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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I am in a relationship of 2 years with a wonderful man. Before him, I was in a stormy relationship which was bordering jealously abusive from both sides.I love my present partner. Sex is good. The problem being I have never been able to let go of myself sexually with anyone, before, or after my ex. We did some really freaky things together, and it came natural. I miss that excitement. I miss being uninhibited.My ex was moody, immature and unpredictable, and I was kept on my toes.Why can I not stop missing him, even though the emotional side doesnt hurt any more?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2014): tiakef is correct. It is not him, it is the sex you miss.
do not be tempted to lose a good man because of it.
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (5 July 2014):
 Because you're masochistic?
Because you're feeling dangerously nostalgic?
Because you feel like hurting a good man who has loved, cherished, and nurtured you?
Because your ex has been contacting you and trying to drag you back into the abuse?
You should play in traffic before you take back a loser ex. Moody and unpredictable? You're in your 30's, so it is time to act like it and make decisions that show that you're now out of high school.
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reader, tiakef  +, writes (5 July 2014):
 The reason why you cant stop missing him even though it doesnt hurt emotionally, well you miss the sex and something in your ex made u let go like no other man has made u let go. its rlly jus that simple
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