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writes:Hello,Here is my story in very short version. We met at work 3 (years ago) still work together. We never really dated, but where close (a least what I thought) there is an age difference between us 10 years; he is younger 30 I’m 40. We where attracted to each other and still are I think. (we were sleeping together) I can’t explain why I stay in this situation for such a long time, red flags where all over but I guess I was in love with him, still am and I didn’t see all these things. He never really wanted to take me out or invited me to his place claiming that he is very busy, working all the time on the weekends. we where seeing each other like once a week, some times not even usually after work, we were most of the time seeing in the car on the parking lot. I saw him couple of times with other women, when I confronted him he was claiming that they are his friends, I believed him. however some how I knew that something was off. this past weekend he told me that he has a 1.5 year old daughter but is not in a relationship. It was like someone dropped a bomb on my head, I was trying to discuss this with him, and he doesn’t want it, finally told me that he is not interested in me and im not what he is looking for.I also find out that he is seeing another woman, he probably did for all the times he was seeing me. I’m devastated and heart broken and don’t know what to do.The worst part is that we work together and I see him every day. He is pretending now that he dosent know me at all. Please help, any advice will be really appreciated.daisy
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reader, TEM +, writes (7 February 2011):
 I'm very sorry for your pain and that this jerk took such advantage of you. In the three years you were seeing him, he never took you out in public or back to his house. That's a long time.
My suspicion is that he lives with someone. I think he realized you finally figured it out and the jig was up.
You can do better than this creep. Don't waste another minute's grief on him. Pretend like you don't know him either and do your job. He'll get his. Karma is a bitch.
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