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Archived questions from: April, 2011 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

Why am I feeling so hesitant about a relationship with this younger guy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - I have been chatting with this guy for almost a year. We have seen each other 3 time (he lives out of town). Although, I am still unsure of my feelings for him "I run hot and cold" so does he. We have some sort of connection that brings us ...

How can I make him learn to like me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - OK, Im 14 but i really like a 19 year old.... I just need advice on to how to make him to learn to like me? Help?...

I heard she's dating a married man... but I want her back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4979 days ago

30 April 2011 (M) - i had a relationship with a woman older than me 4 years. she is my boss. she helped me get into that job. she is divorced with a kid of 7 years old. i dammed her 8 months ago. we still work together. i made a move on her 3 weeks ago and i took a big ...

How do I draw this man closer to me and away from his work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - Hi, I am a 22 yrs old girl. I met a guy online who is 39 years old.After we spoke for online for sometime, he asked me for an Open relationship. At that point of time , i has no clue what does that mean. So i just agreed to be friendly with him....

I want to study in scotland to be with my boyfriend, but so many concerns. I need some advice please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - I am in a LDR with my boyfriend who is back in Scotland, where is was born. He is 31 and I am 18. I want to go to Scotland to study at University, and also to start a life with him. But i am not sure what criteria i have to meet to do this. And i ne...

Crazy about an older man who is already in a relationship....how do I forget about him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4986 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - Hello, I'm a 20 year old girl in love with a 16 yrs older man, who actually has a family (he is not married, but he has been in a relationship for about 6 yrs, and also has a little son). If he would be single, I didn't care about the age ...

How should my friend go about having a relationship with a younger man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4984 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - dear cupid, my girlfriend does not have a computer and she needs some good advice. she is single 42, and the younger guys seen to be attracted to her. from 22 to 34. she wanted to no if that is ok.? she is seeing a 27 year old right now. he has a ...

My teacher kissed me! I don't know what to do or how to handle this!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

25 April 2011 (F) - I KNOW ITS KIND OF LONG BUT PLEASE I NEED ANSWERS. Ok well i get along great with my maths teacher. hes funny, easygoing and a great teacher! We always have a laugh in class as well as getting the work done, but one day some of my friends started ...

Ladies, would an effeminate man who had a male roomate at forty and flirted with younger students attract you?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

25 April 2011 (F) - I asked a q before about a guy who may be gay. He is good lookong, very intelligent and highly educated. He is effeminate but he doesn't dress "gay." However, mamy people who meet him for the first time think he is. His colleagues think he is. ...

I don't want to risk the friendship, but she might be "the one"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4989 days ago

25 April 2011 (M) - I need help and fast. I'll cut to the chase with this one: Boy meets girl, they become great friends and boy soon falls in love with girl. Lots of complications including distance and an age gap but boy goes out of way to make romantic gesture...

How do I get over and out of this? I'm 16. He's 30 and I fancy him, but I don't want to.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

24 April 2011 (F) - hey, i know you may think i'm a kid but all the same i need help with this all the same. last week i stayed with my boss for the week to do this training/boot camp thing. he offered that i stay with him so that i can do it. in fact he was very e...

I'm 17 and my BF is 47!! Scared for the future...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

24 April 2011 (F) - I am 17 and my boyfriend is 47. Thats a 30 year age difference...now, I don't have a problem with that, by it makes me so depressed when I think about the future. He will die so early, and I don't want to be alone..I love him and he is the only man ...

Does anyone else get turned on by older men

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4987 days ago

24 April 2011 (F) - Hey guys i was wondering if anyone else felt this way? Im 24 and i just go out of a bad five year relationship with someone that was 29, but lately i have been very attracted to men who are older like mid thirties or forties. People say im a very p...

Feel very uneasy after older guy asked me out, and am not sure what to do.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

23 April 2011 (F) - Hello aunts! I would like to start off by saying that I am 14 and a high school freshman. Four days ago, an 18 year old high school senior asked me out. Please don't judge the ages, I am aware. He's leaving for boot camp next fall and I do n...

Do you think he might want a relationship in the future?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4992 days ago

22 April 2011 (F) - Me and this guy who is 10 years older than me, I'm 26 and he's just turned 36. We are really good friends, and are quite close. Well a couple of months ago, I told him I have feelings for him. He said, it's one sided and that he cant give me what I ...

I'm 43, he is 23......can it work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

21 April 2011 (F) - I am 43 and started seeing someone who was 23. When i met him he was sharing a house with 2 other guys and was basically "single." To be honest, I didnt really care if or who he was dating, because I never intended to get involved with him. We ...

Is our age gap too great? I look much younger than I actually am.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4994 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - I am nearly twenty and he is thirty one. Is that too much of an age difference? I know others that are his age and older and I would regard them as scarily older than me at times but with my boyfriend that's never there. I feel almost as though ...

I'm only 16 and I think this 36 year old likes me, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4994 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - Hey guys, i need some help..so i'm 16 and i'm pretty sure that my 'ex' neighbour at 36 (who i've had a crush on for a LONG time) is coming on to me. He used to live across the road from me with his partner and their daughter at 3 years old. I'v...

I help out with my sister's kids, but she doesn't dress them appropriately...How do I get out of this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4994 days ago

20 April 2011 (M) - Ok look. I try to help out my sister by helping take her kids, my nephews and nieces places. I don't mind doing that, I helped "raise" them in a sense (and I am thankful for that, and it was in no wise any thing to take away from thier real mom and ...

Guys: Do you all want a younger woman?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4984 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - Guys, tell the truth, do you REALLY want a younger woman than the one you are with now? I am in a relationship with a man 15 years my senior. The other day I asked him if he woud date a woman in her 40s he said no, in her 30s he said no (even...

I really like him but I find him too 'touchy'

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4995 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - Okay so im new to the whole dating thing (late bloomer) i'm 17 and im dating a 20-something year old,so i haven't told anyone about him we havent gone out on a proper date yet because i always avoid making time, but we tend to just spend time ...

I'm 13 and dating a 20 year old, my friends are telling me to be cautious. Please help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4995 days ago

19 April 2011 (F) - Hey everybody.. I want some advice I am dating a 20 year old and I am 13... He is very sweet but I'm still scared because all my friends are telling me to be careful. He said " no matter how long u want to wait to loose ur virginity I will wai...

I'm not sure what do about my current relationship or this other guy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4996 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - What do you think about my situation with the guy I am dating and his friend?. I'll call the guy I am dating C, and i'll call his friend J. J winks at me a lot, and I knew him before C, as I saw him in a bar once and he kept looking at me then. On ...

Falling for my sister's best friend, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4906 days ago

18 April 2011 (M) - My younger sister recently moved in with her life long friend "Katie", they are both 19. Katie has a 1 yr old son from her ex bf, whom is an a**. They dated all through out high school but he always played mind games with her. I have always looked ...

Is it a waste of time to make things work with my older guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4996 days ago

18 April 2011 (F) - So I'm in love with this guy 8 years older than me, we were gonna have sex last saturday but my mom wouldn't let me go out.. the thing is that im 16 and he's 24. I haven't told anyone but a few friends my status with this guy, I've given him head, ...

What would you think of this age difference?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4996 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - Please be as brutally honest as your thoughts might be. If you saw an 18yr old girl walking down the street holding hands with a grey haired 49yr old man what would you think? Thank you for your time xxx...

He's hot and then cold. Has he lost interest?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4997 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - I think he's lost interest. He hasn't talked to me, and when I tried talking to him, he didn't say much. I don't know what to do. One minute he's completely attracted to me and likes me, wants to hang out, and the next, I'm nothing? I know that on...

Is it wrong if my boy friend is 8 months younger than me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4996 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - im 14 and my boyfriend is 8 months younger than me people keep saying that its wrong because im older insted of the guy is it?...

Infatuated with coworker, but don't want to ruin my marriage. Any help would be appreciated.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4995 days ago

16 April 2011 (M) - I've been married for 10 years, we have 2 young kids and the marriage is not bad, but not in great shape either. Life is repetitive and somewhat stale. I have an infatuation with a workmate that is under control from an outsider's persp...

I’m in love with a much older man.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4774 days ago

16 April 2011 (F) - I’m in love with a much older man. I myself am only 17, but he is 60. I know that he’s far to honourable to share my feelings but sometimes it feels like he might. We’ll sit on his couch for hours and listen to music, he tells me about the bands and ...

Everytime we would get close he would back off and start acting like I'm his little sister! Should I wait for him or just move on?

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15 April 2011 (F) - Firstly, when i met this guy, he said he got an ex who dumped him for his best mate. Then, we chatted a lot and was going quite well. He flirted but in harmless way (totally acceptable).. we're just friends sorta type...but everytime i seem to be ...

In love with a guy who won't date me because of my age.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - Ok, this might sound a little odd but I really need some help if you can give it! I am in love with a guy I met once about six weeks ago and spent only about 3 hours with him. He barely knows I exist, I am sure he doesn't even remember that nig...

Is there a problem with this age difference?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

12 April 2011 (M) - Honestly is the a problem dating a 28yrs woman if you are 21yrs old man. We both love each other a lot. ...

My older partner is pregnant but our families are stopping us from being together!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5002 days ago

12 April 2011 (M) - im in a very big confusing situation. I met a woman 8 yrs older than me at work we fell in love for one yr and few months now. I called a meeting with parents and this woman. my mom thinks she is too old for me and she also dont like her mom about ...

I don't know if I should have sex with him, I don't want him to disappear!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4999 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - Hello! I'm 20 years old, right now i'm dating a guy that i've been crazy about him for a year. We've been seeing each other for like one month, and thing's are getting a little bit crazy. He is 28 year's old, I had sex with one person, one time, and ...

He lied about his age, should I see him again?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4992 days ago

11 April 2011 (?) - Ok I got know this guy over the phone, we talk everyday and text. recently went on a date with him and found out he lied about his age. Turns out he is 9 yrs older tha me, there were a few other little things that I didnt really like, but these ...

Is this the wrong way to go about it? I'm using someone else to make my teacher jealous.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

10 April 2011 (?) - i am 18 and i am in a short term relationship with another 18 year old but it isn't serious i don't even have feelings for this guy i am with i know that sounds so awful but i don't. My reasons for dating this guy is... i have feeling for this old...

I look way older than my age and dislike that!

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10 April 2011 (M) - Hey everyone. i need ur opinion about this thing, i look way older than my age, and in my early twenties but i can easily be taken for a 30 years old guy, i dont know if this is actually a good thing cox i dont like it !! i feel like when im in ...

Parents don't approve. Should we continue to sneak around, or just wait until she is older?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

9 April 2011 (M) - I'm 17 and my girlfriend is 16 we've been friends for 2 and half years and just recently started going out. Even before we started dating her parents didn't know I existed (they don't want her to have any communication with the opposite sex). And i ...

Should I go for this older divorced guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

9 April 2011 (?) - i have feelings for this older guy. he is 27 i am 18 in the uk i don't know weather to make my feeling known we are close and talk all th4e time. i am very flirty towards him but i don't know if he notices? he is recently divorced becaus...

Husband has anger issues. How do I deal with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

8 April 2011 (F) - Should I give my husband a second chance? We have been together for almost 11 years. My daughter was 7 when we met. He was very affectionate, and was very good with my daughter. The only thing I found out about him is that he has problems with ...

She's 30 years younger than me, should I not get involved?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

8 April 2011 (M) - I met a woman on holiday who is 30 years younger than me. We both know this is not long term but we enjoyed ourselves. She wants to visit me in my home. My children are grown up and don't live at home. I am separated for 6 years. Is it best to ...

He was 30 years older than me, but I still can't get over our break-up.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

8 April 2011 (F) - Isn't life ridiculous..... it makes me fall in love with a man 30 years older than me and then it makes us break up because we cant be together properly.... I loved him so much and still do...... How I wish we could get back together..... How ...

After 4 years I think he wants to end things but won't express his feelings

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

8 April 2011 (F) - I hope someone may be able to help advise me. i ahve been in a realtionship with a guy 6 years younger than me for 4 years now. Mostly things are fantastic and we are good friend and have great respect for each other and allow each other to follow ...

I want him to talk to me first at the gym. How?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - Simple question and may sound ridiculous men, but i want an honest answer please.Firstly, I know that every guy is different in what they like.... What i want to know is if you were at the gym and you noticed a girl, what would she do that woul...

People who are in a marriage with a 30-year age difference.....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - I'm really REALLY in love with a man 30 years to my senior, but I worry about our age difference. I have done so much internet research and found so many similar cases with a biiiiig age difference, but none of them really answered my question. ...

Is he right about our relationship? Will I be missing out? Will we both end up getting hurt?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - i'm 18 and i'm dating a 26 year old. though unorthodox, we persued our relationship. through the protective older brothers and sisters, judgmental extended relatives, and questioning parents; we came out as happy as ever and perhaps ...

Is it wrong to date an 18 year old? She's still a virgin.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5000 days ago

7 April 2011 (F) - I'm 31 and have never gone out with a girl this young. She's 18 but she's quite mature for her age and doesn't look young either. Sometimes I forget she's 18 and feel like I'm speaking with a grown woman. She's not even "really" woman since she ...

I'm 26, she's 17, is it wrong to pursue a relationship?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

7 April 2011 (M) - Im a 26 year old guy and iv recently been seeing a 17 year old girl, we have literally everything in common and get on so well. Been out on a few occasions and we both like eachother. Would it be wrong to ever start a relationship??...

Sexual encounter btw an 18 yr and 25 yr? legal yes but is it ok?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

6 April 2011 (F) - Thoughts on a recent high school graduate having sex with a 25 yo? Or a college sophomore dating a 26 yo? I know its legal but is it appropriate?...