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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I've been broken up with my ex-girlfriend for about 4 months now. We were in love, but she couldn't deal with gossip and drama so she broke it off. Now, we're working at the same sleepaway camp so we see each other every day all the time. For awhlie she wasn't even talking to me for she was afraid she'd start to miss me too much.Finally I confronted her and told her to give me a chance, that I always make her happy and still care about her. So we've been talking for about a week, and I've had my arm around her and we've held hands so I thought I was doing well. But I've heard recently that she doesn't really want to get back together, or doesn't know what she wants but she doesn't know how to say no?What does this girl really want? Should I back off?
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reader, hopelessromantic101 +, writes (26 July 2009):
 it really depends man, she could be saying that because shes ema.resed for going out with you if she broke up with you about gossip. if somebody actually loves somebody theyll be able to withstand the words but it doesnt look at it. ive been through this and its better to get over her now then for you to get even more attached to her and watch her trod all over your heart. if she truky does love you and you giver her space and you do yuour own thing and maybe hng out with some other girls shell confront you and tell you how she truly feels.
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reader, misztoria +, writes (26 July 2009):
 Based on your age I would back off and give her space. If she really wants to get back with you and make it work than by backing off you'll be giving her the power to do so instead of pushing her or making her feel obligated to be with you. Just be her friend when she needs you. Other than that go about your business and let her come to you. Good luck!
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