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writes:Me and my ex where together for about 3years During those 3years we lied to each other I was a very jealous person who did not let him do anything. We had breakups and eventually got back together. During that time we ended living together I was in really in love. But things seemed to never change lies and breaking up till eventually I got pregnant with his baby we where so happy we where gonna start new from the beginning have this baby and be happy family but during my pregnancy it was the same yelling breaking up lying I was being jealous. I ended up having the baby at 8 months and everything seemed perfect she was born healthy only after a few days in the hospital that she developed a sickness that was not cureable and she died after nine days being born we where so devasted it was the worst ever. After that me and him wher still together but a little shacky he would go out and come late and do sneaky phone calls I ended up finding out he was talking to another girl. I confronted him and it ended up being in a breakup. Eventually we ended up being together again but wasn't working out he wanted to go out to clubs and parties and do his own thing and I didn't want that because He was suppose to be with me and not other girls partying around. So We broke up again he said he wanted to live his life and be with all the girls. It's been 6 months since the breakup during that time he has only come to look for me twice to see how I'm doing and to reminisce about our daughter. I have his number and just a few days ago we went to the beach to talk only about the baby at first he didn't want to go but then he did. It felt so good talking to him I really love and want to get back with him. I texted two days after we hung out to see if maybe he wanted to hang out and he didn't answer my texts he finally did later on that day saying he does not want to hang out with me I told him I needed to talk to him so he came to my apartment I met him downstairs and I had asked what had happen to us why we weren't together he told me that if the conversation had nothing to do with the baby he didn't want to talk and left. I'm sad depressed and crying because I love him and I want to get back and start all over he says he doesn't have time to be dealing with me that he has bigger problems what should I do?
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (28 November 2010):
 I am very very sorry sbout your loss.
Your ex-boyfriend is no longer your boyfriend and does not want to get back together with you. When he says he has bigger problemns, he means that you have moved down the importance list. Your relationship is over. You can't force him back into it. You have to move on with your life and figure out a way to rebuild.
Good luck with this.
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (28 November 2010):
 Sweetheart you need some time out to deal with you and your jealousy and self esteem issues. The most loveable people are self assured and confident in themselves and do not feel the need to control and monitor others. Use this time to reflect on you and work on being happy with yourself.
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