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female
age
30-35,
*yra Anna
writes:So, I have a friend, a boy, who means a lot to me about 4 years by now. And now when I`m in a relationship, I started to miss him. We were much closer before, and I was always hoping that we will become more then just friends cause he used to give me a lot of different signs for that, but he never kissed me or make a first big move to improve our relationship, so we just stayed half-lovers, half-friends til I met a guy who had done this very first step and said he want to be with me. I don`t what to think anymore. I miss my old friend sooo much even I am happy with my relationship, but stil something`s missing... what to do? :( Reply to this Question
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reader, Cupid's Girl  +, writes (19 December 2009):
Dear Lyra Anna,
maybe your relationship guy is a very good guy to have a relationship with but you don't have a real crush on him. Maybe your half-lover/half friend is a messed up guy but you have a crush on him.
You say that your current boyfriend did the first step and said that he wants to be with you. But i have to ask you" do YOU want to be with him?
It not not the one that chooses us, it is who we choose and he chooses us as well.
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