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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi Agony Aunts and Uncles,I have a problem. I sometimes talk to my step-brother-in law ( step sisters husband) on facebook chat. He is 20 years older than me. He often helps me through bad phases by talking to me on there, he's been through a lot of problems similar to mine. Also he has a very similar sense of humor and mind as me ( somewhat crude ) But, I am getting confused by things now, when we are talking we have a little joke about things and it often cheers me up, but I find he only ever talks to me on there when my step sister is away. I don't mind that because maybe he would get into a fuss for some of the things we talk about ( I'm pretty open to him about nearly everything )but, if that was not the reason why would he do it?Anyway, that's not my problem, my problem is, I can't help becoming slightly attached to people like him, who help me when I need it most. It happened before with this boy who was 2 years older than me. I got into a lot more problems through getting involved with the last guy. I have no intentions whatsoever of becoming involved with my step sister's husband, I just want to be able to talk to him without feeling attached to the support he offers. How can I not become attached to him?P.S. I am 17 he is 37, he is very kind and I know he is not the type to take advantage.P.P.S. Your Help Is Greatly Appreciated xoxo
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2010): Honey, he's flirting with you. I would say it was safe to assume that he's trying to sneak around everyones back & talking to you to ultimately get somewhere...i.e. sex, affair or just something new & exciting even if no sex is involved. I would look at it & decide if any of it would hurt his wife? Either way I would totally suggest you stop & tell him that it's not cool to try & start up a relationship with you- especially on the sly! Then, if he's still sliming up towards you- tell your her yourself that her man's a creep & trying to get chummy with you behind her back. Unless of course you're not worried about hurting her or your reputaion & want to go for it. But that's hardly the route you should take. Good luck. And remeber- most guys are DOGS!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2010): I think that you should tell your sister that you talk to him a lot
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