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writes:Right me and my ex was going to try again but due to things that have happened lately he has decided he no longer likes me and does not what to try again. It was hard to accept at first but i have accepted it now and began talking to an old friend, who is male. But my ex and his mates keep going to up to this friend and questioning him about me. Then my ex will text me having ago and saying i am playing him. How can i be playing him if he does not want me? How can i get him to back off and stop checking up on me. He asked for things to be this way and take separate paths So why wont he leave me alone?
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reader, Original shiraz! +, writes (26 July 2009):
Hes obviously realised that he lies you, the feelings are still there and the fact that you are moving on his hurting him causing the jealousy. Hes saying your playing him yet its more than obvious things are the opposite way round, i suggest you carry on as you are your well within your right to find happiness dont give somebody who let you down once wreck your future. Ignore him and evntually he will see that youve moved on and hopefully hell do the same. If he carries on then you need to be straight with him make it clear and say look you didnt want me and know somebody does you do how is that fair? be straight and to the point, im sure he knows what hes doing but he cant stop now hes started, by handling it in such a bad way hes making the situation worse, let him do that hell be the only one hurting. He decided to play the game so he can get the brunt of it. Dont feel guilty and dont stop yourself being happy.Best of luck
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