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writes: Hey, i'm a 14 year old girl,, I wrote here before,, about teacher/pupil chrush,, and everybody just told me to forget him (my teacher), it would never work so, I belived them,, and tryed to forget him, but it was really hard. And when I was u know, almost getting him off my mind this happens; After class just yesterday, we were alone in the classroom cuz my stuff was all over the place and he helped me to pick it up (I told my friends to go ahead and save me a seat at lunch). We were finally done and I was going out when he asked me to wait to give me an exam back I had taken last week and I waited while he was writing my grade on the exam. Then he was going to let me have it but didn't let it go at first, just looked me in the eyes. And i kinda ribbed it off him and walked out, cuz i didn't want to get him on my brain again,, but i still have some feelings for him.. After lunch he had us in math class and he was often like rubbing my shoulders and staring at me and telling me jokes... it was fun at first,, I was sure he was just being friendly and stuff, but it was like that for 80 mins. class so it was getting kinda weird, by bff's noticed it too. And in break everyone ran out and I was just entering the hallway when he asked me to wait and then he told me to close the door and come. I was suspicius, of course, but I didn't stop. He started just to talk to me,, like compliment my handwriting and telling me that I'm doing good at school,,, and he was like getting closer and closer with his head 'til he was so close I felt his breath. And he leaned forward but then the bell rang and everyone ran in again. He had us in that class too andckept rubbing my shoulder and all that. And then school was over and I went home. And to day, he like kissed me, not like a long kiss but it was a kiss, I don't know if I kissed back, it was a total black out, I really don't remember anythong for like 5 mins after it but his smile.I really don't know what to do,, I mean it'll probably be the same tomorrow... !..... HELP! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2010): Thanks for the answer "RAINORFIRE",,, ! it was really helpful,,,that teacher is like 30 yrs old and i know it sounds crazy but he is kinda cute.... He kissed me again today,, just longer and i didn't push him away so i don't know if i can like tell him to stop or anything.... i just don't know.....
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reader, RAINORFIRE  +, writes (27 April 2010):
 he kissed you
How old is this guy either way hes an idiot.
what does he make as a teacher 40 50 thousand Australian dollars a yr, so basically this guy wants to be poor jobless and on a sex offenders list idiot.
My problem here is this guy may really really really like you and i can understand that you cant control who you like he may never ever meet some one who makes him feel like you do,
But it could also be hes just a predator out for an easy mark.
I think he really likes you and when your around him he starts to loose some of his rational thought, the thing is predators are real sneaky and smart this guys an idiot and sloppy and so im thinking hes infatuated by you.
so heres my advice if you like the guy and you dont want to see his life completely ruined to the point where he might as well just kill him self or let your dad or the guys in jail do it, your going to have to have a big girl conversation with him.
explain to him that you and him cant be togather and he knows why tell him you dont want to see him get in trouble etc, he might try to be slick and say that no one will find out blah dont fall for it the way i see it if this guy has any real love for you he could wait for or five yrs till your a grown woman for true love thats not along time.
Thats the nicest approach my advice could be different depending on how old he is and if hes married and some other things.
if the guy really likes you he can wait for you, if this where to get out it wont be good just the fact that he kissed you could land him in hot water.
I dont want to seem like im taking this guys side on here im not condoning or condemning any ones actions, I want the best out come for the poster, and im sure if she has feelings for this guy she wouldnt want to see him ruined.
Last but not least your still a kid after all and this might be more then you can handle and you shouldnt hve to deal with this alone its unfair for an adult to put you in this situation so if you need an adults help and you have one you can confide in speak to them.
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