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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I love my boyfriend more than anything in the world. I moved country to be with him and everything was going great - or so i thought. He never logged onto facebook or msn in front of me and i used to question this. So he did 2 nights ago and i see he had sent a message to some girl starting Hello Beautiful. (Let me add he works in a hotel in a holiday resort) Anyway - i told him later that i wanted to see this message and he told me he was just saying he was not going to add her as he didnt want problems with me. By then he had deleted this message but he had forget to delete his sent items and he was actually saying how he had loved her being around the bar all week, he had a great time and how he wishes he had had time to do more. Thats when he confessed to kissing her and he said he deleted the message as he was scared of me finding out and didnt want to lose me. Now having access to his facebook and msn - i can see he has been sweet talking a lot of girls and in some of them saying what he would like to do and how hot they are. He has said these are just words and it means nothing but add it to the kiss and the lies - I just dont know what to believe. He is completely gutted and keeps crying and saying how he knew it was a mistake as soon as he kissed her and im the best thing that has ever happened to him and he doesnt want to lose me. But working in a holiday resort hotel - how can i believe him when he says theres nothing else. I love him so so deeply and i could see myself being with him forever. Now im so confused. I can see he is genuinely upset and i admit i am making it as bad as possible for him. But he has hurt me in a way i have never felt before. Do i forgive him or should i move on?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni live with him in the holiday resort
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reader, lostbird  +, writes (14 December 2009):
 I say you book a trip to his resort and sit at his bar and be the one who gives him a BIG tip!!! it WILL show him how much he means to you. If he thinks you are checking up on him tell him yes I know about the others but I want to be the only one and I thought this might spice things up and make you think of me and only me!
If it does not work find the cabanna boy!!!
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