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Archived questions from: December, 2017 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

My partner's sex drive is lower than mine and I've started developing feelings elsewhere

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2521 days ago

30 December 2017 (M) - Gay male in a long term relationship for 3.5 years with another gay male, similar age. For the first six months of our relationship, we had sex multiple times per week. After that it petered out and since then, we only have sex about once a month, ...

I feel my girlfriend is cheating on me... With her ex husband's new wife!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2516 days ago

29 December 2017 (M) - I've been dating my girlfriend, we'll call her "S", for about 11 months. She has a 4 year old son, I have no children. She's divorced, and it was rough. He was an abusive, meth-head a-hole. I've never been married, but I've been cheated on ...

Can this violent, abusive relationship be saved?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 2516 days ago

29 December 2017 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for just over two years now. We have a house together and before we moved in, we had a great time. However when we moved in, he kept throwing parties and his friends would strip naked and jump into our bed, be ...

We're both 26, been together 3 years and done nothing sexually beyond kissing! It's just driving me up the wall!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2524 days ago

27 December 2017 (M) - Have been dating for over 3 years, we clicked in more than one way and we're fond of each other. We're both 26 and haven't had sex yet (both virgins) . It's likely she hasn't ever had an orgasm or done much "exploration" on her own either. I have ...

How do I fix a bad first impression and make him look at me again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2522 days ago

27 December 2017 (F) - Afew months ago there was a personal trainer who kept looking at me and watching me from afar; I'd look over to him and he never smiled nor turned away. It was quite intimidating so I looked away and didn't pay too much attention. His actually ...

Cannot accept my background and heritage

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2525 days ago

26 December 2017 (F) - I can’t identify with my European parents and nationality. I have been living in the States for the last three decades but along my life I have encountered people from my nationality. I don’t mean to sound judgemental here but everyone from where I ...

Is it right for me to ask her out despite my financial situation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2523 days ago

25 December 2017 (M) - I know a girl and we're at that stage between a friendship and something romantic. Lots of flirting and caring and checking in on each other regularly but I'm between jobs at the moment and I have no idea about the immediate future and when I'll be ...

Career, family, marriage and my life are challenging me! Help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2526 days ago

25 December 2017 (F) - Hi. I am 26, single forever and unemploymed forever. I have done my MSc in Biotechnology. Since then it's been 3 and half years that I am still unemployed after giving hundreds of interviews. I was so interested in the field of research in ...

How do I choose between my two men?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2528 days ago

23 December 2017 (F) - I'm in love with two men one ive known for four years and one ive been with 10 months and I cant choose and its starting to depress me and stress me out having to choose the right one to settle down with, I keep thinking what if I make the wrong ...

I feel my boyfried obsesses over petty tips!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2530 days ago

22 December 2017 (F) - Hello I'd like every one's opinion on this : My boyfriend is very big on tips. He worked as a waiter at a small restaurant for a few years and currently an Uber driver. Every day he would tell me how this rider or that rider promised to tip ...

Playing truth or dare .... I didnt like his answer.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2518 days ago

22 December 2017 (F) - I’ve been talking to this boy he’s in the same year as me but in a different school and tonight we were playing truth or dare I asked him what the most he had done with a girl is and he said he wants to take it back but he’s fingered someone.Ohhh ...

I feel I shouldn't move in til he sorts his children's visitation issue.

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 2443 days ago

21 December 2017 (F) - I have been dating my bf for 2 years now. we live separately for the moment he has his home and I have mine. He has asked me to move in his home but, I have declined at the moment for this story I will tell. he has 3 children 9,10 and 18. I have ...

I'm sinking into depression over this girl

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2524 days ago

21 December 2017 (M) - Okay, just to start off my life has been going completely downhill. It's a long story and has been going on for about 3 years now, but here goes: There's a girl. She's perfect for me; she's pretty much the definition of what I want in a girl. ...

My boyfriend regrets telling me about the woman who gets naked!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2517 days ago

21 December 2017 (F) - I have a predicament. I've been dating a really nice man for the past year. However, there is this one friend of his family member who in the past 10 years has removed all her clothing and targeting him lets just say more than once. He swears he has ...

I know I don't have any claim on him so why do I feel bad?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2518 days ago

21 December 2017 (F) - Dear Cupid, Me and my bestfriend, who I work in the same office with, started hanging out with this guy we also work with. The guy works in the field so we only get to hang out when he is in town, which happens about once a month. Anyway...

My boyfriend wants me to do stuff, I feel stuck!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2531 days ago

21 December 2017 (F) - Okay so me and my boyfriend have been togetehr for a while now and he wants to go further. I’m not sure if i’m quite ready for anything because i haven’t done anything since my last boyfriend. Me and him both have don’t stuff, but with other people ...

Could health issues develop that I might need to deal with?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2531 days ago

19 December 2017 (F) - I've met a chap recently on an online dating site, nothing serious or has developed, although I am pondering if I should encourage things further to get to know him. He told me he is overweight at the moment and wanting to have a Gastric Bypass ...

I'm crushing on my ex's brother, his partner is my friend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2530 days ago

19 December 2017 (F) - I no this might sound really bad. But I am so confused right now!! I split with my ex over 3 years ago we have a child together. I have stayed close with his brother and with The brothers current partner. Me and the brother have always been flirty ...

Husband is cheating, wants me to leave the marital home.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2529 days ago

19 December 2017 (F) - Hi, I hope you can give me some advice. My husband of 19 years asked for a divorce in April this year, straight after I finished treatment for breast cancer. There has been no intimacy for 2 years now. He has refused to leave the family home ...

Did this Married Man forget his former mistress already?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2531 days ago

19 December 2017 (F) - I dated a Married Man (MM) for a year and a half. We both worked at my dad’s office. He got caught by his wife 3 times but never left me. The 3rd time he got caught things got pretty bad. He started going to counseling and distanced himself from me. ...

21 year old currently lost in the world, any help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2531 days ago

18 December 2017 (F) - Hello all, Lately, I have grown incredibly depressed. It seems like last year, I had everything I could of wanted at the time. I had a boyfriend, I lived in a nice house, I had a great and fun job, I had a good relationship with my co-...

How do I form platonic friendships with women?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2534 days ago

18 December 2017 (M) - A little background it turns out im emotionally numb/unavailable to people. i have a difficult time making meaningful connections with them even if i want to. tv makes emotional unavailability seem like a big joke for men. its been like this for me ...

I feel lost in life, how do I find my path and carry on with my life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2531 days ago

18 December 2017 (M) - Please note I'm not feeling suicidal and have no plans to go down that route, I am simply feeling lost and confused. Ever since my first and only girlfriend broke up with me not 11 months ago I've been effectively listing through life without a p...

Does he want me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2535 days ago

17 December 2017 (F) - Hi I am 29 yr old female in a relationship with a guy who is actually my junior and is 3 years younger than me. (Well he told me about his age once we get into relationship) I told him then to stop as I was always having this issue of age but he s...

Is my boyfriend too sexually demanding?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2526 days ago

17 December 2017 (F) - I’ve been with my boyfriend around half a year. He has really bad anger issues which he has been trying to control but he still has his outbursts. One of the things that triggers these outbursts is when I don’t give him head when he wants it. ...

Her kids and mine are cousins, is it okay to date?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2532 days ago

16 December 2017 (M) - So I have started to date or have been with and seen, my ex wife’s brothers ex wife I have a son with my ex and she has two kids with her ex who is my ex wife’s brother. Our kids are cousins but we both want no more kids. We both feel this could be ...

How do I act with this coworker?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2536 days ago

15 December 2017 (F) - How do I act with my coworker- a little background -when I started working for this law firm I noticed that me and one of the senior lawyer were attracted to each other BUT he is married. Although I would never push the envelope I do notice he might ...

Is this my motherhood talking or would I have changed my mind as I grew older anyway?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2535 days ago

14 December 2017 (F) - I have a daughter who will soon become a teenager. (they grow up sooo fast!). My sister commented that we'll soon have some dating-drama in the house. Which made me think of my teenage and young adult years. What would I do as a mother if my dau...

In a long term relationship, partner isn't paying attention to me, I'm cheating on him with someone who's also in a relationship but isn't "long term boyfriend material". So confused! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2532 days ago

14 December 2017 (F) - Hi there, so I’ve been with my partner for 7 years, living together for 2. I’ve been completely loyal until now, but have been feeling unhappy and a little taken for granted for a while now. My boyfriend has a good heart and is loyal, but he is also ...

Will I never be with my soulmate? It seems fate is keeping us apart

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2520 days ago

14 December 2017 (F) - I met the love of my life when I was 14, we fell in love so deep. The world was our oyster, growing together year after year, experiencing every 1st thing together. Bad and good. Both our life’s were tragically twisted and I made a mistake when I w...

My female friend said she had an "inappropriate" dream about me. What could it be?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2532 days ago

14 December 2017 (M) - A friend of the opposite gender brought something up. We were talking about dreams, all sorts of dreams, and then she said 'I had a dream about you recently'. I asked what the dream was about and then after a long pause she responded with 'it's ...

He wants me to change, I want him to love me as I am.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2532 days ago

13 December 2017 (F) - I'm feeling kind of hopeless in the relationship I'm in. We'e been together nearly 10 months, age gap between us is 15 years. We get a long great, there is so much chemistry. We love each other very much. There is however an issue that we find ...

I want to work on myself and stay single. How do I keep from letting men distract me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2540 days ago

11 December 2017 (F) - Hi ladies, as the end of 2017 is approaching I’ve made a decision to be single for awhile. It seems like 2017 was full of meaningless sex with people I thought it would work out with and it just ended up not going anywhere. So I decided to work on ...

My roommate and her boyfriend constantly hog my couch, but other than that, they're not much of a bother. Am I right in feeling irritated?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2533 days ago

11 December 2017 (F) - I'm not sure if this is ok to ask, but I'm having issues with my roommate. I feel like I may possibly be overreacting, so tell me your thoughts. We've lived together without issues since July. However, she has a long distance boyfriend who vi...

How do I control something that is so compulsive in my nature?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2533 days ago

10 December 2017 (M) - I dunno if this is the right place to ask this question but here goes... I'm a motorcyclist and I'm impulsive and crave the thrill of speed.I had another accident today... This must be my fifth and it looks like I have completely torn my rotator ...

A practical joke gone horribly wrong

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 2538 days ago

9 December 2017 (F) - My friend Bailey and I played a joke on our friend Eve just to embarrass her and teach her a lesson but Bailey took it too far and now Eve got suspended and her parents punished her real bad. She's not aloud to talk to us or anyone or go anywhere ...

Is it OK to ask him if he's serious about me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2539 days ago

8 December 2017 (F) - I’m currently in a long-distance relationship. I met him last 2015 but our relationship become more interesting when he come to visit me in my country April 2017 and again Oct 2017. It is our first time to be together, it was fun and we got the c...

On dating site for six years. Should this be a worry?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2533 days ago

8 December 2017 (F) - I've been seeing a guy for a month and a half now. We text everyday, talk on the phone and we have been on multiple dates. Each time he is initiating it. So far things are looking spectacular! However, when I asked him how long he has been on the d...

I'm unhappily married but in love with a man who's engaged but hesitant to leave his fiance

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2539 days ago

7 December 2017 (F) - Please could I ask for some advice on my situation... I have been married for 3 years but for the last year the marriage has been very difficult and we both feel that we have grown too far apart to fix things, although haven’t yet said we will div...

My friend is behaving differently since we had sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2539 days ago

7 December 2017 (F) - So I'm 25 best friend is 29. So I have been really good friends with an American man for about 12 years now, we met online and were penpals , we have emailed nearly every day for 12 years and always ring each other and there for each other if we ...

Should I get her approval that I attend a fetish party?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2539 days ago

7 December 2017 (M) - Im a closeted crossdreser, I'm totally straight, No bi tendencies. I have a long term wonderful girlfriend. I'm loyal to her, She knows about my crossdressing habit and she is cool with it as long as she doesn't see me dressed up. Never. This c...

Is going to New York alone for 6 months a good or bad idea?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2539 days ago

7 December 2017 (M) - im want to make a big move to new york. not permanently just for few months maybe 6. i feel a pull to be there now. i went when I was a kid so i don't remember anything. i have no special reason i just want to visit. ny sounds fun and full of cool ...

Should I leave my job even though I'm knee deep in student loan debt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2539 days ago

6 December 2017 (M) - I've been in advertising for about 2 years now. The work load I have have can easily be divided among 3-4 people, my pay is pathetic and myself and a few other workers were harshly reprimanded by our boss a few months ago for something we/I didn't ...

Why the strange reaction to my bridesmaid offer?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2498 days ago

5 December 2017 (F) - Hi Everyone :) I have a best friend who is acting strange. She recently started acting odd ever since I got engaged in August of 2017. I asked her if she would be my maid of honor? She said yes, then I met up with her at a restaurant and got...

How do you get over the first person you were sexual with?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2540 days ago

5 December 2017 (F) - How do you get over the first person you were sexual with? I don't understand why I am so stuck on this. My first kiss was at 17, and he was also the first guy I ever touched or let touch me. However we did not have sex. I wasn't in a relationship ...

Was my childhood strange?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2547 days ago

4 December 2017 (F) - Hi Aunts and Uncles! I would really appreciate your help since I need some perspective on the relationship I had with my mom. I know she loved me and did the best she could, but I sometimes felt abandoned by her. She decided to have a ch...

Should I have an affair with a married man?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2549 days ago

3 December 2017 (F) - This is going to make me sound like a horrible person... Maybe I am. I've been infatuated with this man for months. I can tell he doesn't care about me emotionally because once I say no to a booty call, he says good bye. I'm not going to lie, I'...

Is it too soon to after he left me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2544 days ago

2 December 2017 (F) - Hi. I had a short relationship only 3 months (but very intense holidays etc) I really thought I had met someone who could handle me - i have bipolar - however he ended it saying as he lived so far away he couldn't help me when I needed it. I was so ...

How do I move on from this married man and pick up the pieces of my life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2550 days ago

1 December 2017 (F) - Two years ago I made a choice to enter into a relationship with a married man and I am having trouble pulling myself out of this horrible loop. I am struggling with depression from dealing with the consequences of this and am looking for advice to ...

What do I do and say? His depression is hard to deal with

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2545 days ago

1 December 2017 (F) - I need help. I’ve been with my boyfriend for 2 months and a bit more , and I love him so much but he has depression . I help him as much as I can and I’m here for him all the time but he always complains to me how he feels and I understand that he’s ...