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Big Questions: Help and advice

Do you think it's wise to go home on a surprise visit or just leave it as we ended it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

4 August 2010 (M) - Need some advice... Here it goes... I have known this girl for about 5 years now... She and I hav always been cool with each other... And about 5 months ago she and I finally hooked up... At first she and I agreed that it was just going to be casual ...

Is there anyway that you can get rid of a tan?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - This may sound like a stupid question - everyone wants to get a tan: how can you get rid of a tan??! I am a model and naturally dark skinned so I tan in ridiculously short spaces. A week ago, I walked to the store (10mins walk) and when I returned I ...

Unhappily married man in love with a lesbian!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

4 August 2010 (M) - Ok, so i am a married man. I feel that i was pressured into getting married, and i don't have the greatest relationship. I love my wife, but i don't think i am in love with her. I met a woman, a woman with whom i work. She is amazing, and i got ...

What did my dream mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - I had the weirdest dreams last night. My bf was of 3 and a half years was sitting on my couch and my mum was sitting on top of him but facing towards him. They were kissing passionately and I was watching them through the living room window. I was ...

Can I still get a girlfriend if I'm not a very chatty person?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5260 days ago

4 August 2010 (M) - Can I still get a girlfriend if I'm not a very chatty/talkative person? I'm 22 and I'll definitely agree that I am more talkative and more confident now near the end of uni, than when I was in hgih school when I was a really shy boy who was scared t...

Conflicted feelings of love and bitterness towards my boyfriend....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - Recently I've been having conflicting feelings of love and bitterness towards my boyfriend of a year and a half. I love him, he's kind and caring and makes me laugh, and a lot of the time everything seems fine, like it always has been: we'll go ...

What are your thoughts on my career options?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5247 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - Hey all, I need some advice. I really want to know what's wrong with me careerwise. Last year, I studied to become a reporter and did exceptionally well. There was no work when the course finished, so I took a job as a PA. While it's OK as a ...

Am I losing interest in my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - OK my boyfriend and I have been together for around six months now. We are both from different countries and met as exchange students. Now we are back in our own countries and have been apart for two months and will see each other next in Oct. ...

How do you get over a broken heart?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - How do you get over a broken heart? Over the past 12 yrs of dating guys including 4 long term (between 1-5yrs) in that time but I've never been in love before. I recently met someone and I fell head over heels for him but then I did something that I ...

My boyfriend wants an open relationship! What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - Apologies if this is too long! So... heres my story. My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year and a month. and I'm not going to lie, it has been a heck of a roller coaster. I guess I'm clutching at straws in this relationship because ...

I'm not a virgin but I want a virgin wife

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

4 August 2010 (M) - Okay, so... I have been very active in my life, more so than most people. I put it down to my confidence levels but many put it down to me being an ass. Except for this I'm always good, never harm anything or anyone and any chance I get I help ...

My brother wont let me come to his wedding unless I have a date to bring with me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

4 August 2010 (M) - all my brothers friends will have there wives and girlfriends at his wedding so he would like me to be the same. but he said if i can't get one for saturday i can't come to his wedding. well it looks like i won't be going became i get one. i've ...

Does marriage make you miserable?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5261 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - I know that I'm a little too young to be thinking about this but I have collected an opinion! Marriage. If you have read some of my other posts you would know how I fell head over heels for this one guy that I met! Before I met him I had planned to ...

25 with a 16 year old pregnant girlfriend, can I still get into trouble for this despite her parents being ok with the age difference?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

4 August 2010 (M) - I am a 25yr old male who lives in louisiana and I'm about to have my first child but my partner is 16. Her parents weren't to happy at first but soon came around to the idea of us raising the child together, in fact I have even been living with them ...

I am in a committed relationship but two other guys, including my boyfriend's friend are hitting on me! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - i am in a comitted long distance relationship since one year and one month...i have two problems and don't know how to tackle it.its going to be long so anybody who is patient can go through this.thanks in advance:-) i really love my bf and even he ...

People seem to pick on me all the time, how do I handle being in situations like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

4 August 2010 (?) - I think that I must be an easy target for people to pick on or they just like seeing my reaction to things, because it seems to happen all the time. My one friend is friends with my ex-friend. That's fine- I don't care who she hangs out with- but ...

I feel we have been through too much together to end this for good, but she claims she wants me to leave her alone and does not want to get married....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

4 August 2010 (M) - i'm now 29 years old. I had been in a sexual relationship with my girlfriend for 3 years (2005-2008). In fact, we lived together for a year. We loved each other much before. However, she became very very weak during our live-in. we did have one ...

Was my ex boyfriend abusive? And is he still trying to control me despite having moved away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5261 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - hey, im 16 and i have a question regarding my ex whos 19. we broke up back in november and then he found out he was moving a few states away so we started talking and hanging out and just being with each other until he had to leave in january. well ...

I'm all alone now my boyfriend has moved to another state!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - I've been dating my bf for two months. but he has to move out of state. you see, he's been getting threats from this punk at school so he's moving in with his grandpa for the year. anyways, I miss him so much! I live with a my mom but shes always ...

My boyfriend hurts me, but I enjoy it? oh gosh..

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - [Moderator's Note: Original Poster's own title] My boyfriend and I were having intense, crazy sex the other night. and It hurt, but kinda felt good. I was moaning and screaming, louder then ever. and he had to stick his hand in my mouth and everythi...

Philosophical questions about sex and disabilities

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

4 August 2010 (M) - This question may seem long and convoluted but there is an underlying unity I can absolutely assure you if you just take the time to read between the lines and try to see how things might look from my perspective. I hope you can see when a disag...

In a bind and need help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - My boyfriend is currently in prison and gets released next week. He has a lot of paranoia about me cheating on him which I would never ever do. I love this guy. Anyways a few days ago I put myself into a really crappy situation that I feel really g...

Having children she can't afford without thought

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - My best friend is 21, I have asked a post about her before regarding her child: (http://www.dearcupid.org/question/torn-between-love-of-a-best-friend-and.html) she already has one child who is 5, and she recently got together with (anot...

Is romance dead?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - Is romance dead? what happened to the days when guys would do their best to impress a girl? when a girl would follow the ten date rule before ending up in a bed with him? Everythings changing an its not for the good, now girls are having to as...