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36-40,
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writes:Dear Agony Aunt, I am having relationship difficulties with my boyfriend at the moment. I felt as though I wanted to be more committed to him and spoke about moving in together. This immediately caused arguments as my boyfriend does not want to move in together yet. He seems content with going for meals, holidays, doing enjoyable things together, but does not want to commit. After our final argument he said he wasn't sure he wanted to be with me anymore. Obviously this hurt me and I wanted answers as to why he was being so hurtful, but he asked me not to call as he wanted to get an early night. I decided to leave things and not bug him and the next day there was no communication from either of us, so I thought the relationship was over and tried to begin the healing process. He now keeps calling me throughout the day asking me what I am doing and where I am. If he hears that I am out with my friends he tells me I am already looking for a new man and starts arguing with me again. I just feel really hurt that he has left me, but seems to want to control what I now do. When he calls I answer hoping he will change his mind. I just don't know what to do. Reply to this Question
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reader, thatgothgirl20  +, writes (27 July 2009):
 I agree with Satin. Ignore this guy. If he wanted you back he would've said so to begin with.
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