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Is it a coincidence that he keeps showing up?

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Question - (14 December 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 15 December 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, *andyCurves writes:

I have a history with this guy and I seem to have always loved him( even though there are times when I have hated him)We didnt really end in the best way- yet it wasnt the worst.

Well I recently decided that Im done with the boys since they have been distracting me( especially with this guy) it has been time and I finally got over him (since he was getting "close" to a friend of mine. I realised what an ass he was.

But latly (today) everything I try to do leads me backk to him. 3 things that happened today:

1#~I was walking to the school toilets- saw him. I decided to avoid him and walk the other way. We end up together again (somehow?). The thing that scares me is the intense eye contact. Im not the type of girl that locks eyes with people( actually really shy)

2#~I Was in a lesson- walked out to the corridor to get something- there he was. We just exchanged glances. I pretended I found that thing i was looking for when I didnt. Then I hurried back in because I was like *******! OMG

3#~ at The end of school, I was messing about with a few friends and (this actually really scared me!) I turned around( dont ask me why?!) and then the wierd eye contact thingy happened again!There he was just looking- dont know if he was looking at me. but we stared at eachother, then I broke the eye contact and walked out.

WIERD? Isnt this a coincidence. I might just be wrong, he might just be looking at a spot in my face, yess I have got a volcanoe growing on my face today! I dont know, i dont even know if i look at him that way anymore. So whats going on- is he interested or am I really observant! Can this grow into something more?

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A female reader, CandyCurves United Kingdom +, writes (15 December 2009):

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CandyCurves agony auntThanks, I thought I had my head in the clouds that day. Well today what you said was confirmed.And there was I thinking that got over this guy properly, just shows how daft I can be. Thank you for your advice, it was good to heal from a male

Take Care x

Candycurves

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (14 December 2009):

I don't think so. I think you're really observant. You obviously adore him still and you haven't got over him, so I think every time you see him, you want to believe it's because he fancies you. but you know he's not the right guy for you, so just stay strong. Remember, he's hurt you before.

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