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writes:i need to know how to respond to an email from my boyfriend of two years. we broke up last week.for the past few months we have been riding the breakup/cant live without you roller coster. this past week, i flipped out and completely went off on him because he went on one of his cold spells. he is wishy washy. super affectionate and attentive, then bam, aloof and distant. its really hard to deal with. i understand why he is like that, his attention is split among his family, his work, and me. i hit a wall, the last straw. i will not accept him blowing me off like a one night stand. anyway, so we broke up, rather dramatically. i sent him an email apologizing for some of what i said and how violently i reacted. i really acted an ass. i didnt want to leave things so badly done.of course i wanted him to reply. when he did, all he said was "call me tomorrow" ... i dont know what to do with that. im not trying to get back together with him, but i want to talk to him. i dont know if i should email him and tell him i said all i needed to in the email? or, should i add that if he has something he needs to tell me he can email me back? or, should i just call him? or, should i tell him ive said all i need to but he can call me if he needs to talk?this may seem petty. but its important how i go about this. i would want to be back together with him if certain things were to happen. i have broken up with him several times, but i cave in when i see him. he always sweet talks me back. i know i cant see him face to face if i am going to stay apartbut i do want to hear what he has to say. thanks for your time.
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reader, starfairy  +, writes (26 July 2009):
 He probably just wants to talk face to face rather than over email...Call him if you want to talk, otherwise just leave it x
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