minds and doesn't really h...

Do you think I got over him too fast? Do you think he was jealous about me going ot to the movies?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5107 days ago

27 November 2010 (F) - My boyfriend broke up with me last thursday right before thiis really awesome foot ball game. At the game there were a lot of cute guys there but for some reason I couldn't get my mind off of him. I got over him on saturday and ended going to this ...

Is 4 weeks without any contact a sign that its totally over???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

27 November 2010 (M) - Hey: My girlfriend of two years broke up with me roughly 10 weeks ago and we have been NC for just shy of 4 weeks. She broke up with me because I was studying and working full time for my med boards for the 5 months prior and wasn't able to g...

I WANT to believe that he is really making it up to me but our past is stopping me doing so.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

27 November 2010 (F) - Hi, I'm not sure where to start but here goes. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years now, but twice during these four years that we broke up because he cheated on me and lied to me. The first time was harder because I never saw it com...

What if I don't make it through this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

27 November 2010 (F) - What if I can't get through this? This has been the most difficult break up I've ever been through. We were together for nearly 5 years and found out he was cheating on me. I ended it. He moved in with his mistress after I busted him and confronted ...

I dumped him because he told me to dump him!

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27 November 2010 (F) - Hi everyone! I have been with my bf for 3 yrs,we always fighting and now we are in a LDR since may this year,everytime when we fight he told me to dump him and find another bf if his not treating me well,he can't even say sorry,yesterday he told me ...

I'm still having trouble moving on..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

27 November 2010 (M) - Our break up was just 2 weeks ago and she became involved with another guy within the first week. Every time I go to browse around on Facebook there are pictures of them together. It sucks when I can't even check my own updates without being ...

Doubting what I had in the first place

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5107 days ago

27 November 2010 (M) - Ok, so two months ago I split up with the girl of my dreams. This post will be a bit long, but I need to include a lot of detail. Thanks in advance for reading. I think I know why it happened now, but when I asked some people for help they just t...

I still love her...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5108 days ago

27 November 2010 (F) - This is going to be very long, but i really need help or some sort of guidance. i have nobody else to talk to about this ): So my freshman year of high school i met a sophomore girl for the first time. we always had a lot of mutual friends a...

He can't go longer than a day without checking up on me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5108 days ago

27 November 2010 (F) - My boyfriend broke up with me three weeks ago but still manages to contact me every day and what makes it hard is that we go to the same school. He pulled the whole 'lets still be friends line' when we broke up. Last week he told me he still likes ...