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Archived questions from: April, 2010 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

A 26-year old man is beginning to fall for me after his fight with an ex; how can I solve this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - Hey, I know this may sound weird, but i'll give it a shot: My best friend's boyfriend's brother is almost 26 years old. He recently found out that his girlfriend had an affair with his brother, and was freaking out. Since my bff, her bf and i always ...

Into older men and don't know what to do about it! Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - I am 18 and I can not imagine myself with guys my age! I think there is a problem with me. Whenever I have a fantasy or anything about making out or having sex, I always see myself with old men, and by old I mean men in their 40s and 50s! I am a ...

Big age difference--I'm afraid of being rejected so I don't show how I feel

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - I have met somebody who I find completely lovely in every way. He is funny, really smart, he makes me smile all the time, and we share a lot of the same interests, I feel like we kind of have a connection but I'm not sure if he feels the same way. ...

Weird fantasy???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

29 April 2010 (?) - Hello, thanks for your time! I'm 18 and in a long distance (Leeds to London) relationship with a man who is 45, he travels down every other weekend, it's been over a year we've been together now... To spice things up some more we decided we'd admit ...

I miss the man that sexually abused me as a child! I want a friendship with him but can a leopard ever change it spots?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - I need some advice, When I was 13 I met a man who was almost 60, and we struck up a bizarre friendship. He understood me and advised me as I was having a lot of personal problems. He took care of me, he gave me lifts places, he listened to me, and i ...

Watching porn with older men normal??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - Hi there, I have a question I enjoy watching porn and have several fantasies that I would NEVER act out in real life. Trouble is recently I have been going back over in my head porn scenes that I have watched in the past. I have fantasies a...

I tried to forget that teacher but now he's coming on to me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

26 April 2010 (?) - Hey, i'm a 14 year old girl,, I wrote here before,, about teacher/pupil chrush,, and everybody just told me to forget him (my teacher), it would never work so, I belived them,, and tryed to forget him, but it was really hard. And when I was u know, ...

Strong feelings for my first cousin

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5292 days ago

26 April 2010 (M) - ok i need some advice, you see i like my fist female cousin more then a cousin and i think she feels the same way because when were around each other we hold hands and hold each other. we also say i love you in person and over the phone. we dont ...

Want to be with older man but I always say the wrong things to him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

25 April 2010 (M) - Well I find myself always having this guy run through my head. i want him in my life and i wanna spend time with him. The problem is I'm 18 and he's 31. I've always thought of myself mature for my age. But being gay and just recently coming out ...

She's 3 years younger than me, should I be backing away?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

24 April 2010 (M) - Helloo, I'm 17, 18 in August, and I recently started talking to this girl who I met in school about 3 years ago and I've kind of started to like her, we kissed today but there's one problem, she's 14 and not 15 until May. My best friend says I s...

Is it ok to go out with a 12 year old when I'm 16?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

24 April 2010 (M) - Is it ok to go out with a 12 year old girl when im 16. No its not about sex thats completely retarded at this age. She admitted she liked after her mom told me....

20 year age gap in a relationship..thoughts?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

23 April 2010 (F) - I'm 21 and he is 44. We have been dating for 3 years. We went to tell my parents together about a year after we first started dating but I got mixed signals from my parents on the subject so I decided to wait until I was 21 to tell them. We'r...

Is my boyfriend who is says he is?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

23 April 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a few months and we're pretty serious...We talk everyday and about everything...He is my first real adult relationship and I've fallen in love with him. The problem is that is older than me (I'm 24), my family ...

Will I look back and regret sleeping with a 46 year old man?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

23 April 2010 (F) - Hi, thanks for your time, I'm 17 and the guy I'm having casual sex with is man who is 46, with the benifit of hindsight will I look back and think what he is doing is wrong? It's just a pattern I've noticed throught life, as I get older I look bac...

Is this a new trend? Twenty-somethings hitting on 40-somethings?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

23 April 2010 (F) - To all of the men out there. I am 48 years old and have been getting hit up on by gorgeous guys in thier early 20's. Is this a new trend going on? Are these guys just looking for sex? FYI i have not been going out with any of them because of the ...

In love with my friends mom but getting mixed signals!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

23 April 2010 (M) - Hi Im 32 Ok what started out as a crush , over the last few years I developed feelings for my friends mom 53 at first it was innocent . I once left my cell with her because we cant talk in private because her husband found out I slept with one of ...

Should I tell my parents about him now, or wait until I am fully independent? He's 4 years older than they are.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

22 April 2010 (F) - I have a question involving age difference. I have been dating a man for a year now, I just turned 20 and he is turning 43. We both are very serious about our relationship and I feel we have been very realistic when it comes to dating and the ...

I'm 18, she's 14 and may be pregnant. Could her dad file charges?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

22 April 2010 (M) - I'm 18 and she is 14 turning 15 in less than two months she might be pregnant?Her mom has legal custody her dad doesn't,does that mean only her mom can determine whether to press charges,but her mom is okay with me and her daughter.Help me? what do ...

I'm 18 and I'm in love with my teacher 30 years older than me. Please help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

21 April 2010 (F) - I've been in 3 long relationships, all of them lasting longer than a year and a half... Plus many many before that. So I've experienced quite a bit. The feeling I get when I think of my teacher, well, it's much different. It's like a platonic ...

My parents won't accept my boyfriend because he is only 2 years younger than they are!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

20 April 2010 (F) - Hi I am 24 years old, my boyfriend is 40. I have 2 boys, and their dads aren't reslly around. I'm not trying to replace their dads i just want a male figure in their lifes. I have dated guys my own age and the don't want the same ehings as me. I've ...

I know I am number 1, ..but it is hard knowing there have been so many other number 1 women throughout his life.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

20 April 2010 (F) - i'm in an age gap relationship, and there's one thing that has been an annoyance in that. everythings great, but i keep bumping into small things that make me realize our 19 year difference, and how much he has been through in love. im 18, hes 37. ...

In love with 22 year old teacher

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

18 April 2010 (F) - hi, im a 15 year old girl and i really feel i have fallen for my 22 year old teacher. i make excuses for myself, make it okay in my mind since there is only a 7 year difference in age and that if i was 20 then he would be 27 and that isnt weird at ...

I like my dad's cousin who is 10 years older than me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

18 April 2010 (F) - ok i have a huge problem and i cant keep it bottled up anymore i think i like (actually i dont think i like him i no that i like him) my dads cousin he is 10 years older then me im turning 20 and he is turning 30 i dont see him much maybe once ...

Is it wise to propose given our age difference?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

17 April 2010 (M) - I am 45 years old and love a girl of 27 years age. We date each other but never discussed marriage. I have never found out whether she is interested to marry. Is is wise to propose a marriage ? Is there an issue with the age gap ? ...

My daughter puts hurdles in my personal life!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

17 April 2010 (F) - Hello all, this is my first story-problem I would like to share with you all and expect your comments and advice. I am almost 37 years old woman and i have a sweet but bossy teenage daughter.I live outside Detroit just with her, since im divorc...

Does he like me or am I just hoping that he does?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5332 days ago

16 April 2010 (F) - I work with this guy I'm 24 and he's 38 I know its a big age difference but it doesn't matter.. I'm trying to figure out if he likes me so I can do my best to tell him how I feel. We both have the same rank in the job we are both apart of ...

I'm 17, how would I look if I dated a 15-year-old?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

16 April 2010 (M) - I'm 17 and I'm wondering is dating a girl that is 15 and a freshman is that low class? She is really nice but would that make me look bad...

My girlfriend and I are depressed. How can I get her to open up more, eventually love me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

16 April 2010 (M) - A little background info... I've been dating my girlfriend maybe 4 months, known her for 2 1/2 years before that. I'm 16, will be 17 very soon. I have depression, insomnia, and a bunch of other crap. My girlfriend is 19, will be 20 before I'm 17, ...

How should I bring it up and when should I tell him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5333 days ago

15 April 2010 (F) - Okay, so basically im in love. Actually im pretty sure I am. Please don't leave comments saying wait, or he's too old, or something that will piss me off and make me hate myself and life even more. Thanks. So, I like this guy who is 6 years older ...

I really want to kiss him but I don't know if he feels the same!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5333 days ago

15 April 2010 (F) - ok so theres this boy in my neighborhood i like, hes been my bff for like 2 years i really wanna kiss him but i dont know if he would kiss me or not! he's 1 year younger than me and im 14 need advice! thx...

How do I explain to her my situation without losing her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

15 April 2010 (M) - I've been seeing a lovely woman for over two months now and we get along perfectly well and we have a close and intimate relationship. She recently moved to my city (and the country) while I have been here for over a decade. There is a big a...

I love her but she's worried about what people would say

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

14 April 2010 (M) - Hello everyone, am jus writing coz i really need sum advice and hope you can help me. I'm an 19 year old lad who recently has been seein a 34 year old woman for the past two months. I have known her for about three months and i first met her when i ...

He never exactly said it, but he didnt correcj me. When is a gray area considered lying...and does it indicate a pattern of deceit?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

14 April 2010 (F) - Do you think if a guy lies about what he does for a living it says something more about himself? Do you think he's lying about other things? Or he's just a liar in general? The weird thing is, that he hasn't technically lied about his work. ...

Have I lost interest in sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

14 April 2010 (F) - Something strange has happened to me, after a strange first relationship at 16 I ended up celibate for a year BUT now I have no sex drive and I find sex a chore, argh!! Have I lost interest in sex (i still enjoy the emotional aspet)...

I'm 16 and want to date a guy who's 19

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

14 April 2010 (F) - i jus turned 16 3 days ago and i want to be with a guy whos 19 since december, matt. he graduated from my school last year (im a sophomore right now), hes ridiculously sweet, always tells me im beautiful and that he would do anything to be with me. ...

I want to be with someone my own age, but can't afford to leave my older boyfriend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

14 April 2010 (F) - I been dating my boyfriend off and on for ten years now and have been living together for the last six, not only has there been no mention of marriage, he is also very dull and boring, see he is 41 and I'm 28 and he never wants to do anything or go ...

Do I leave him and try to cope on my own?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

13 April 2010 (F) - I've met this much older man after my divorce. I was so desperated that in my mind any man will do. We have been together a few years. I am still young and he has aged a lot and health has gone downhill. I still like him but not sexually ...

He is in a band and 10 years older than me! I like him..should I date him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

13 April 2010 (F) - I have a problem. I think I like someone who is in my cousins band. We have met before but that was a couple years ago and we saw each other a while. But now I added him on myspace and I just have a feeling that I like him. I don't know what I ...

He's 2 years younger..is it wrong to date him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5336 days ago

12 April 2010 (F) - is it wrong to go out with someone 2 years younger than you, theres this guy i like but hes 2 years younger than me and im scared of what people may say what should i do ?...

Is this a big age difference?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

12 April 2010 (F) - there is a man who is 11 yrs older whants to marry me ,,iam 22 and he is 33,,is it a big age diffrence??...

I lied about my age, should I tell him the truth?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

11 April 2010 (F) - I am a 42 year old woman who often gets mistaken for being much younger. My problem is that I met a guy who is 37 and I lied (as i don't like to devulge my age) and said I was 38. I didn't think we would continue but it seems we have a spark ...

He's 50, I'm 18, His ex drives me mad

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

11 April 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together a year and a half. He's 50 and i'm 18(not a problem for either of us). He is currently living with his mother because he's trying to save to get a place for us. He has two children: a boy of 15 and a girl of ...

My boyfriend says he needs space and is being distant

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

11 April 2010 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 months now. when we were first an item we would spend so much time together like every weekend, as well as a couple nights during the week. and on weekends i would go over his house and spend time wit...

She told me to text her, I did, but so far no answer

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

11 April 2010 (M) - Hi, i'd really appreciate your views on my situation. Basically, i've been on 2 dates with a girl. First date we had a couple of drinks at a local pub and ended up having a kiss at the end of the evening. Second date we both ended up getting drunk...

He still lives with his parents -- should I wait for him to grow up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

11 April 2010 (F) - I am 29 and have two kids both boys. I am seeing a guy who is 23 and still lives with his mom and dad. We want to be together but his family doesn't want us to be. He says he has to obey his parents. Which if he was a child I would understand but he ...

Is she flirting, interested, what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

11 April 2010 (M) - I've hit a stumbling block here. About two months ago, a friend and I went to a restaurant for dinner. The waitress, a very bubbly attractive younger girl captured my attention. I noticed she kept looking at me, giving the flirty smiles and paying ...

Why does he hide our conversations from my sister?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

10 April 2010 (F) - Hi Agony Aunts and Uncles, I have a problem. I sometimes talk to my step-brother-in law ( step sisters husband) on facebook chat. He is 20 years older than me. He often helps me through bad phases by talking to me on there, he's been through a l...

Should I go there or would it be unwise?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

10 April 2010 (F) - there is this guy i might be into he is 8 years older then me please help theres this guy i've known because he is my sisters husbands friend he always gets me into this night club that you have to be 18 to get in..and he is super nice one night m...

He knows how I feel, but where does he stand?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5338 days ago

10 April 2010 (F) - I have a few problems I can't really solve by myself. am a shy person naturally and although I can try to act normal with others when it comes to the man I like I find it harder to overcome my shyness and embarrassment around him. Not only th...

Do I have the right to flip and stop dating him? Or should I ignore the age discrepancy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

9 April 2010 (F) - I just typed in the e-mail address of the guy I'm currently dating into google, and it came up on 2 websites. They're random websites for cagefighting, but on one it says his age is 23, and on the other it says his age is 24. He told me he was 2...