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Archived questions from: August, 2010 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

My ex is ignoring me and I had a weird dream about him. Does it mean anything?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - Argh - I dreamt about my ex last night (I seriously did not think of him yesterday) although a week before - I had sent him an email sayin i missed his company and was hopin we could talk soon - he read my E-card but didnt respond.I find it funny ...

Anyone else have a seemingly perfect life and being unhappy inside?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - Is there anyone out there who looks (from the outside) that their life is really working perfectly for them? Is there anyone out there that is successful, accomplished and in a so-called great relationship, but isn't truely happy? It seems that ...

Bad experiences in the past with controlling men; how to shut this guy down without being rude?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - Hello readers. I would like some advice regarding what may seem as a trivial matter to some, however for me whether or not due to my past patterns of enabling men to control me etc I am aware that this is happening again, however I'm not sure how...

Jealous co-workers?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - im an intern at an established business organization, so the employees must act pretty civil and educated right? not really so, I cant help but feel that ppl @ my dept are jealous so they leave me all by myself during lunchtime, when we used to ...

Why don't girls have sex as much as guys?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

31 August 2010 (M) - I would like to ask a question at a general/stereotypical level - Why don't girls have sex as much as guys? Eg. a single guy goes to a party/club/bar and hopes something will happen. A single girl goes to the same place and doesn't let anyt...

He's my sun shine

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - He's the sun. He brightens my day, he keeps me warm and whenever I'm an arms length away from him, I melt. I've known him for 7 years now and I've liked him for 7 years. Back then I didn't know that he would become this important in my life. ...

Growing hair in abnormal areas

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - I have been growing lots of hair on my buttocks, my vaginal area and my nipples...is this normal? Will guys find it repulsive? I need to know....

What does everyone thinks about women choosing men who are similar to their fathers as husbands?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - Hi Everyone, I am adopted but was raised in what I would consider a fairly dysfinctional family unit where my mother is dominant and my father is very submissive. I am, however, very traditional in my views and believe that in a marriage a wom...

What do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

31 August 2010 (?) - guys, What do u think if a girl would tell u to go and visit her at night when her parents Are sleeping... But she has told you that there going to be outside just talking... and girls help plz..=]...

One minute she acts as if she is interested the next not so much

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

31 August 2010 (M) - Dear Cupid Kind agony aunts I call on you today for some guidance if I may, I’m in really in unfamiliar waters at the minute and kind of facing several challenges in my life at the minuet that I’d appreciate some guidance with. Ok, a little bi...

Is he flirting or am I being unreasonable?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - My boyfriend is wonderful to me and always does everything for me, however he just has one habit that really annoys me, he does seem to be too friendly with shop assistants and often engages in conversations with them while they are serving us. He ...

What do guys like in girls?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - What do guys like in girls? Do they like straight teeth, blonde hair, brown hair, certain color eyes, etc. Also, what personality do they want girls to have?...

What do guys think of girls with short hair?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - I really want my hair cut shorter and wanted to ask guys what they think of short hair on girls? I'm 17 and hang around with people who are into festivals and indie stuff but I'd like views from a wider group of guys (and girls I guesss) who aren't ...

Should I just take my birth control pill whenever?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5234 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - Hey guys i need help. I have really irregular periods and it kills me i get moody have really painful cramps but i dont get my period until a month or 2 later. My doctor gave me birth control and told me to take it the sunday i get my period how ...

What do guys my age think of young ladies like me???

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - I am a 23yr old virgin. Whenever I go out men are always complimenting me..asking if Im a model.. and trying to get my number. I am tall, i work out, eat healthy, am very stylish/classy, and I love God. I live with my dad, grandma, and my dog. I ...

Question about dating my third cousin

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

30 August 2010 (M) - Ok I'm dating my third cousin. Now I look things up and found out by time it your third cousin it like if you had it with anyone else now here my problem her grandpa and grandma were cousin and since my mom was the 9th child of my grandma her bro is ...

How to give a really good lap dance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - I have done like joke ones like to friends but that's it. And i really want to learn and be really good for my boyfriend to surprise him. My thing is I don't seem to learn anything by reading ..... does anyone know like a video site were they teach ...

I want to be with him , but be able to do things with other people!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - My boyfriend lives way down in the country about 30mins. from my home. I leave usually every Fri. and go down and spend the weekend with him, but sometimes things come up like me having to be a church the next day early, which is located closer to ...

Freaked out BF in bed and he left!

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

30 August 2010 (M) - ok -- this is going to take a second so I will do a TL;DR. first, this is a throwaway account b/c... so, here's the deal: tonight I totally freaked out my boyfriend. I had hidden a piece of a hot dog (about 2 inches) which I had broken off before ...

How can I tell my dad I want to play football

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5234 days ago

30 August 2010 (M) - Am 13 years old boy and am ganna be 14 in 4 months, my name is Anderson and i want to become a footballer, how can tell my dad and how can i do it when i finish school thanks for your help....

Is it too soon to start joining baby clubs?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5234 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - I am 7 weeks pregnant and really excited!! Do you think it's too soon to start ordering all the freebies and joining baby clubs? I don't want to start buying things for baby until I'm in the second trimester, but is it too soon to start joining al...

When your dream turns into a nightmare

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - A while back I posted a message stating that I was looking forward to immigrate with my son to start a new life in the caribbean where my mother now lives. I had intended to pursue a business but I can tell you it has certainly turned out to ...

I want to help him out but I don't know how to.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

29 August 2010 (F) - well theres this guy i have always been pretty close to, we have always been good mates but i never thought it was anything more... That was until one night at a mates house we slept together(he was my first), he was really nice and made me feel...

My selfish husband, what to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

29 August 2010 (F) - [MOD NOTE: OP's OWN TITLE] Recently I moved to a new state because my Husband is the military. So he refuses to teach me how to drive. I am city girl, I never expected to have to get my license as I rode the bus/train in NYC. So when our move hap...

Still alone and still visiting prostitutes

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

29 August 2010 (M) - Well here we go.. I posted on here previously about a problem i had. So lets start form the beginning and hope someone can give me a little insight or advice. Well before (and still) i felt very lonely (i was at uni a bout a year ago, never had...

How do I stop him from ruining his life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

29 August 2010 (F) - Please help everyone! I'm in a pretty tough situation. My best friend and me have fallen out because he admitted that he felt for me as more than just a friend, but i already had a boyfirend. I tried to handle the situation the best way i could, but ...

I am in love with a woman who is in love with a man that has passed away!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

29 August 2010 (M) - i am in love with a woman that is in love with a guy that died in a car accident. She knows that i am in love with her and o told her to move on but she says that she doesn't want to forget him. What i have to do so that i get a chance with her? ...

What is myth and what is real?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

29 August 2010 (F) - I'm really interested to know, if a man in their 50 s are highly suspectable to become impotent. I, in my twenties, and my boyfriend is 56. I love him, he is great lover, he can do it twice a day, and he wants all sort of things from me. Like ...

I think my daughters friend was sexually molested

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

29 August 2010 (F) - is this normal? My daughter who is nine had her ten year old friend over the other day. They were playing on the slip and slide in the backyard. I looked out in the backyard and the ten year old is sitting with her legs spread with a big smile on ...

How can I get rid of karen's influence without being the "you can't see her" guy...?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

29 August 2010 (M) - Hey everyone, I recently met a wonderful woman about two months ago. We clicked from the very start finishing each others quotes, love the same music and movies, sports teams etc. etc. My family has met her and my mom is head over heels for her. I ...

I cannot live like this any more...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

29 August 2010 (F) - I have ben involved with a married man for 6 years. We are both married. I have 2 children in high school. I have told my husband that our marriage is over once the kids leave home - we are civil. My lover's children are college graduates but still ...

Classy photos just for me?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

29 August 2010 (F) - I want to take boudoir style photos of my self, because i think they are really classy. I want them just for me the only problem is that I am only 16 and is it really that wrong to want to take photos just for me? That are very classy photos? ...

Ways to make my dog's life happier?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

29 August 2010 (F) - Hi everyone, I'm an aunt here, and it's a great opportunity to help someone else out. I came to this site with a problem of my own and I got some really good advice and I really appreciated the answers-very helpful. Lately, I've had somethin...

How do I forget?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

29 August 2010 (F) - Is there a way, i can block the memories of my dead lover? It hurts too bad to think of him. I remember his beautiful face and sweet, funny personality. And I miss him painfully. My heart aches so much for him. It's only been 2 months now. It's the ...

How do I tell my 3 year old..that my husband isn't her biological father?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

29 August 2010 (F) - hi! I'm 22 years old and married to an amazing man! We have two children together but one is only biologically his! What i want to know is how do i tell my 3 yr old daughter that she has another father, while still making it clear that my husband ...

What could have caused this fear?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

28 August 2010 (F) - hey, i'm here today to ask about something. it might not be about relationships, but it is about emotions. today at work my boss was teaching the kids for a summer school thing. and he was teaching them 'stranger danger'. well as he was teaching ...

Is this appropriate in a business situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

28 August 2010 (F) - i found an email on my partners phone from a female business acquaintance that he had met at a seminar the previous evening he told her that she was a nice person and they would catch up soon is this an appropriate in a business situation...

Am I lost in this heartbreak?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

28 August 2010 (M) - About 5 years ago I fell in love with this girl. We had the most amazing conversations. We had great chemistry. We were pratically the same despite being opposite. ( She's latin, preppy, and a dancer. I'm jewish, a metal head and a artist.) An...

If he can't even stick his tongue in my mouth, what good is having a "normal" sex life????

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

28 August 2010 (F) - My husband wants to start having a normal sex life with me, but he won't even french kiss me or start making out with me. His idea of foreplay as he told me would be to do the "69" position. The bottom line is he is willing to do anything sexually ...

Is "the effort" ever worth it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

28 August 2010 (M) - I'm a 20 year old guy. I'm a college student, I'm an aspiring writer and I'm not ashamed to say that I am a geek (comics/movies/video games.) I wouldn't have it any other way. I can talk to women and hold a decent conversation with them but th...

Bad boyfriend? How do I fix this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

28 August 2010 (F) - So im dating a guy... its been about 6 months now and we have been through a lot of drama, breaking up and him making mistakes and hurting me A LOT, breaking promises. And yet i cant seem to let him and the feelings i have for him go.. sadly i ...

I want to CHANGE for her - how?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

28 August 2010 (M) - I've been with a girl for about five months now and she's very special to me. We dated for one month in school, 3 months during the summer and one month while SHE'S in college. I've always had issues and I've been clingy but I've been trying t...

Do you have sympathy for a person who can't have sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

28 August 2010 (M) - Do you have sympathy for a person who can't have sex? That is to say somebody who for whatever reason has been unable to obtain sexual activity. Are you able to have concern for the impact such a situation would have on a person?...

I made him wait too long so he broke up with me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5236 days ago

28 August 2010 (F) - am in the middle of weired situation since 3 or more month now! he loved me for 5 years,but he always wanted us to get marry but i wasnt sure and our relation were like going month then back .we left once but i asked him to come bakc hardly then he ...

Please advise me on how to get over him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

27 August 2010 (F) - I need help getting over the one i love. Ive been in love with him for nearly 3 years, i guess its my own fault its gone this far but i thought he felt the same and everyone i spoke to about it thought he did too. We're still friends, hes sai...

Angry at how I've been treated at work

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27 August 2010 (F) - Hi all. I have been misled at work with regards to my job role. I have been with the company for 4 years and i work hard and am told by my manager that I'm an asset to the company. I expressed my interest nearly 1.5 years ago that I wanted a ...

Love, life and having fun :)

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27 August 2010 (F) - Well hello :) This is my first article on DearCupid...sorry if it's crap :) I've already answered quite a few questions on here and I'm actually really surprised at how many people have problems that are similar to ones I've had in the past. It's ...

Cheap places to stay in London?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

27 August 2010 (F) - Hi. I was wondering if anyone here knows of any cheap places to stay in London ?. I'm going to see a concert in the Kensington area, it's at the Royal Albert Hall to be more exact, so anywhere that's as close to there as possible would be best. I ...

Girlfriend of 3.5years wants space, saying she has feelings for another bloke. What should I do?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

27 August 2010 (M) - Hi everyone, I'm after some advice. So here it goes. My girlfriend and I have been together for just over 3.5 years. We have practically lived together for 1.5 years but have only in our own place for the past few months. Things have been goo...

Why is he choosing to apologize after so long?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

27 August 2010 (F) - Ok, this is going to be kind of a long one...Sorry. Basically I go to college and i was at our student bar one night where i noticed this guy. We started chatting and walked home the same way a few times and really got on and i really liked him...