A
male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I have been happily seeing my girlfriend for just over 3 years. We have never had any problems and she is now 2 months pregnant which is something we are both happy about.However, on a night out at work, i ended up spending most of the night talking and having a great time with the very pretty new girl at work.She knew about my girlfriend and we talked for hours and started to get closer as the night drew on and the alcohol took affect.Towards the end of the night i ended up passionatly kissing her on more than one occasion.Ever since then i cannot stop thinking about this woman and i get butterflies when i do.Im not a bad person tho i know i am now.What should i do. I cant even look at my girlfriend without thinking about this other woman. She also wants to meet on a night out next week. I need some good advice because this is tearing me apart.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2009): Thank you for all your replies. Very helpfull and made me realise what an idiot i am.
So i have come to this conclusion.
I am not going to see this other woman again. however im going to break up with the girlfriend.
It has made me realise that im not fit to be a partner and i am not in love with the girlfriend.
I do hope however she keeps the baby and i can be a good dad who will always be there.
Thanks to everyone who replied
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female
reader, Jayney Y +, writes (15 December 2009):
 So the girl you snogged at the work do knew you had a girlfriend but made a play for you anyway. She may be very pretty but she clearly doesn't care about anyone but herself. Do your girlfriend a huge favour and tell her about it now, she may not be so keen to have your kid when she realises you can't be trusted. If you can't even be faithful when a minor opportunity presents itself you're making a big mistake by breeding because you are not in love with your girlfriend and she deserves better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2009): Tell your girlfriend and let her decide what should be done.
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