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writes:I just need some kind of advice..or i feel all this will get too far and destroy my family relationship. Im a 16 year old girl, eversince i met my boyfriend, i seem to blow up easily at my family. First it started with my brother, he dislikes my boyfriend so the littlest thing he would say having to do with my boyfriend would get me mad. I started speaking my mind, that turned into me and my brother really arguing. My dad is disabled, and asks for me to do things for him alot. I feel like the worst daughter cause it gets me mad now. I used to help my dad without getting mad at all really, but now i get soo mad. and i dont let it out. i just suck it up cause he is my dad. i will argue with my dad about school or friends and he told me i needed to stop seeing my boyfriend. that ruined it, and i was almost perminatly mad at him. i seemed to rebel a little, like being caught by the police after cerfew. My dad rides me kind of hard, i know i will appreciate it later in life, but its making my anger worse. Where i was arguing with my brother and dad mostly, then all the arguing and stuff turned into my mom taking my dad's side sometimes. She threatend that if i dont do better with school and being less arguementive that i wont be able to see my boyfriend. My parents restrictions get me mad and we argue. My brother just plain old annoys me now over little things. Overall, i have been arguing with somebody (mostly my family) every day. About alot of things. I even started blowing up at some of my friends. It seems like it all happend since i met my boyfriend. What could my problem be? Im so confused and a million things are running through my mind so sorry if this all is a little confusing
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reader, JaZminny +, writes (26 January 2011):
 I understand u I used to have the same problem I started hanging out with my boyfriend a little too much and I wasn't home as much with my family so whenever I was home my family started to act rude with me and commented about my boyfriend so i thought that they just didn't like my bf and it made me angry at them cuz I felt happy with my bf but I found out thAt all I need to do was to pay more attention to my family spend time and communicate if u do all these things I think u and ur family and bf can get along u need to show them that u care about them anD stop being angry at thEm they need u and u neeD them so if u can bond with them it will b easier to bring ur bf into thE picturE :)
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reader, iicandyxoxo  +, writes (26 January 2011):
 These are things that might be interfering with your family/friends.
- your boyfriend did something that made you mad at everyone?.
- To in love with your boyfriend, && you family doesn't like him, && you care to much for him, && don't want anyone saying stuff about him, cause maybe you are to protective?.
If it is really bothering you, maybe talk to your family about it?.
Or ask your parents for some counseling?.
Hope i helped, && Hope everything works out between you and your family. xxxx
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