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30-35,
*olaroid93
writes:Something strange has happened to me, after a strange first relationship at 16 I ended up celibate for a year BUT now I have no sex drive and I find sex a chore, argh!! Have I lost interest in sex (i still enjoy the emotional aspet)
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (15 April 2010):
 Hard to say. I like to blame hormones for everything though. So yes it could be just hormones playing a trick on you. Or you went without for so long that you got used to it and don't think its bad to go without.I definitely think that this wont last forever. Once you fall in love again it's quite common to become hornier. It could be just a phase. Wait it out and see. If it's still the same after a year, go see a doctor? There could be a hormonal imbalance (told you I love to blame it on hormones). But thats just one option.
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reader, RAINORFIRE  +, writes (15 April 2010):
 interesting well in my opinion sex s suposed to amplify a relation ship make two people closer spiritually physically and emotionally. so maybe its possible that if the sex you where having in your relation ship wasnt doing all that then i can se how it can feel like a chore especially at your age where many girls do things just to please others.
Im sure its just a phase teens have so much on their plate, im sure your desire will come back in time, but if not maybe you could speak with a medical professional in the field there could be some underlying issue.
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