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writes:Okay. . .I know some of you will be tempted to think this a prank message and OH BOY I REALLY wish it was at the moment. My girlfriend and I got into "the mood" and decided to send sex messages and pics to each other. We were really getting into it that I guess I accidentally pressed 'back' on my phone and unknowingly clicked on my step-mom's text logs instead (Both their text logs were next to each other). I'm not sure if this is allowed but I need you guys to understand the gravity of the situation. My reply to my gf was "I don't want you to cum yet until I see you. That's my job.It wasn't until I waited for a reply that I realized the text had gone to my step-mother instead! Talk about killing the mood! I sent three rapid texts to her phone stating that it was a mistake and that I was speaking to my gf instead. It's been an hour and she hasn't replied yet. I don't know how to handle this.Part of me think this is funny and I should just laugh it off but a very huge part of me is extremely embarrassed and DREAD seeing my step-mom in person again. If there's ANY ray of light in this situation, it's that I didn't accidentally send her a pic of my junk like I was doing with my gf. Like I said, I know this will sound like a prank, I can only imagine. And TRUST ME, I really wish I was bluffing right now. On different circumstances this might make a funny story but right now, I'm just filled with anxiety and embarrassment. I don't know why, I'm an adult (20yo) and sex is normal. It's just something about letting parents into that world that really makes me feel like I was caught with my hand in the cookie jar.Does any one have any helpful advise for me?
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reader, RevMick  +, writes (12 May 2014):
 Hi,
I think she will have guessed it wasn't for her. Maybe had a laugh or just deleted it.
I think you are giving it far too much thought. Accidents happen and that's all there is to it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2014): Look on the bright side it could have been worse, she might of replied and sent a pic of herself! Lol. She sounds good and chooses to say nothing probably having a secret giggle herself. Remember She was yoing once.
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reader, Daisy_Daisy +, writes (11 May 2014):
 You have a cool step-mother ;)
Glad it all worked out ok.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2014): Thank you guys for your help. My step-mother texted back saying "I didn't know you had a girlfriend. When will your dad and I meet her?!"
She pretty much pretended the text I sent her didn't exist. I'm so relieved she taking it so lightly. It really puts me at ease knowing this.
I feel I can actually use this as a funny story someday, Thank you guys for the advise.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2014): I really feel for you, I am so sorry this happened. I hope you can eventually see the funny side of it.
If it helps AT ALL then things like this can kinda happen the other way around. I was with my ex partner for 15 years and, during that time, I always found his mother very lacking in boundaries, to the point where it became very difficult to handle. One night he was out and she phoned me, drunk, and insisted that I 'open up' to her about my sex life with her son. I refused, point blank. The more that I refused, the more she insisted. I eventually hung up the phone.
Even SHE, this woman who lacked boundaries, was embarassed the next time I saw her. So I'm saying if you think that 'grown ups' never make mistakes then rest assured they do. It may help you a little bit.
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reader, methuselah +, writes (10 May 2014):
Hello,
I would let this go now and just let the situation pass on. In the future, when it is not 'current' things will just carry on as normal.
As a funny story, to maybe help you feel better...I had to help my step=daughter(she's 29)and had to give her a series of car journeys to help her to and from a work's weekend. I gave her a lift there and then collected her to take her back to her house. A day later, her mum, (my wife) received a text from her saying 'she had left her shoes and underwear in my car! Could we bring it up when we next saw her.' After a private laugh with my wife, and a very embarrassed step-daughter, she realized what she had texted.
Obviously, she had left a bag in my car with her stuff in it. All perfectly innocent, but at the time, funny for wife and me but 'shocking' for her.
So really, what I am saying is, let this go. It really will be OK! Best wishes, M.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (10 May 2014):
At least she didn't respond that she always knew you wanted her.
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reader, Mark1978 +, writes (10 May 2014):
 She's probably horny as hell now! ;-)
Seriously I wouldn't worry. Cringe-worthy but a genuine mistake. Its not like the message was particularly explicit or dirty. Maybe she hasn't read the texts yet? older people often don't use there phones as frequently as younger folk.
Im sure in time you will look back and laugh. I would say nothing about it unless asked. If you see her just act as if nothing ever happened.
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reader, wise-guy +, writes (10 May 2014):
I agree with Daisy... She's probably just had a quiet laugh about it and doesn't want to say anything to shame or embarrass you.
She probably sees the funny side of it - this will be a funny story one day. I know it's pretty cringing but all will be forgotten
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reader, Daisy_Daisy +, writes (10 May 2014):
First of all, don't worry! Your step mother was probably a bit shocked but is laughing by now. You're 20, you have a girlfriend and a mobile phone ... I'm sure your step mother has some inkling that you are sexual with GF and I'm sure she's heard of sexting.
Don't send step mother any more texts, let her get over her own embarrassment/ shock. She'll be fine.
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