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Archived questions from: February, 2011 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

I met a great guy and we had fun hanging out, but he seemed turned off when I told him I'm 17! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - How to get this guy to notice/like me or ask me out? I’m going to have to explain this whole situation so you can kind of get into my shoes a bit and give me some advice. I was out at a gig in my college with my friend the other night and we wer...

Need help with my attraction for older men

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - I think I possibly need help, but I don't really know how to go about it. I'm only fifteen- going on sixteen, soon, and I've got this real strange attraction to older men Anything up from twenty, but never older than forty? It's sorta weird... i...

Is there something going on between my teacher and me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Ok, so I've read some stories about "teacher-student relationships" on this websites. (I'm 16 btw) And now I wonder......I've had this teacher for two years. Last year was when I got to know him. I was involved in basketball and didn't want to leave ...

Do I move out and hope or do I move on?

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28 February 2011 (F) - Right, here's the deal to cut it plainly: I've fallen in love with a guy - he's 29 and I'm 17..(The age gap doesn't bother me and I don't think it bothers him) I've slept with him which almost resulted in him losing his job because of where he works ...

I lied to him about my age...what do I do now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5046 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - Okay.So I met this guy through a roleplay thing.We became friends and soon began "roleplay dating" Don't ask. Anyways at the time he asked how old I was and I said 16 when I'm really 18 and he's 16.As time moved on we started liking each other an...

I want to take it beyond Facebook!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5048 days ago

25 February 2011 (M) - I'm really close to this girl i know, she is in 10th standard and im in 9th, i really like her, but she just likes me as a friend, we talk on facebook all the time, but i want something more, what can i do...

I'm down and depressed over problems that aren't even mine!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - So i don't know how to start this really :/ basically, i feel seriously so down and depressed over someone elses problems ... i actually asked a question about this subject a while ago, so please look at that because i go into alot of detail a...

LDR I get very upset when I don't hear from him and send not nice messages!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - Hello dear agony aunts, I'm really confused about what to do.... I and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 2 years now. He's 15 years older than me, I'm 21. We are in a LDR, we've had lots of ups and downs in the past but we love each other so ...

He's not into sex as much as I'd maybe like him to be... is his behaviour normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - I am 30 and my boyfriend is in his mid fourties. At my age I obviously have a bigger sex drive than he does. I want sex pretty much all the time right now. I will also add that I have noticed an increase in my sex drive over the past year. I am the ...

I'm 27 and he's 41...Should I go for it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - I know age is "just a number." But I met this guy through a mututal friend and he's 14-years older than me. I told my friend that I found him attractive but that I thought he might be a little too old for me. Anyway, we've started seeing each ...

How do I tell my younger friend I am not interested in him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5050 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - I've been friends with a junior for a month or so and he's a year younger than me. Recently he told my classmate he likes me and if I ever accepted him I'd be his first girlfriend. But the thing that bugs me is the age gap. While one year might not ...

My boyfriend doesn't want to meet my parents because of our age gap?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - Hi there. I've been with my boyfriend for about 2 months officially but it's difficult for me to see him all the time as I'm 6 years younger than him and he hasn't met my parents yet. Because of the age difference I lie to them as to where I'm ...

Any couples who have the type of relationship as we and succeeded?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5046 days ago

22 February 2011 (M) - I am a gay man who just turned 40 years old. I have known my lover since he was 17. He is now 21. We are artists and collaborate on large scale paintings. I initiate ideas for a photo shoot and he models for the photos. Then we blow up the photos on ...

I'm obsessed with my femaly P.E. teacher and I need to get rid of these feelings! Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - Hi people. I'm obsessed with my female P.E teacher and I don't know how to get out of it. I don’t want to, but I have to, or else I’ll go off the rails. Does anybody who share the same problem or have any advice? Please reply. ...

I cant stand his children and I don't know what to do anymore!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5051 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - im thinking i really need some advice from someone who isnt a family member and can see this from my p.o.v, ive been with my now fiancee for 2 years he has 4 kids from a previous marriage. i already set myself up as this guy is 35 and i am 22, he ...

Age difference dilemma......

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5051 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - i really like this guy i work with *no rules at work about dating co workers* and we have been flirty for a while now, but i have just found out that there is a huge age difference (9 years! i'm about to turn 18 and he is 27) i really want this to ...

Is a 4-year age gap too big?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

20 February 2011 (F) - I like a guy who is about 4 years older (I'm about 13 and a half and he is 18). We get on well and have a laugh (I've known him for 5 years) but i want it to go further. I see him every week at his football club (he plays in the same team as my ...

What will I say? He wants to know more. But I lied about me on the dating site profile

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - Hey all. I have been chatting to this guy I met on an internet dating website. my profile was set up as a joke so i had no problem checking it out as it had nothing properly on it about me so being nice i tried to tell some quiet shy boys that they ...

I can't stop falling for older men. Why do I do this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5054 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - HELP! Im in love with my teacher and my driving instructor! I cant stop falling for people, especially if they have authority over me! It is only these two people at the moment but it has been others before. I especially love my teacher and ...

I don't know how to handle this stage of our relationship

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

19 February 2011 (M) - I have posted problems re. my girl and me before. Just to provide summary. She is 25 years younger than me and we are related through a mutual sister in that her mum and my dad are our little sister's parents. This makes us step-brother and sister, ...

Now that I'm older, I have no idea what he saw in me at that age. How can I process this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

18 February 2011 (F) - When I was 18, I began dating a man who was 25. At first my friends and family were wary of the age gap, but we clicked and he turned out to be the love of my life. I'm 23 now, he's 30, and we're still together. Throughout our relationship, I ...

We don't want a relationship but want to get close!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5056 days ago

17 February 2011 (F) - Me and my boss are very... very close, as in sharing a bed close. we cant tell anyone about us as then one of us will have to leave. (there are 7 years between us) then there is his friend who i literally just become close to, i slept in his bed ...

I'm caught in the middle here!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5055 days ago

17 February 2011 (F) - I'm caught in the middle here! I've had an amazing boyfriend for over 4 years now... he's been talking about moving in together and eventually getting married for a while now. I love him dearly and I'd never cheated on him. Met this other guy, 10 ...

Should I stay with my older girlfriend? Or should I break up with her and go for the other girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

16 February 2011 (M) - Hi, I really need help with an issue that I suppose has been going on for a while now. The answer may be really easy but I just don't know what to do. I have been in a relationship with an older woman for the last 3 years. She is 12 years older t...

Two year age difference, does it make a difference?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

16 February 2011 (F) - So I am 17 and have been seeing a guy who is two years younger than me. We really love each other but I worry about the levels we are on sometimes. help?...

My boyfriend falsely accuses me of cheating, but I think he's the one who is being dishonest! What do you think?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

16 February 2011 (F) - Hi,and thanks for reading. My bf and I have been together about 3 years now. Throughout our relationship, he has accused me of being with other men. I’ve never been disloyal to him, so there’s no reason he should feel as though I am cheating on ...

I'm attracted to older celebs, is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5054 days ago

16 February 2011 (F) - Hiya Cupids, I don't know why but I'm always more attracted to older celebrities. I know this a stupid question but I''m really young and i find people like Bill Nighy and Ewan McGregor really cawutte :) but everybody else i know fin...

Do I ask her too many questions?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

16 February 2011 (M) - I'm currently becoming very close and developing feelings for a lady older and more experienced than me. She is 32, me 26, I am a virgin, she has had 2 long relationships, I have never had one, she is the first girl i have ever had deep feelings ...

She's keeping me at arm's length. am I wasting my time?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3058 days ago

15 February 2011 (M) - I am 41 and I am sort of seeing a 24 year old woman. We both have feeling for each other, but she's scared to be comitted. She says she's scared she'll hurt me, or if things didn't work out that it would be hard to face each other in work. She'...

I broke off the affair with an older women but now I feel badly

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

15 February 2011 (M) - Dear Cupid, I had an affair with 40+ married woman. I'm 20+ and single. After getting great advices from this forum, I realized it's not right. Then, I broke up with her. I stayed silent and keep away form her with no sms, no call. I even d...

I'm 19, he's 15. Should we not date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

14 February 2011 (?) - dear cupid, soo, i think there's a chance that i might be going crazyy. on saturday, i was at the mall with a friend, and we ended up meeting three of her friends and hanging out with them for a while. one of those friends happened to be t...

Is he hanging onto me until someone else comes along? Am I wasting my time?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

14 February 2011 (F) - I’ve been seeing someone since November. He says we are in a relationship but it does not feel like it to me. We live about a 5 minute walk from each other but we only see each other either once or twice a week and its only for a couple of hours. It ...

How do I hold a conversation with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

13 February 2011 (F) - So I been talking to this guy for about two weeks and he is wonderful. I am 18 and he is 30. we met up and hung out then the second time we met up we had sex. but when we were done we didn't talk much. It was kind of awkward. He later texted me and ...

I'm unsure about settling down with him, and he has kids. How do I handle this situation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

11 February 2011 (F) - I'm in a situation and I don't know what to do for best. I would like to hear from any parents here... To start, I'm 20 years old and have been in a relationship with a guy of 32 (33 next month) for just over a year. I do love him but I'm unsu...

Why is he insisting on seeing me? He lied about having a girlfriend, which is why I stopped seeing him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

10 February 2011 (F) - What should I do with my ex? I dated this guy who is 9 years older than me. He kept playing mind games with me throughout the time of us being together. He lied to me about his girlfriend saying they weren't really together when they were. Long ...

Does my boyfriend really love me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

10 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I are been together for 3 years..we have an age gap..he's only 18 and im 20. Im his first gf and first sex..even though we have an age gap..we are still on the same college level..here's my problem..with the age of 18..he still ...

Dating someone older but there's no sex involved!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5063 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - Im 13 and i'm dating a 19 year old.. my mum knows about it but i don't know whether its illegal. I'm VERY mature for my age and normally go for older guys, but he's the oldest i have ever been with. Were not in a sexual relationship. I've told him ...

So sad... How do I mend my broken heart?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

8 February 2011 (F) - How do I mend my broken heart? my husband left me 3 weeks ago for another woman he has been seeing on and off for years. will their relationship last i so want to see it spiral down the toilet. i can't sleep or eat my whole world has ended. i feel ...

How can I break it to him that I'm pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5064 days ago

8 February 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months and we love each other very much. He is 20 years older than me and because of this I think he is embarrassed to bring me around his family. I'm pretty sure they don't even know he has a girlfriend. Mine on ...

Should I be worried that I don't hear from her as much or is she genuinely busy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5063 days ago

8 February 2011 (M) - I have been dating a woman 10 years younger than me for about a month and a half. When we first met it was instant fireworks. She called me every day texed me all the time and told me how much she misses me. She does live an hour away, is going t...

I don't want to do anything rash that'll make me look like I'm desperate.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5063 days ago

8 February 2011 (F) - I am a 25 year old woman, who's working and I'm in a relationship with a 21 year old boy. We met about 8 months back, when I was on holiday and at the time we met. I had just broken up with my previous boyfriend of 5 years. It was love at first ...

Why does my husband lie about my age to everyone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5063 days ago

7 February 2011 (F) - Hi, My husband and I are very far apart in age. He is 15 years my senor. I am 30 and he is 45. We are very happy together and are going to have a baby now. I've never had a problem with his age and we are quite compatible. But, everyt...

Do you think it will last or will he want something more serious?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

7 February 2011 (F) - Hey everyone, I just need your opinion on something I've had on my mind lately, whether you think I'm being paranoid or not. ...I have been with my boyfriend for 9 months he is 31 and I'm coming up 21, so this guys 10 years my senior and in h...

Was I prudent, or prudish?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

7 February 2011 (M) - So a question I asked earlier ignited another one in regard to a previous but brief relationship. It was only the second time I've ever terminated a courtship, and both times I've felt bad about it. Anyways, I had started seeing a younger woman....

Am I being played by an older man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

7 February 2011 (F) - Im 19 and I have being seeing someone for the last 3 months. He is 26 and has a really good job and is always busy with work. We live really close to each other like a 5min walk. We met over a social network site, although we live close I didnt know ...

My crush on an older man...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

7 February 2011 (F) - I have had a crush on an older man for many years now and i dont know how to get over it. If any of you ever had a crush on an older person, how long did it last and how did you get over it? ...

He played me for a fool!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5067 days ago

6 February 2011 (F) - Hello, Here is my story in very short version. We met at work 3 (years ago) still work together. We never really dated, but where close (a least what I thought) there is an age difference between us 10 years; he is younger 30 I’m 40. We where ...

Should I pursue a relationship with him because he really really makes me happy and he is very sweet?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5067 days ago

6 February 2011 (F) - Ok I am 15, and I am "talking" to a guy who is 20,21 in march. No one in my family knows because my mom and my brother dont like him at all, due to past events. My best friend Liz, who is like a sister to me, supports me fully because she and her ...

Is it wrong for me to date her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5067 days ago

6 February 2011 (M) - theres this girl i work with. o feel quite compelled to date her. i turn 18 soonish, and shes only 16, is it wrong to date her even without sex, or is it reasonable with the age of consent being 16?...

Older Women are Dating Younger Men Today

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

5 February 2011 (M) - One question which is quite interesting but is also quite personal is how did their own relationships go in the past? Why are the older women dating younger men? Were there problems, did something happen in the past that has stopped them from dating ...