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writes:there is a man who is 11 yrs older whants to marry me ,,iam 22 and he is 33,,is it a big age diffrence?? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2010): Age-wise, no. Experience-wise, yes. You're going to grow and change so much over the next decade. Give yourself a chance to grow and experience life before you settle down. Continue to date him if you want, but at 22 you don't need to be married to ANYONE.
Please enjoy your youth. Don't be so quick to tie yourself down.
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reader, Ich_liebe_dich  +, writes (12 April 2010):
 Nope" theres no big difference on your age.. i think its more good combination... good luck
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reader, love'me'tender  +, writes (12 April 2010):
Im just like you i am 23 and he is 35 i love him and thats all that matters.Wish u the best***
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reader, BettyBoup  +, writes (12 April 2010):
 Are you comfortable with the age difference? Do you think you can love and live with this man your whole life, reguardless of age? He will age earlier than you, does that matter to you? 11 is a significant age gap but it's not huge and not uncommon. There are many age gap relationships that have lasted and been happy. But you have to be sure in your own heart and mind that this man is right for you before you marry him, in every wya, not just in age.Good luck :)
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reader, malteser +, writes (12 April 2010):
 the age diffrence between my partner and myself is 15 years i am 21 he is 36 going to b 37 on the 16th. An age gap in a relationship only becomes a problem if you both feel that you are missing out on the things you want to do. I met my bfrienfd 2yrs ago and i have a baby who is 4 months old and i do admit that i rushed into it because i felt that he wasent getting any younger. i also sometimes feel like i am a 40 yr old because i live with someone who dosent want to go clubbing and the things i want to do he has been there and done that. The good thing is that when you have someone that is older than you they have the experiance to guide you in the right direction. If you are happy and dont feel that you are rushing into this or missing out on your youth then go for it. Remember that when you get older you cant turn back time and have fun like you would if you were young so dont miss out on the good years of your life
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (12 April 2010):
 That's not a big difference. If you want to know what a big difference is, when the girl can be the man's daughter.
If you love him , your love will transcends all barriers.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (12 April 2010):
Ask yourself if you're happy with him, and if you see yourself with him for the rest of your life. If you can truly answer yes to both questions, then you'll be fine. The fact that you're here asking this suggests you're not entirely sure about marrying him. Which means you probably shouldn't.
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