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writes:I met this guy on an online dating site. We have hit it off very well. We talk on the phone everyday and make time to hangout with each other once or twice week because of our busy schedules.He's talked about inviting to his baseball games and wearing his jersey to him telling his friends about me. What time curious is that he still has a profile on the dating site that we met on, we have only been talking for two weeks but there is this very strong connection between is. How long do I give him to delete the profile, since things are starting to move forward? Do I mention something in a matter of months if he still has it? What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, llifton +, writes (23 January 2014):
 Is he still active on the site? Obviously you are still on the site, as well, if you are able to check to see if he's on there. Lol.
I would give it a minute before I said anything. No talks of exclusive dating have been made. And while it sounds as though he really likes you and is feeling good about things with you, you don't want to pressure him. Because after all, as said, You two aren't official.
Once things have progressed a bit further, and talks of exclusivity have been had, then bring it up.
Good luck.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (23 January 2014):
 If you two are sexually active, then it's reasonable to ask him to pull it. If you two are exclusive and he's calling you "girlfriend", then it's reasonable to pull it.
If you're not yet sexually active, then don't become so without a specific conversation about becoming exclusive and not dating other people either in person or online.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (22 January 2014):
Yeah, there's no reason for him to take it down until you guys have a committed relationship.
If you feel he just has to take it down because it bugs you too much, then go ahead and tell him. But don't be surprised if that bugs him.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (22 January 2014):
 It's reasonable to keep it up until you two decided to become official/exclusive.
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